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Regretting not swinging years ago

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By *r blue eyes123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norfolk Coast

I am now widowed and have started swinging on my own but I do regret not doing this years ago I think it’s far more successful if you’re a couple, my wife did suggest it but like an idiot I wouldn’t do it ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure your wife is looking down or up at you and is proud of you.

Enjoy enjoy and most of all enjoy yourself.!!

T

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By *illow-TalkMan
over a year ago

Shipston-on-Stour


"I am now widowed and have started swinging on my own but I do regret not doing this years ago I think it’s far more successful if you’re a couple, my wife did suggest it but like an idiot I wouldn’t do it , "

No time for regrets, can’t change the past but you can make a new future

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Better late than never!

Whilst you may regret not exploring it with your wife, it can be great fun. I've had 20 years plus and for the most part enjoyed it.

Not the best time for it with covid, but hopefully make some friends that you can meet in the future.

You may already have, sorry I never looked at your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I had started earlier too.

I was married and sexually frustrated for nearly 20 years of marriage. Only discovered the scene when I divorced.

Now feel I'm too old for the people I fancy.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Wish I ventured into the forums earlier on have learnt a great deal from here x

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By *arried bi2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Never too old

I wish I had done this years ago when hubby suggested it

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I wish I started in my early 30s and not late 30s.

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By *ustforfun1759Couple
over a year ago

IRVINE

We started swinging when I was in my 40s,and hubby in his 30s,it took me alot of talking my hubby into trying swinging,alittle jealous at first seeing him with a woman for first time but also excited and seeing her face when hubby took down his boxers. her face was a picture lol,to this day we are still good friends and chat on the phone so it's not just about sex brilliant friendships can be made also

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Wish I ventured into the forums earlier on have learnt a great deal from here x"

The forums are the best thing about fab, just make sure you own a tin helmet and popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This lockdown has made me mad at myself for not doing more when I had the opportunity. Sometimes I just felt to lazy to drive to a club or sauna. Now regretting the missed fun. Definitely can't wait for things to return to normal then definitely planning to make up for lost time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No regrets here. Don’t get me wrong, we wish we’d played earlier but would our relationship have taken it? We’re not so sure. Just means plenty of making up for lost time!

Cowboy x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Not necessarily op

I'm half a couple and we don't find it easy to meet other couples, there's the issue of four way attraction and connection. Then availability of 4 people if there's attraction.

We meet separately due to this

Glad you have found this community though and wish you lots of luck x

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By *iBloomCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthen

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By *iBloomCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthen

After years of friendship we finally got together......then married and after many years of discussions we finally came to the decision we would like to visit clubs and explore the swinging scene in........ 2020!

Bugger off Covid!

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By *r-OrangeMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes wish I’d gone to a club years ago

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By *r blue eyes123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norfolk Coast

You can’t turn back the clock so now there’s only me , hopefully I might find a mature couple for friendship with benefits or a mature local group would be good with times as they are .

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I myself honestly never thought would be possible for anything like this so been a pleasant eye opener but fulfilling meeting like minded people and catching up with lost youth things were a lot different but happy to be part of the experience to explore and making some lovely friends

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Timing is all and if a point is not the right one for you, then you'd not value it. I could deter you or harm a relationship.

It's different as a single man, so you can gain from that, once the virus is out of the way.

Take things steadily and not let the imagined missing out from the past, pressure you

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By *r blue eyes123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norfolk Coast

Lots of people on here with very warm hearts I thank you all without you fab wouldn’t be what it is xx

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By *corpio 50Man
over a year ago

waterlooville

Hi sane here older but had a few nice meets

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By *iseekingbiCouple
over a year ago

N ireland and West Midlands

No need to rush eh

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By *iseekingbiCouple
over a year ago

N ireland and West Midlands

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