FabSwingers.com forum: defriended

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Please can someone tell me why someone has defriended me as we are friends anyway ive seen his private pics is he trying to hide something from.me and what can he hide can anyone help please

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

Nobody can tell you except the guy himself,so you need to ask him that

I have been defriended by guys I've met previously and known many years,over the last few months,I've never bothered asking tbh,I could assume its because I wouldn't meet during pandemic,as they asked before defriending me,if anyone thinks like that,then I move on,anyone defriending me for any reason,just makes me think they no longer want to meet,so I won't meet them in the future,plenty more fish in the sea

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I think only he can tell you that, we can only speculate about the reason.

I am making a decision in my private life over a woman I’m currently communicating with over the Net (due to COVID we can’t Meetup) not sure we both are looking for the same thing. So I could break that off without giving a reason and leave her thinking the same as you, but that’s casual relationships for you. The reasons are just too complicated to throw a few messages at her and hope she understands.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Is it just this person has sanitised friends list . Might have unfriended a few none active on here people .. I do now n again

Or infriend those who I know would unlikely meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can’t dictate who unfriends you. They might have lost interest.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Perhaps it was a mistake, it could happen.

Other than that, you'll have to ask him. Unless he adds more photos in private, there is no reason other than the fact he doesn't want to be as close as he was. He hasn't blocked you, just unfriended. Not a big deal, not really unless you make it one.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Please can someone tell me why someone has defriended me as we are friends anyway ive seen his private pics is he trying to hide something from.me and what can he hide can anyone help please "

Who knows? Maybe even a slip of the finger and didn't mean to do it? Don't assume anything.

Also.. Worth remembering that "fab friends" is just a way to share pics on a website, a website that is rife with self interest.

It doesn't imply "proper" friendship. If it is of concern the only way to find out is to ask them. Hope you work it out.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Please can someone tell me why someone has defriended me as we are friends anyway ive seen his private pics is he trying to hide something from.me and what can he hide can anyone help please "

If you're friends anyway, ask him. How can we possibly know.

We've been unfriended by people we've met, it's their choice and we respect that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you we ate still friends i fid ask but he said as we chat anyway it doesn't matter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Still friends that's why i think gu.ny he ssid wr talk anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt take it personally,due to covid some ppl are being impatient,maybe thsts what it is.

I myself have recently removed a friend from my friends list,however I did let her know and that it was nothing personal,we hadn't been speaking much and when we did they were a couple of sentences,so I told her we weren't connecting...it happens.

I wouldn't worry too much OP,but dont ask him whatever you do,it'll come across needy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry we were unfriended by a couple we thought were really good friends. Its just the swinging world I think and plenty more fish in the swinging pond xx

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I unfriend people if we don't keep in touch, seems pointless to stay friends tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I unfriend people if we don't keep in touch, seems pointless to stay friends tbh. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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