FabSwingers.com forum: Lack of interest

By *hompsonM OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

What can I do better to encourage interaction with women

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Wait until the national pandemic is over?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And expand your profile quite a bit. Looks rather sparse.

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By *hompsonM OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"Wait until the national pandemic is over?"
I understand that, I am also not impatient and would like to speak with more people but not getting any replies or interest.

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By *hompsonM OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"And expand your profile quite a bit. Looks rather sparse. "
Appreciate that I will include more info

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask yourself if you stand out from the thousands of profiles on here?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe some clothed photos, rather than all in swimming trunks ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What can I do better to encourage interaction with women"

Honestly?

You need a better profile picture to start with, IMO.

Haven't read your profile, but perhaps woman don't get past the impression that you're not willing to put much effort in (that's what your profile picture, implies).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have no expectations then you can’t be disappointed.

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By *hompsonM OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"Maybe some clothed photos, rather than all in swimming trunks ?"
Fair comments thanks

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By *hompsonM OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"What can I do better to encourage interaction with women

Honestly?

You need a better profile picture to start with, IMO.

Haven't read your profile, but perhaps woman don't get past the impression that you're not willing to put much effort in (that's what your profile picture, implies)."
appreciate the feedback thanks

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

for me you've listed a very limited interests, none of which i like, so i wouldn't be interested - next!

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Urinals in the background of a profile photo... no thanks.

If you’re going to show off your torso in photos, it needs more work... or photos taken from more flattering angles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Urinals in the background of a profile photo... no thanks.

If you’re going to show off your torso in photos, it needs more work... or photos taken from more flattering angles. "

Of all the backgrounds possible...christ you can even change backgrounds easy enough with apps these days no experience needed.

Yet still time and time again single guys opt for the classic piss bowls and shitters in the background.

Not saying you are OP but that can suggest your here cheating and the bog is the only safe place to take a naked picture. Also its not exactly classy.

Just food for thought buddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Urinal pics very off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people will love your pics some will not. We are here to attract the one with similar interests to ourselves so keep doing you as opposed to changing your profile to suite others. Being on the forum is a great way as it allows people to get to know a little about you. Invented scenario here. A woman writes “I love a man with a suit on. When I see a man in a suit I don’t care if it’s Sloth from Goonies I’m gushing”. You have a photo of you in a suit. So you upload it. You then message her and send the photo that she’s already guaranteed to work on her. She doesn’t reply. Point is you can’t do what works for others only what works for you. It’s a absolute cop out but be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also the men above you and below you on any chat, search or inbox feed will be sexier, handsomer and better lover than you. To get attention from the tiny box that is your profile photo. Show something to catch their eye. Maybe a smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And pull your shorts up a bit! They look like they are about to fall down

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Urinal pics very off putting "

Especially with old toilet paper on the floor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take photos in toilets. There's nothing sexy about that at all

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By *ookMan
over a year ago

london

A tube of mattesons sandwich paste and some speedos ( if you can’t get mattesons a fun sized Mars bar can also work)...keep that to yourself though sssssshhhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What can I do better to encourage interaction with women"
win the lottery

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"What can I do better to encourage interaction with women"

OP...as others have said, you need to sort out your profile. However, more fundamentaly, sort out your expectations.

Nobody is obliged to reply (or even read) your messages.

You may find it easier to join in with conversations in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take note.. Us fems Do read profiles to an inch of their lives! So make sure all you say is 110% of what you want and can offer and are looking for. It's not the best time to be on here during a pandemic..

I am against the saying do's and don'ts as it says alot to see what men desire to put in their profile.. And is a deal breaker or maker for me as to whether I message them or not.

The profile has to be your own and real! Simples!

It's not about "what's best to put, to gain the most shags!"

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By *uietly torturedCouple
over a year ago

walkden

We've had a look at your profile and think you look more like you're trying to attract gay men who like to fuck in toilets than women. Even your interests are totally anal related. Sorry if this seems a little blunt but you did ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found being in a relationship with a woman and having a couple account works wonders.

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

I might get some slack for saying this but if you tightened up for diet a bit with some moderate exercise you could rapidly improve your shape.

I'm not talking about getting ripped, just losing a bit of excess fat. You could have a far more appealing shape in a pretty short time with some small lifestyle changes.

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

"What can I do better to encourage interaction with women"
Nothing you can do. Most women don't seem to be interested. All you can do is keep plugging away and hope for the best. Might be years or if your lucky,maybe even a few months.

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By *elvet_OrchidWoman
over a year ago

Banbury

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By *elvet_OrchidWoman
over a year ago

Banbury

Have to agree with others regarding showing urinals in the background.

Maybe crop that bit out of your photo .

Very off putting

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Echo what’s been said above. Your pictures need work as does your profile text. There are some great profiles on here, have a look at some other male profiles to see what you’re up against and get some ideas.

Plus it being illegal to meet at the moment means a lot of people aren’t putting much time into meeting new people at the moment, so you’ll really have to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change sex

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By *heSassyOneWoman
over a year ago

SE Michigan

Your profile needs more, you repeat yourself. Nothing stands out at all. Also, your pictures need to be sexier, not taken in locker room or bathroom. Us older women like to see men dressed nicely, be creative in words and pictures. Good luck

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Would love to know what you were actually thinking when you decided that urinals have a place in a good profile pic?? That alone would make me not want to look any further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always ask for advice and then not change anything. Especially the toilet one with bog roll on the floor!

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Talk about cake.....women love cake!

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By *otstuffbabeCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

You've had some great advise here and also on a similar thread a few weeks ago but you don't seem to have heeded any advice - main one being the public lavatory, half naked pics -

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By *attM73Man
over a year ago

Oldham

"Have no expectations then you can’t be disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hasnt answered any questions so i guess he is not interested

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

What do you write in a message when you first approach somebody? Most of the messages we receive are dreadful and we just delete them. If you are impatient, maybe you are writing something that is of no interest. Can you post an example of one of your opening messages?

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"What can I do better to encourage interaction with women

Honestly?

You need a better profile picture to start with, IMO.

Haven't read your profile, but perhaps woman don't get past the impression that you're not willing to put much effort in (that's what your profile picture, implies). appreciate the feedback thanks"

OP you are still posting asking the same questions but seemingly have made zero effort to make any changes to your profile. What’s the point? What’s your aim?

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