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By *ust1fb OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

I have a female friend we have never had sex or done anything she just a mate shes now asking me about the swinging.

Should I introduce to this scene when the law allows.

Should I take her to a club only

Or should I take her to a club and fuck her too .

Not sure what to do will I lose my friendship with her??

Advice please no wise cracks thankx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I woukd try having a very long conversation with her first and see what she wants OP.

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By *ust1fb OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

We have had long conversations.

She is single and divorced I think she is hinting to me that she wants to try .but we are mates I dont wanna ruin that .

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’d just show her this site and let her explore it from there tbh

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I’d just show her this site and let her explore it from there tbh "

This is a good idea. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely start her off on here and she how she goes and maybe that will give you the chance to guide her further.

T

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

Does she know you’re on the scene?

Like others have said, show her the site. Plus you can verify her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not suggest a night out at Pandora’s, strictly sober and just go as a voyeur couple as it were, if you value your friendship and don’t want to change the dynamic you have with her then don’t change it by complicating it unless you BOTH want to.

Nothing ventured nothing gained.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

As she's asked you about swinging tell her about fab. What was your very long conversation about if the subject of clubs and Internet sites didn't crop up?

Hinting and swinging don't go together well. Have another long conversation with her and ask outright if she'd like you as a guide or as a swinging partner. Also tell her that the most successful swingers are absolutely clear about what they want and open with the people they want to meet but most importantly with their swinging partner.

Good luck

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

You need to have a direct conversation with her about what she is looking for. Very important not to misjudge the situation if you have a friendship. Genuine friendships are valuable, don’t cross the line if you think it might ruin what you have.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

There’s a huge difference between being inquisitive and wanting to actually try.

To some the thought of doing it all is horn inducing enough. Actually going through with it is a wholly different matter.

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By *ust1fb OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"Does she know you’re on the scene?

Like others have said, show her the site. Plus you can verify her. "

I've shown her the site hopefully get her to create profile soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does she know you’re on the scene?

Like others have said, show her the site. Plus you can verify her.

I've shown her the site hopefully get her to create profile soon"

Instead of "getting" her to create a profile, you've shown her the site, talked about it ... how about just letting be what will be and leaving her alone! She's an adult and if she wants to make one she will, if she would like assistance I'm sure she's capable of asking but just let her do want she wants! As many have said in many threads most people like to keep here private from friends, family and work colleagues!!

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Just suggest a club visit where you both hang at the bar and socialise only. You’ll soon know what her level of interest is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just suggest a club visit where you both hang at the bar and socialise only. You’ll soon know what her level of interest is."

Very good advice. I lost a good female friend though fucking her. I will always regretvit also as we had been friends since nursery in school. john

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Does she know you’re on the scene?

Like others have said, show her the site. Plus you can verify her.

I've shown her the site hopefully get her to create profile soon"

What she does next is up to her. She's asked your advice once if she needs more advice she'll ask. If she does create a profile the one thing I'd say to tell her is to set her !message filters from the minute she opens her account.

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By *assage_MusicCouple
over a year ago

South East


"I have a female friend we have never had sex or done anything she just a mate shes now asking me about the swinging.

Should I introduce to this scene when the law allows.

Should I take her to a club only

Or should I take her to a club and fuck her too .

Not sure what to do will I lose my friendship with her??

Advice please no wise cracks thankx"

A club visit if she is prepared to go. But she may find clubs too much at first, so a sensual show, as others suggested, may be safer than gang bang no holes barred action.

Also or in the alternative, take her along on a visit to a playmate. Let her explore at her own pace. Gentle touching, or just observe or full on, as she desires.

Why do you think that sex with her will ruin your friendship? It's up to you both if you fancy doing it or not.

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By *eeandsexymCouple
over a year ago

Between selby/york

Has she created a fab profile.

Being localish, I'm curious to have a nosey and maybe even help her start her journey

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Has she created a fab profile.

Being localish, I'm curious to have a nosey and maybe even help her start her journey "

You don't know the woman or what she's looking for

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I was lucky enough to be introduced to swinging at a party ?

The people there understood it was my first time doing anything like that and just let me watch and wonder round chatting! Yes may seem wired to most but I was thankful to be under no pressure to join in or do anything I wasn’t ready for

Took some amazing photos ( her words ) for the hostess which sort of broke the ice needless to say thanks to everyone there I had a great time

So if when this lockdown breaks a party could be an option?

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By *eeandsexymCouple
over a year ago

Between selby/york


"Has she created a fab profile.

Being localish, I'm curious to have a nosey and maybe even help her start her journey

You don't know the woman or what she's looking for "

Very true.. But nothing wrong with curiosity surely

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