FabSwingers.com forum: 1st bi experience

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi all

i always been up for most things and understand that when u play as a 3/4 more man to man contant will happy

i was recently playing with a couple and he started to suck me so i went with the flow and did i will admit enjoy it

he asked me to fuck him so i started to push in and it felt totally weird!! i love anal with a lady and been told i am good but for some reason inside a man felt differant physically not mentally ... i no its not but is it just 1st time thing or just me ??

any advice welcome

regards all bob xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly i have to say that the guy you was with shouldnt have just started sucking you without asking, its men like that that give bi guys a bad name and the reason bi men have to lie about their sexuality and why couples wont meet them

Saying that i love bi guys and glad you enjoyed it

I think it was very brave of you to do anal on a man the first time you tried bi, not many would do that so good on you

As far as i know the internal anal passage in both sexs are the same so should'nt have felt different so maybe it was just a mental thing, maybe you jumped in to deep first time and wasnt really read for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks ... i no theres nothing phshically diff so i think its more mental

oh i dont no ... enjoyed it mind lol

was a step forward , rest will take slowly i think lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good on you, how do you know you don't like something until you've tried it!...

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By *ncMan
over a year ago

Dudley

" maybe you jumped in to deep first time and wasnt really read for it"

You could have phrased that better NN!

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By *ucycuteTV/TS
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

A first time for everything, so glad you enjoyed your fun x

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Rob

I can only speak personally but i too found the same. it did take a while for me to arrive psychologically at the point to "allow" it done to me. But once i'd cross that point in my head you realise that it doesn’t matter who is sucking you but only how they are doing it ie the pleasure you receive.

You didn’t say if you did and enjoyed returning the favour. this is another step in your head [sorry about the pun] {ok im not lol}

"i started to push in and it felt totally weird!!"

Yes psychologically its a much bigger step. It will hit the subconscious perceptions and prejudices you've grown up with, so you don’t understand fully why you feel differently about doing it with a man as opposed to a woman.

MM is quite right, Its actually quite a big next step all in one session. So its totally natural for you to have some mixed feeling and any mental confusion over the events.

Just relax your thinking about it, give yourself time to allow the thoughts and feelings flow. Just because you’ve tried doesn’t mean your "bi". I think if a lot more people (mostly men) were (could be) honest with themselves and hence others, have tried various options down the experimenting with same sex, [teenage wank parties, etc] but socal & peer pressures denies them that opportunity.

My advice is to: Go with your instincts [you went with the flow and enjoyed some of it last time] they will serve you well in deciding what you enjoy and what you don’t. Let them be your guide on the journey of self discovery we call life. I did and it was an enhancing self development experience.

You only live once so take every opportunity as it occurs, because you can only regret the opportunities you missed out on. Everything else is just learning. The only thing to be sacred of is fear itself.

Its taken me many years to be comfortable with my complex sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did you fancy the person or did you it happen as he sucked you and u didnt want to say no thanks!

chemistry and connection is imortant i find doesnt matter if its f and f or m and m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can only speak personally but i too found the same. it did take a while for me to arrive psychologically at the point to "allow" it done to me. But once i'd cross that point in my head you realise that it doesn’t matter who is sucking you but only how they are doing it ie the pleasure you receive.

Sex has to be about attraction not just how it feels. No way could I fancy a bloke (even though i must admit having a man crush on Hugh Jackman lol) x

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

"did you fancy the person or did you it happen as he sucked you and u didnt want to say no thanks!

chemistry and connection is imortant i find doesnt matter if its f and f or m and m x

Cant say i facied him in the same way I fancy women. But he was good looking. So yes physical attraction has to be there. but i had taken that at a given and not really thought about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he asked me to fuck him so i started to push in and it felt totally weird!! i love anal with a lady and been told i am good but for some reason inside a man felt differant physically not mentally

maybe cause us men have hairy bums lol.. that was a joke btw i use veet

sounds like you had a good time so enjoy and happy shagging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi all

i always been up for most things and understand that when u play as a 3/4 more man to man contant will happy

i was recently playing with a couple and he started to suck me so i went with the flow and did i will admit enjoy it

any advice welcome

regards all bob xx"

Good on you mate, sounds like you had fun. Not sure i would be that brave 1st time but i hope so lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"he asked me to fuck him so i started to push in and it felt totally weird!! i love anal with a lady and been told i am good but for some reason inside a man felt differant physically not mentally

maybe cause us men have hairy bums lol.. that was a joke btw i use veet

sounds like you had a good time so enjoy and happy shagging

I think a nice smooth bum would always be helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno what all the fuss is about personally. I don't fancy blokes. Its just sex. If you enjoy it, do it again, if you don't enjoy it, do it again to be sure you were right the first time when you thought you didn't like it!

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By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"hi all

i always been up for most things and understand that when u play as a 3/4 more man to man contant will happy

i was recently playing with a couple and he started to suck me so i went with the flow and did i will admit enjoy it

any advice welcome

regards all bob xx"

Advice....yeah...change your profile to Bi-Sexual

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By *aldybiMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Dunno what all the fuss is about personally. I don't fancy blokes. Its just sex. If you enjoy it, do it again, if you don't enjoy it, do it again to be sure you were right the first time when you thought you didn't like it!

Absolutely!

Try everything once too often!

Except, as the famous man said, "incest and Morris dancing"

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