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Uh oh! I got carried away...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I don't do bareback but the last time I had sex I got carried away.

I'm not worried about the risk of babies as I have fertility issues and it would have been totally the wrong time in my cycle. But what about STDs! he definitely sleeps around. I'll get myself tested asap but should I wait a certain amount of days before I do?

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

From planned parenthood site

"It depends. It can take 3 months for HIV to show up on a test, but it only takes a matter of days to a few weeks for STDs like gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis to show up."

So that's something to go on at least

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By *nna WulfWoman
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Firstly- don't panic. It serves absolutely no purpose.

Secondly - you can order a home testing kit take one now for peace of mind and order another later to allow for windows.

Thirdly - don't panic. It happens to the best of us.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

As above. But also, see if you’re local sexual health clinic has an advice line.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Was it that dastardly married guy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was it that dastardly married guy? "

No, it was a guy from earlier this year. This guy's not married he's younger and a stoner so not terribly reliable. But so so hot and good in bed. I'd finished things with him earlier this year but he messaged me to apologise for being flaky and that he wanted to see me more regularly before he moved away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get the morning after pill

And test in 2-3 weeks then again in 3months for bloods

Don't stress about it

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

The home testing kits are good. Recommend those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So window periods for testing are 2 weeks for chlamydia and gonorrhea. Blood born viruses are 4 weeks but if at high risk test again at 3 months just to be sure. The free testing sites won’t allow you to test too often, you would be best contacting your local GU med so that they can give you advise and a schedule of dates for your tests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope everything turns out ok.

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By *aughty.little.secretCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

I'm sure all will be ok. Just keep your test regular to be sure. It happens just the same as occasionally a jonny coming off. If you are genuinely that worried be open and ask him if he's tested.

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