FabSwingers.com forum: Not as easy for single females

By *oundmywayback OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I see many threads and replies on here regarding how difficult it is for single men on this website. I find it just as difficult as a ‘single’ female. I understand that I am not going to be everyone’s ‘type’ but for me personally the idea that females are inundated with requests and offers is just not right. Unless any fellow single women want to give me some advice?

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm guessing it's the 'must be verified, clubs only' line.

What with there being no clubs at the moment.

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By *oundmywayback OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I'm guessing it's the 'must be verified, clubs only' line.

What with there being no clubs at the moment.

That is a fair comment! It does probably mean it isn’t worth chatting until then.

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By *oundmywayback OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *edhotlovers2027Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

To be honest we have tried a few times to meet single female's but we either dont get a response or its a single male pretending lol.

It got to the point that we gave up contacting single female's unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't any more difficult for any one group of people, it's just different.

Men like me have no problem meeting people, and that's not to say I'm Superman or anything. It comes down to not being a terrible arsehole like a huge amount of people on here are.

It has nothing to do with gender, and everything to do with attitude.

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By *oundmywayback OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"To be honest we have tried a few times to meet single female's but we either dont get a response or its a single male pretending lol.

It got to the point that we gave up contacting single female's unfortunately

Oh wow, that’s actually a really good point. To be fair I can imagine that would put a lot of people off. I have got quite a few Real life verifications so I would hope that would help in that situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Believe me it not fun getting to many messages. As you have to reject so many which makes a lot get very rude and arrogant, I have now got a lot of filters on my profile as couldn’t cope with it at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it really easy on here, obviously strange times at present rules everything out. The issue is obstacles, these can be time, location, compatibility. With guys if we're invited, we tend to get one chance to turn up on time and be an absolute stallion. When you have that one verification it soars like the mighty albatross.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

totally agree with you OP. Unfortunately guys DON'T read anything on a profile, a bit like their performance, they shoot without thinking!!!!

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By *emartesMan
over a year ago

Brixton/Oval

I'd trade places in a heartbeat I wonder if women here would say the same?

Not hating but this post seems so tone death.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"I see many threads and replies on here regarding how difficult it is for single men on this website. I find it just as difficult as a ‘single’ female. I understand that I am not going to be everyone’s ‘type’ but for me personally the idea that females are inundated with requests and offers is just not right. Unless any fellow single women want to give me some advice?

Your No single men is a lie right there. Plus its confusing you are a married single female? If I were a couple I would be thinking Way to complicated

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I find I rarely get offers from single women, and not many from couples - and most of the couples turn out to be men pretending. I think it’s probably necessary to be more proactive when looking for couples and women. I suspect only meeting in clubs will reduce the number of potential offers as well - I never go to clubs, and I’m sure I’m not alone in that. Not that you should change that as it’s what you want, just thinking it might be a factor.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Remarks have been made and apologised for.

Let's draw a line under that and get back to the original post

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"Remarks have been made and apologised for.

Let's draw a line under that and get back to the original post

Didn’t scroll sorry

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"I'd trade places in a heartbeat I wonder if women here would say the same?

Not hating but this post seems so tone death. "

I’ll trade - see above

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm closing this now.

Ok if you want to start a new post I'll keep an eye on it.

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