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"So as a single guy I understand how difficult it is to get a connection with someone on fab and get replies to messages. Fellas I know what your thinking this guy is fat hairy and no oil painting so why take advice from him... Well first of all because I've had meets and second because I have lots of ladie friends and couple friends on here that I chat to regularly. So here are some Pearl's of advice. And ladies and couples please correct me if I'm wrong on any points . 1. Dont send dick pics with your messages they have seen a cock before. 2. Always be polite and thoughtful. 3. If messaging a couple Rember it is a couple not just a woman talk to the guy aswell they are a pair and should be traded as equal. 4. Never use 1 liners like your hot fancy a fuck... this doesn't work guys!!!! 5. And this one is realy important read the profile of the person you are messaging it might tell you if your likly or not to be of interest to them. 6. Never get shity if you dont get a reply you just might not be there type. 7. Dont panic if you dont get a reply with in two minuits. These people have a life outside of fab be patient. And finally 8. Try to have more about your profile that just here for a got time let's fuck and 100 pictures all of different angles of your cock... Thank you for reading and I hope this helps at least 1 guy. "
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"Got any advice for the single ladies dad?  "Turn lesbian... boys are smelly | |||
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"Got any advice for the single ladies dad?
Turn lesbian... boys are smelly"I've already turned lesbian ...it's not helping much | |||
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"Got any advice for the single ladies dad? "yep I have a pearl of wisdom for you also change nothing your lovely as you are Rember single guys on here are easily pleased and couples just want you to be up front and honest about what you are looking for. Failing all that just come see me and ride me like sea biscuit  | |||
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"Ur a good egg wookie "I like eggs fried and in a bread roll with bacon please | |||
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"If any of this isn't obvious to a guy, they deserve everything they (don't) get " Boys aren’t just smelly... a lot are also clueless | |||
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"If any of this isn't obvious to a guy, they deserve everything they (don't) get " believe it or not many guys think this is a sex site when realy its actually social media for people who love sex. Yes it is a platform where you can meet like minded people and have sex but ultimately it's a social media | |||
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"Correct spelling and grammar in messages makes a difference too "that's me fucked then as I cant spell for sausage lol | |||
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"Got any advice for the single ladies dad? yep I have a pearl of wisdom for you also change nothing your lovely as you are Rember single guys on here are easily pleased and couples just want you to be up front and honest about what you are looking for. Failing all that just come see me and ride me like sea biscuit "As soon as we are allowed I'll travel then  | |||
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"Ur a good egg wookie I like eggs fried and in a bread roll with bacon please "was just gonna do that for my self IL put u some on bud | |||
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"Got any advice for the single ladies dad?
Turn lesbian... boys are smelly"Can you turn a lesbian? Thought that was a myth?  | |||
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"Got any advice for the single ladies dad? yep I have a pearl of wisdom for you also change nothing your lovely as you are Rember single guys on here are easily pleased and couples just want you to be up front and honest about what you are looking for. Failing all that just come see me and ride me like sea biscuit
As soon as we are allowed I'll travel then "see you in a couple weeks  | |||
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"Got any advice for the single ladies dad?
Turn lesbian... boys are smelly
Can you turn a lesbian? Thought that was a myth? "turning a lesbian is easy just offer cake ... works every time | |||
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"Ur a good egg wookie I like eggs fried and in a bread roll with bacon please was just gonna do that for my self IL put u some on bud "nice one I'll be around in 5 | |||
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"Sending a dick picture and a one liner such as “you’re hot” could work if that person is attractive to the person they’re messaging. Message content means fuck all if the pictures aren’t of someone I find physically attractive. " That is an important point actually... Not everyone likes the same things (shocking I know!) | |||
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"Sending a dick picture and a one liner such as “you’re hot” could work if that person is attractive to the person they’re messaging. Message content means fuck all if the pictures aren’t of someone I find physically attractive. That is an important point actually... Not everyone likes the same things (shocking I know!) " Never in my 9 years have I been tempted to meet someone or reply to a message just because it was a good message. I decide if I want to meet based on what they look like first and foremost. | |||
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Just because you may have a differing opinion to someone else doesn't mean you can't air it and have to agree with them because you think you'll get further with that person.
I personally enjoy having my opinions challenged somewhat- shows me the other person HAS got something about them and won't just bend to the poontang
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"Inner beauty can be more attractive then exterior beauty. "wel said wing man | |||
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"Also. Fake niceness is
Just because you may have a differing opinion to someone else doesn't mean you can't air it and have to agree with them because you think you'll get further with that person.
I personally enjoy having my opinions challenged somewhat- shows me the other person HAS got something about them and won't just bend to the poontang
Be your fucking self."You’re beautiful and so caring and have a deep empathy and would never call anybody a cunt. | |||
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"Also. Fake niceness is
Just because you may have a differing opinion to someone else doesn't mean you can't air it and have to agree with them because you think you'll get further with that person.
I personally enjoy having my opinions challenged somewhat- shows me the other person HAS got something about them and won't just bend to the poontang
Be your fucking self.
You’re beautiful and so caring and have a deep empathy and would never call anybody a cunt. "Daft cunt  | |||
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"Also. Fake niceness is
Just because you may have a differing opinion to someone else doesn't mean you can't air it and have to agree with them because you think you'll get further with that person.
I personally enjoy having my opinions challenged somewhat- shows me the other person HAS got something about them and won't just bend to the poontang
Be your fucking self.
You’re beautiful and so caring and have a deep empathy and would never call anybody a cunt.
Daft cunt "I’m a nice daft cunt. in fact I’m not a fake cunt I’m a real nice cunt. | |||
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"Also. Fake niceness is
Just because you may have a differing opinion to someone else doesn't mean you can't air it and have to agree with them because you think you'll get further with that person.
I personally enjoy having my opinions challenged somewhat- shows me the other person HAS got something about them and won't just bend to the poontang
Be your fucking self.
You’re beautiful and so caring and have a deep empathy and would never call anybody a cunt.
Daft cunt
I’m a nice daft cunt. in fact I’m not a fake cunt I’m a real nice cunt. "You're an alright cunt. That's a compliment from me | |||
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"Also. Fake niceness is
Just because you may have a differing opinion to someone else doesn't mean you can't air it and have to agree with them because you think you'll get further with that person.
I personally enjoy having my opinions challenged somewhat- shows me the other person HAS got something about them and won't just bend to the poontang
Be your fucking self."words of wisdom peach x | |||
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"Well you slipped up on 1 Joker (Wookiedad) XX "Sending a cock pic when its been asked for is allowed.  | |||
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"Also. Fake niceness is
Just because you may have a differing opinion to someone else doesn't mean you can't air it and have to agree with them because you think you'll get further with that person.
I personally enjoy having my opinions challenged somewhat- shows me the other person HAS got something about them and won't just bend to the poontang
Be your fucking self.
You’re beautiful and so caring and have a deep empathy and would never call anybody a cunt.
Daft cunt
I’m a nice daft cunt. in fact I’m not a fake cunt I’m a real nice cunt.
You're an alright cunt. That's a compliment from me "I do average, not enough people accept being average as a good thing. | |||
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"I don't like it when people give men advice on how to change their behaviour to get a shag. If they are so incompetent that they need such simple advice I don't want to meet them." Suck my dick bitch *ducks for cover* Love you | |||
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"I don't like it when people give men advice on how to change their behaviour to get a shag. If they are so incompetent that they need such simple advice I don't want to meet them." you may be right but a good friend and wing man gave me a few pointers last year and it changed how I acted on fab it still the same person and still have the same morals but going from being in a couple to being a single guy I was shocked at how different you have to be | |||
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Sending a cock pic when its been asked for is allowed. "Is that right. I don't ask for dick pic's so their | |||
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"I don't like it when people give men advice on how to change their behaviour to get a shag. If they are so incompetent that they need such simple advice I don't want to meet them. you may be right but a good friend and wing man gave me a few pointers last year and it changed how I acted on fab it still the same person and still have the same morals but going from being in a couple to being a single guy I was shocked at how different you have to be" What did you do differently as a couple? | |||
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"Well you slipped up on 1 Joker (Wookiedad) XX
Sending a cock pic when its been asked for is allowed.
Is that right. I don't ask for dick pic's so their "Maybe this is a filter that the site could add. | |||
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"I don't like it when people give men advice on how to change their behaviour to get a shag. If they are so incompetent that they need such simple advice I don't want to meet them. Suck my dick bitch *ducks for cover* Love you " | |||
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While you have made some valid points based on common sense decency, they're all for naught if the person(s) don't find you or your profile attractive / appealing.
No secret formula here. I'm just myself and have never experienced difficulty in connecting with and meeting people | |||
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"I don't like it when people give men advice on how to change their behaviour to get a shag. If they are so incompetent that they need such simple advice I don't want to meet them. you may be right but a good friend and wing man gave me a few pointers last year and it changed how I acted on fab it still the same person and still have the same morals but going from being in a couple to being a single guy I was shocked at how different you have to be What did you do differently as a couple?" not alot as men and couples would offer meets and message regularly my wife delt with much of it and i didn't have to do alot at all where as a single man it seems your a very small fish in a very big sea. If that makes sense x | |||
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"I'm happy that you're having success and are willing to impart some advice
While you have made some valid points based on common sense decency, they're all for naught if the person(s) don't find you or your profile attractive / appealing.
No secret formula here. I'm just myself and have never experienced difficulty in connecting with and meeting people "chil I have to say and this is by no means me flirting lol you have the body of Adonis and women I imagen will flock to you on that alone the rest of us mere mortals that arnt blessed with such fine physical attributes have to rely on whit humor and good manners lol | |||
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"I'm happy that you're having success and are willing to impart some advice
While you have made some valid points based on common sense decency, they're all for naught if the person(s) don't find you or your profile attractive / appealing.
No secret formula here. I'm just myself and have never experienced difficulty in connecting with and meeting people "Spot on - whilst the OP makes some laudable suggestions they are all basic common sense and decency, and it's arguable that anyone that doesn't have either of those things is not worth the time helping. No secret formula that works for all either, nor is one needed - it actually comes down to five very simple things - a decent profile and pics helps, but beyond that it's about attitude, approach and expectations - which can cover a multitude of things, get them right and it won't guarantee a thing but will make the overall experience better - get them wrong and a world of frustration awaits. | |||
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"I'm happy that you're having success and are willing to impart some advice
While you have made some valid points based on common sense decency, they're all for naught if the person(s) don't find you or your profile attractive / appealing.
No secret formula here. I'm just myself and have never experienced difficulty in connecting with and meeting people
chil I have to say and this is by no means me flirting lol you have the body of Adonis and women I imagen will flock to you on that alone the rest of us mere mortals that arnt blessed with such fine physical attributes have to rely on whit humor and good manners lol "I disagree - having the body of an Adonis doesn't guarantee a thing or have women flocking, that actually does a lot of women a dis-service suggesting that is all that's needed - it's all about the person, plain and simple, and as I said above their attitude, approach and expectations | |||
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"Right I’m not one to stand around holding each other’s dicks or blowing smoke up anyones arse, but, _hillout and Gemini man are two out of the 17 people on here whose opinions I rate highly. Always firm but fair and make really good contributions. That’s it. That’s my daily quota of compliments reached. " *feels neglected* | |||
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"I'm happy that you're having success and are willing to impart some advice
While you have made some valid points based on common sense decency, they're all for naught if the person(s) don't find you or your profile attractive / appealing.
No secret formula here. I'm just myself and have never experienced difficulty in connecting with and meeting people chil I have to say and this is by no means me flirting lol you have the body of Adonis and women I imagen will flock to you on that alone the rest of us mere mortals that arnt blessed with such fine physical attributes have to rely on whit humor and good manners lol "Easy buttercup I need more than a bod to bring me flocking or even knocking. Conversation, decent cook, sense of fucking humour coz if ya don't get mine then our time together would be painful for both of us. Must also be happy to be provided with the best blow job they ever had, this is a curse I bestow upon them, coz the ones they have after will leave them with a half smile and thinking of me. So there they are, dick in the mouth of someone else thinking "if only she could suck dick like that peach cunt, this bird would be perfect" | |||
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"I'm happy that you're having success and are willing to impart some advice
While you have made some valid points based on common sense decency, they're all for naught if the person(s) don't find you or your profile attractive / appealing.
No secret formula here. I'm just myself and have never experienced difficulty in connecting with and meeting people chil I have to say and this is by no means me flirting lol you have the body of Adonis and women I imagen will flock to you on that alone the rest of us mere mortals that arnt blessed with such fine physical attributes have to rely on whit humor and good manners lol "Grab your coat Chill, looks like you've pulled
On a serious note...why should anyone need pointers in how to be civil and respectful? How do these people get on in everyday life? When doing their shopping, instead of making small talk with the cashier like the rest of us, do they say "I'd love to bend you over, rip your panties off and ruin you"?
It should be as simple as that...if you wouldn't behave that way in everyday life then don't behave that way on here. Yes, there is a sexual undercurrent on here, but we're all still human beings that expect and deserve at least a basic level of respect and social etiquette. | |||
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"I'm happy that you're having success and are willing to impart some advice
While you have made some valid points based on common sense decency, they're all for naught if the person(s) don't find you or your profile attractive / appealing.
No secret formula here. I'm just myself and have never experienced difficulty in connecting with and meeting people chil I have to say and this is by no means me flirting lol you have the body of Adonis and women I imagen will flock to you on that alone the rest of us mere mortals that arnt blessed with such fine physical attributes have to rely on whit humor and good manners lol
Grab your coat Chill, looks like you've pulled
On a serious note...why should anyone need pointers in how to be civil and respectful? How do these people get on in everyday life? When doing their shopping, instead of making small talk with the cashier like the rest of us, do they say "I'd love to bend you over, rip your panties off and ruin you"?
It should be as simple as that...if you wouldn't behave that way in everyday life then don't behave that way on here. Yes, there is a sexual undercurrent on here, but we're all still human beings that expect and deserve at least a basic level of respect and social etiquette. "On a totally banal note, do you think cashiers are getting sick of talking about Covid and toilet roll hoarders. Perhaps “I want to bend you over the till and spank you whilst you whistle Dixie” is just what they are hankering after. I reckon Gary in my local Tesco extra is desperate for that. | |||
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"it actually comes down to five very simple things - a decent profile and pics helps, but beyond that it's about attitude, approach and expectations - which can cover a multitude of things, get them right and it won't guarantee a thing but will make the overall experience better - get them wrong and a world of frustration awaits." There is the above however not always true. Having a decent profile or pics it helps yes but not everyone can do them. Its a different world at organised meets or events just another way for many to meet up. However you might be surprised on how many members ignore other members. All it takes is a few to talk to them and include them, Will aid the many out there. | |||
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"I'm happy that you're having success and are willing to impart some advice
While you have made some valid points based on common sense decency, they're all for naught if the person(s) don't find you or your profile attractive / appealing.
No secret formula here. I'm just myself and have never experienced difficulty in connecting with and meeting people chil I have to say and this is by no means me flirting lol you have the body of Adonis and women I imagen will flock to you on that alone the rest of us mere mortals that arnt blessed with such fine physical attributes have to rely on whit humor and good manners lol
Easy buttercup I need more than a bod to bring me flocking or even knocking.
Conversation, decent cook, sense of fucking humour coz if ya don't get mine then our time together would be painful for both of us. Must also be happy to be provided with the best blow job they ever had, this is a curse I bestow upon them, coz the ones they have after will leave them with a half smile and thinking of me. So there they are, dick in the mouth of someone else thinking "if only she could suck dick like that peach cunt, this bird would be perfect" "funny you should say all that peach I happen to find your sense of humor great | |||
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"it actually comes down to five very simple things - a decent profile and pics helps, but beyond that it's about attitude, approach and expectations - which can cover a multitude of things, get them right and it won't guarantee a thing but will make the overall experience better - get them wrong and a world of frustration awaits. There is the above however not always true. Having a decent profile or pics it helps yes but not everyone can do them. Its a different world at organised meets or events just another way for many to meet up. However you might be surprised on how many members ignore other members. All it takes is a few to talk to them and include them, Will aid the many out there." "Its a different world at organised meets or events just another way for many to meet up." And that is where the finding the right approach point I mentioned comes into play - too many on here think it's about sending blind messages to other users and don't actually consider other ways of connecting with people - in my five years here I've sent precisely 6 such messages (and none since my first 6 months or so) and yet have no complaints about my experience. There are many ways to approach the site and the lifestyle and not just the obvious ones | |||
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"Well you slipped up on 1 Joker (Wookiedad) XX
Sending a cock pic when its been asked for is allowed.
Is that right. I don't ask for dick pic's so their
Maybe this is a filter that the site could add. "So how do you filter dicks. Because I need one right now | |||
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"So as a single guy I understand how difficult it is to get a connection with someone on fab and get replies to messages. Fellas I know what your thinking this guy is fat hairy and no oil painting so why take advice from him... Well first of all because I've had meets and second because I have lots of ladie friends and couple friends on here that I chat to regularly. So here are some Pearl's of advice. And ladies and couples please correct me if I'm wrong on any points . 1. Dont send dick pics with your messages they have seen a cock before. 2. Always be polite and thoughtful. 3. If messaging a couple Rember it is a couple not just a woman talk to the guy aswell they are a pair and should be traded as equal. 4. Never use 1 liners like your hot fancy a fuck... this doesn't work guys!!!! 5. And this one is realy important read the profile of the person you are messaging it might tell you if your likly or not to be of interest to them. 6. Never get shity if you dont get a reply you just might not be there type. 7. Dont panic if you dont get a reply with in two minuits. These people have a life outside of fab be patient. And finally 8. Try to have more about your profile that just here for a got time let's fuck and 100 pictures all of different angles of your cock... Thank you for reading and I hope this helps at least 1 guy.
Also don’t write a whole essay in your first message "On bios it says dont write one word answers or one liners. You say dont right ling measages. We can win  | |||
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"I don't like it when people give men advice on how to change their behaviour to get a shag. If they are so incompetent that they need such simple advice I don't want to meet them. you may be right but a good friend and wing man gave me a few pointers last year and it changed how I acted on fab it still the same person and still have the same morals but going from being in a couple to being a single guy I was shocked at how different you have to be What did you do differently as a couple? not alot as men and couples would offer meets and message regularly my wife delt with much of it and i didn't have to do alot at all where as a single man it seems your a very small fish in a very big sea. If that makes sense x" Yes it makes sense to me. With our couples profile we both did messages but I think it helped that I spoke to them to 'prove' I'm real. Also I could sniff out the fake profiles whereas he couldn't. | |||
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"Don’t send abuse because you didn’t get a reply to your 5 word message." I like it when they do that as they immediately out themselves as being the kind of person I would never ever want to meet. Saves me time. | |||
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"Don’t send abuse because you didn’t get a reply to your 5 word message. I like it when they do that as they immediately out themselves as being the kind of person I would never ever want to meet. Saves me time. "That is true, but it’s not very pleasant to read. Instant block though as you say | |||
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"I'm happy that you're having success and are willing to impart some advice
While you have made some valid points based on common sense decency, they're all for naught if the person(s) don't find you or your profile attractive / appealing.
No secret formula here. I'm just myself and have never experienced difficulty in connecting with and meeting people chil I have to say and this is by no means me flirting lol you have the body of Adonis and women I imagen will flock to you on that alone the rest of us mere mortals that arnt blessed with such fine physical attributes have to rely on whit humor and good manners lol "If that were true, then any guy who is ripped and with a good six pack would have no shortage of action, yet I frequently see these profiles moaning about "time wasters" and having no luck in general. Attraction is subjective in itself. I've been rejected frequently as I wasn't they're "type". Some women do prefer men a bit chunkier and fuzzy by default. If you fit their physical attraction criteria, that's where personality, attitude and ability to pleasantly engage become vital. | |||
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"I'm happy that you're having success and are willing to impart some advice
While you have made some valid points based on common sense decency, they're all for naught if the person(s) don't find you or your profile attractive / appealing.
No secret formula here. I'm just myself and have never experienced difficulty in connecting with and meeting people chil I have to say and this is by no means me flirting lol you have the body of Adonis and women I imagen will flock to you on that alone the rest of us mere mortals that arnt blessed with such fine physical attributes have to rely on whit humor and good manners lol
If that were true, then any guy who is ripped and with a good six pack would have no shortage of action, yet I frequently see these profiles moaning about "time wasters" and having no luck in general.
Attraction is subjective in itself. I've been rejected frequently as I wasn't they're "type". Some women do prefer men a bit chunkier and fuzzy by default. If you fit their physical attraction criteria, that's where personality, attitude and ability to pleasantly engage become vital."You’re absolutely right. Not everyone is attracted to muscle, I personally love a rugby/Dad bod. | |||
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"I'm happy that you're having success and are willing to impart some advice
While you have made some valid points based on common sense decency, they're all for naught if the person(s) don't find you or your profile attractive / appealing.
No secret formula here. I'm just myself and have never experienced difficulty in connecting with and meeting people chil I have to say and this is by no means me flirting lol you have the body of Adonis and women I imagen will flock to you on that alone the rest of us mere mortals that arnt blessed with such fine physical attributes have to rely on whit humor and good manners lol
If that were true, then any guy who is ripped and with a good six pack would have no shortage of action, yet I frequently see these profiles moaning about "time wasters" and having no luck in general.
Attraction is subjective in itself. I've been rejected frequently as I wasn't they're "type". Some women do prefer men a bit chunkier and fuzzy by default. If you fit their physical attraction criteria, that's where personality, attitude and ability to pleasantly engage become vital.
You’re absolutely right. Not everyone is attracted to muscle, I personally love a rugby/Dad bod."And there was me thinking I was 5ft 8 of chiselled muscly perfection. | |||
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"I'm happy that you're having success and are willing to impart some advice
While you have made some valid points based on common sense decency, they're all for naught if the person(s) don't find you or your profile attractive / appealing.
No secret formula here. I'm just myself and have never experienced difficulty in connecting with and meeting people chil I have to say and this is by no means me flirting lol you have the body of Adonis and women I imagen will flock to you on that alone the rest of us mere mortals that arnt blessed with such fine physical attributes have to rely on whit humor and good manners lol
If that were true, then any guy who is ripped and with a good six pack would have no shortage of action, yet I frequently see these profiles moaning about "time wasters" and having no luck in general.
Attraction is subjective in itself. I've been rejected frequently as I wasn't they're "type". Some women do prefer men a bit chunkier and fuzzy by default. If you fit their physical attraction criteria, that's where personality, attitude and ability to pleasantly engage become vital.
You’re absolutely right. Not everyone is attracted to muscle, I personally love a rugby/Dad bod."in that case hello | |||
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"I'm happy that you're having success and are willing to impart some advice
While you have made some valid points based on common sense decency, they're all for naught if the person(s) don't find you or your profile attractive / appealing.
No secret formula here. I'm just myself and have never experienced difficulty in connecting with and meeting people chil I have to say and this is by no means me flirting lol you have the body of Adonis and women I imagen will flock to you on that alone the rest of us mere mortals that arnt blessed with such fine physical attributes have to rely on whit humor and good manners lol
If that were true, then any guy who is ripped and with a good six pack would have no shortage of action, yet I frequently see these profiles moaning about "time wasters" and having no luck in general.
Attraction is subjective in itself. I've been rejected frequently as I wasn't they're "type". Some women do prefer men a bit chunkier and fuzzy by default. If you fit their physical attraction criteria, that's where personality, attitude and ability to pleasantly engage become vital.
You’re absolutely right. Not everyone is attracted to muscle, I personally love a rugby/Dad bod.
And there was me thinking I was 5ft 8 of chiselled muscly perfection. "You’re a fine figure of a man | |||
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"So as a single guy I understand how difficult it is to get a connection with someone on fab and get replies to messages. Fellas I know what your thinking this guy is fat hairy and no oil painting so why take advice from him... Well first of all because I've had meets and second because I have lots of ladie friends and couple friends on here that I chat to regularly. So here are some Pearl's of advice. And ladies and couples please correct me if I'm wrong on any points . 1. Dont send dick pics with your messages they have seen a cock before. 2. Always be polite and thoughtful. 3. If messaging a couple Rember it is a couple not just a woman talk to the guy aswell they are a pair and should be traded as equal. 4. Never use 1 liners like your hot fancy a fuck... this doesn't work guys!!!! 5. And this one is realy important read the profile of the person you are messaging it might tell you if your likly or not to be of interest to them. 6. Never get shity if you dont get a reply you just might not be there type. 7. Dont panic if you dont get a reply with in two minuits. These people have a life outside of fab be patient. And finally 8. Try to have more about your profile that just here for a got time let's fuck and 100 pictures all of different angles of your cock... Thank you for reading and I hope this helps at least 1 guy. "All this is a total revelation to me, I’ve been doing it all wrong, there’s me sending out copy and paste messages in bulk like a sucker. | |||
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"You’re doing God’s work Op..... But I have a serious question for you......... If a guy that wants sex , can’t figure out how on his own to communicate online with a woman/couple to get sex? Should he really get sex? " | |||
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"You’re doing God’s work Op..... But I have a serious question for you......... If a guy that wants sex , can’t figure out how on his own to communicate online with a woman/couple to get sex? Should he really get sex? "
I've been restraining myself on rolling my eyes at this thread and saying something I'd probably get put on the naughty step for - but really you've said it all.
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"So as a single guy I understand how difficult it is to get a connection with someone on fab and get replies to messages. Fellas I know what your thinking this guy is fat hairy and no oil painting so why take advice from him... Well first of all because I've had meets and second because I have lots of ladie friends and couple friends on here that I chat to regularly. So here are some Pearl's of advice. And ladies and couples please correct me if I'm wrong on any points . 1. Dont send dick pics with your messages they have seen a cock before. 2. Always be polite and thoughtful. 3. If messaging a couple Rember it is a couple not just a woman talk to the guy aswell they are a pair and should be traded as equal. 4. Never use 1 liners like your hot fancy a fuck... this doesn't work guys!!!! 5. And this one is realy important read the profile of the person you are messaging it might tell you if your likly or not to be of interest to them. 6. Never get shity if you dont get a reply you just might not be there type. 7. Dont panic if you dont get a reply with in two minuits. These people have a life outside of fab be patient. And finally 8. Try to have more about your profile that just here for a got time let's fuck and 100 pictures all of different angles of your cock... Thank you for reading and I hope this helps at least 1 guy. "Could not of said it better myself Wookie. Women and most couples get so many messages so, just got to be very patient. There was a time before lockdown I did not message people because I was going to clubs every week and meeting loads of amazing people. I have started messaging people again and it's good fun | |||
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"6. Never get shity...... Because girls talk. Yes guys: if you’re a nasty so and so we tell each other to steer clear of you!!!! " Am attracted to the personality of a woman and looks mean little to as inside her brains is where it’s all happening | |||
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"6. Never get shity...... Because girls talk. Yes guys: if you’re a nasty so and so we tell each other to steer clear of you!!!! " I have never had anyone tell me to steer clear of anyone and I wouldn’t listen if they did. I’ll make my own mind up about someone. | |||
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"6. Never get shity...... Because girls talk. Yes guys: if you’re a nasty so and so we tell each other to steer clear of you!!!! I have never had anyone tell me to steer clear of anyone and I wouldn’t listen if they did. I’ll make my own mind up about someone." I’ve had warnings complete with screen shots of what happened before. | |||
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"6. Never get shity...... Because girls talk. Yes guys: if you’re a nasty so and so we tell each other to steer clear of you!!!! Am attracted to the personality of a woman and looks mean little to as inside her brains is where it’s all happening "That’s the biggest load of shite | |||
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"6. Never get shity...... Because girls talk. Yes guys: if you’re a nasty so and so we tell each other to steer clear of you!!!! I have never had anyone tell me to steer clear of anyone and I wouldn’t listen if they did. I’ll make my own mind up about someone. I’ve had warnings complete with screen shots of what happened before. " I agree I’ve a few women friends on here and we discuss each male profile when they message to see if anyone has info/ experience .... for the sake of safety as well as anything else. If someone is a dick we all steer clear - who’s got time for that shit. | |||
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"6. Never get shity...... Because girls talk. Yes guys: if you’re a nasty so and so we tell each other to steer clear of you!!!! I have never had anyone tell me to steer clear of anyone and I wouldn’t listen if they did. I’ll make my own mind up about someone." This (although I have had people tell me to steer clear...in all instances it turned out they'd either been rejected by said man or had him in their sights) Besides, I trust waaayyyy more men than women, on here and in everyday life | |||
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"6. Never get shity...... Because girls talk. Yes guys: if you’re a nasty so and so we tell each other to steer clear of you!!!! " I agree! We do. And send screenshots. If anyone’s been an uncalled for grade A tosser to one of the girls I will Block them faster than you can say ‘idiot’ | |||
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"So as a single guy I understand how difficult it is to get a connection with someone on fab and get replies to messages. Fellas I know what your thinking this guy is fat hairy and no oil painting so why take advice from him... Well first of all because I've had meets and second because I have lots of ladie friends and couple friends on here that I chat to regularly. So here are some Pearl's of advice. And ladies and couples please correct me if I'm wrong on any points . 1. Dont send dick pics with your messages they have seen a cock before. 2. Always be polite and thoughtful. 3. If messaging a couple Rember it is a couple not just a woman talk to the guy aswell they are a pair and should be traded as equal. 4. Never use 1 liners like your hot fancy a fuck... this doesn't work guys!!!! 5. And this one is realy important read the profile of the person you are messaging it might tell you if your likly or not to be of interest to them. 6. Never get shity if you dont get a reply you just might not be there type. 7. Dont panic if you dont get a reply with in two minuits. These people have a life outside of fab be patient. And finally 8. Try to have more about your profile that just here for a got time let's fuck and 100 pictures all of different angles of your cock... Thank you for reading and I hope this helps at least 1 guy. "Absolutely bang on. | |||
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"So as a single guy I understand how difficult it is to get a connection with someone on fab and get replies to messages. Fellas I know what your thinking this guy is fat hairy and no oil painting so why take advice from him... Well first of all because I've had meets and second because I have lots of ladie friends and couple friends on here that I chat to regularly. So here are some Pearl's of advice. And ladies and couples please correct me if I'm wrong on any points . 1. Dont send dick pics with your messages they have seen a cock before. 2. Always be polite and thoughtful. 3. If messaging a couple Rember it is a couple not just a woman talk to the guy aswell they are a pair and should be traded as equal. 4. Never use 1 liners like your hot fancy a fuck... this doesn't work guys!!!! 5. And this one is realy important read the profile of the person you are messaging it might tell you if your likly or not to be of interest to them. 6. Never get shity if you dont get a reply you just might not be there type. 7. Dont panic if you dont get a reply with in two minuits. These people have a life outside of fab be patient. And finally 8. Try to have more about your profile that just here for a got time let's fuck and 100 pictures all of different angles of your cock... Thank you for reading and I hope this helps at least 1 guy. "You legend!! Spot on | |||
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That’s the biggest load of shite "No it’s no, he’s spot on. | |||
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"6. Never get shity...... Because girls talk. Yes guys: if you’re a nasty so and so we tell each other to steer clear of you!!!! I have never had anyone tell me to steer clear of anyone and I wouldn’t listen if they did. I’ll make my own mind up about someone. I’ve had warnings complete with screen shots of what happened before. I agree I’ve a few women friends on here and we discuss each male profile when they message to see if anyone has info/ experience .... for the sake of safety as well as anything else. If someone is a dick we all steer clear - who’s got time for that shit. " If I were a newbie reading this it would immediately put me off any intention of meeting any forum women and keep interaction to nothing more than harmless banter. It shows that none of my interactions could be kept private, be it texts or photos, which shows complete lack of decency. Fortunately, I know this happens frequently in private chat groups of forumite women. Another reason why i'm very careful who I interact with and how. | |||
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"6. Never get shity...... Because girls talk. Yes guys: if you’re a nasty so and so we tell each other to steer clear of you!!!! " There is a reason I avoid most interactions with females on here and in daily life and this is it ^ One person’s opinion of someone is not necessarily going to be another’s, but the witch hunt starts, the jungle drums beat and a group gossip opinion is formed all based on one individual stoking the embers If I see this, all it does for me is highlight who can’t be trusted, can’t be discreet. | |||
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"6. Never get shity...... Because girls talk. Yes guys: if you’re a nasty so and so we tell each other to steer clear of you!!!! There is a reason I avoid most interactions with females on here and in daily life and this is it ^ One person’s opinion of someone is not necessarily going to be another’s, but the witch hunt starts, the jungle drums beat and a group gossip opinion is formed all based on one individual stoking the embers If I see this, all it does for me is highlight who can’t be trusted, can’t be discreet. " | |||
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"I've been around these forums long enough to know not to get involved in any forum gossip. Unfortunately a lot of women like to 'warn' you about people out of jealousy etc.. It's a swingers site but for many people here they do not think sharing is caring "yes I've even been messaged by women saying other women have messaged them asking them to back off from me as they want me. Whilst I'm kinda flattered that anyone would want me at all let alone that much I'm confused as to why anyone would do that on a site like this  | |||
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"Sending a dick picture and a one liner such as “you’re hot” could work if that person is attractive to the person they’re messaging. Message content means fuck all if the pictures aren’t of someone I find physically attractive. That is an important point actually... Not everyone likes the same things (shocking I know!) Never in my 9 years have I been tempted to meet someone or reply to a message just because it was a good message. I decide if I want to meet based on what they look like first and foremost. " Well, there’s no chance for someone like me then. Sadly with my apparent lack of skills with taking photos or selfies means I’ll have very little hope of finding a meet if based on looks alone. Thankfully, I have resisted the urge to post photos of my penis. As that really isn’t a good way for anyone to introduce themselves online. I really hope to not come across as one of those types of single men that act all brash and cocky when they reallly lack any manners or self respect. Most of my messages are polite and non sexual but I struggle to ever get anywhere on here, I always found that it’s much easier to get meets by going to clubs. | |||
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"So as a single guy I understand how difficult it is to get a connection with someone on fab and get replies to messages. Fellas I know what your thinking this guy is fat hairy and no oil painting so why take advice from him... Well first of all because I've had meets and second because I have lots of ladie friends and couple friends on here that I chat to regularly. So here are some Pearl's of advice. And ladies and couples please correct me if I'm wrong on any points . 1. Dont send dick pics with your messages they have seen a cock before. 2. Always be polite and thoughtful. 3. If messaging a couple Rember it is a couple not just a woman talk to the guy aswell they are a pair and should be traded as equal. 4. Never use 1 liners like your hot fancy a fuck... this doesn't work guys!!!! 5. And this one is realy important read the profile of the person you are messaging it might tell you if your likly or not to be of interest to them. 6. Never get shity if you dont get a reply you just might not be there type. 7. Dont panic if you dont get a reply with in two minuits. These people have a life outside of fab be patient. And finally 8. Try to have more about your profile that just here for a got time let's fuck and 100 pictures all of different angles of your cock... Thank you for reading and I hope this helps at least 1 guy. "Good words there OP! What’s your success rate? | |||
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"So as a single guy I understand how difficult it is to get a connection with someone on fab and get replies to messages. Fellas I know what your thinking this guy is fat hairy and no oil painting so why take advice from him... Well first of all because I've had meets and second because I have lots of ladie friends and couple friends on here that I chat to regularly. So here are some Pearl's of advice. And ladies and couples please correct me if I'm wrong on any points . 1. Dont send dick pics with your messages they have seen a cock before. 2. Always be polite and thoughtful. 3. If messaging a couple Rember it is a couple not just a woman talk to the guy aswell they are a pair and should be traded as equal. 4. Never use 1 liners like your hot fancy a fuck... this doesn't work guys!!!! 5. And this one is realy important read the profile of the person you are messaging it might tell you if your likly or not to be of interest to them. 6. Never get shity if you dont get a reply you just might not be there type. 7. Dont panic if you dont get a reply with in two minuits. These people have a life outside of fab be patient. And finally 8. Try to have more about your profile that just here for a got time let's fuck and 100 pictures all of different angles of your cock... Thank you for reading and I hope this helps at least 1 guy.
Good words there OP! What’s your success rate? "I've never taken the time to work out % but I have plenty whi message me I've had a few meets in the time I've been on fab and made lots of friends so must be doing something right | |||
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"Mm...stating the obvious. This is assuming all female and cpl profiles are good mannered and curtious. However, I've been on for ever and found that as time goes on, people get worse as its treated like a particular social media site. It's never been as bad to get a reply. I've tried the sky remote, dick pic over the toilet, I've uploaded 38 pics of my cock from many angles, expressed how good a fuck I am and you won't find better, offered to meet on the 2nd message, said I'd send a pic if they did 1st, offered to meet her separate or without him knowing......still doesn't work. " I’m detecting very high levels of sarcasm with that post. I think any male would be lucky to get one reply to every fifty messages sent. And even then, it’s normally a “Thanks, but not my type” message. | |||
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