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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve been on here a while and start off with a good conversation but then they stop replying any advice ? I don’t know if it’s because I’m on the young side ?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I’ve been on here a while and start off with a good conversation but then they stop replying any advice ? I don’t know if it’s because I’m on the young side ? "

You are maybe not keeping them engaged, it's hard to guess without reading your conversations.

The first advice is, make sure you've read their profile. You don't want to fall foul of saying something that they've told you they don't like.

Many are not looking for sexual conversations, especially the ladies. If you find you're having a "dirty" conversations and then they go quiet, it could be because the bloke you were talking to has finished his wank.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I try not to make it dirty though try and get to know them as I prefer leaving the dirty stuff for a meet, that’s very true it could be a guy

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By *redwilma666Couple
over a year ago

Kilbirnie

Your age does you no favours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

We often get messages from guys who look like they have potential and will reply.

But if after a handful of messages they are not engaging orexciting us enough, or are just saying the wrong things, we tend to just stop replying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get you but I try and ask normal things not always sexual

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"I get you but I try and ask normal things not always sexual "

I wasn't saying you didn't, but asking normal things doesn't mean your conversation is engaging.

I couldn't really comment without seeing the sort of message you send

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, I so wanna comment on your profile.....

Can I? Please?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah go for it i mean I haven’t put much effort into it as I havnt decided to stay or go on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah go for it i mean I haven’t put much effort into it as I havnt decided to stay or go on here "

Well that’s kinda my point.

You’ve made more effort with your thread.

Your pic in your room you’re standing astride a mess. If you want to be taken seriously by women on here, bearing in mind many swingers are old enough to be your parent (at least), try to take pics that don’t show yourself to be like our kids!

Show us the man we may want see with.

That wasn’t a green light for cock pics btw!

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"Yeah go for it i mean I haven’t put much effort into it as I havnt decided to stay or go on here

Well that’s kinda my point.

You’ve made more effort with your thread.

Your pic in your room you’re standing astride a mess. If you want to be taken seriously by women on here, bearing in mind many swingers are old enough to be your parent (at least), try to take pics that don’t show yourself to be like our kids!

Show us the man we may want see with.

That wasn’t a green light for cock pics btw! "

I'm so glad I'm not the only one who wanted to comment on the mess

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I’m currently doing up my place and havnt got anywhere to put my clothes and what’s wrong with my cock pics haha ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So hopefully this is better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I literally have the same trouble mate I struggle to get a reply off most people and when I do it’s mostly men posing a a couple to try get something out of me ??

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By *iking SoftiesCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

In these strange times we have messaged more than normal but generally we are not here to find pen friends.

A few messages to make sure we are on the same page, telephones call between ladies if it’s a couple, or between L and the guy if a single guy. If all’s good arrange to meet.

It’s a bit different with the pandemic but not sure what the OP is looking for.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Age is off putting and saying Ha .ha shows immaturity ,just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So hopefully this is better "

Dont worry mate. Just hit the swingers clubs when they open back up, clubs are the best place for meeting people.

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