FabSwingers.com forum: Short or long ??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Profile’s....

Both ours / mine are fairly long and I’ve tried to put everything in them, so as to not waste anyone’s time.

But, looking at a lot of the messages we / I receive, it’s plain to see that most people don’t read profiles

Does a long profile put you off?

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

"Profile’s

Both ours / mine are fairly long and I’ve tried to put everything in them, so as to not waste anyone’s time.

But, looking at a lot of the messages we / I receive, it’s plain to see that most people don’t read profiles

Does a long profile put you off?

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no it doesn’t put us off. We read them as it’s annoying when people don’t.

No a lot of people don’t read them. Learned just to ignore them or answer if we like their profile.

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

The ones that put me off are:

1. Stream of consciousness things with no punctuation, or crap spelling;

2. Lists of no-nos, usually in capitals; or

3. “Will fill this in later” or similar.

As for those silly Sydney University things...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a profile that's obviously had some thought put into it.

And yes the Sydney university thing turns me straight off

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish

I completely agree with the above.

Long profiles, it seems, tend to turn men off more than women!

I use this to my advantage (far fewer messages, and easier to out those who don't bother to read).

Write on, guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't seem to matter. Since I've updated mine to barely a few words - the amount of messages I'm receiving hasn't changed. It's clearly: "look at pictures, message. Profile? Was I supposed to read that?"

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

It’s your profile, you write what you want. Some people will like it, some people will skip straight past it.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

If I’m honest, yes it does.

I like them to be concise (ish) and light hearted. Long winded ones (whilst informative) tend to be heavy going.

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By *mg 321Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

It’s when you see such a list of demands of do’s and don’t, must haves and must nots that you think wow I’m dealing with some kind up super model here.. then you look at the pictures and think differently.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"It’s when you see such a list of demands of do’s and don’t, must haves and must nots that you think wow I’m dealing with some kind up super model here.. then you look at the pictures and think differently. "

Really?

You say demands, they'll say wishlist or non negotiable. Each to their own....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if a list of no no's or demands put you off then its done the job for the profile its on ?? so it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

''oi you .. what you wont take it up the arse ?? who do you think you are a super model or what''

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"''oi you .. what you wont take it up the arse ?? who do you think you are a super model or what''"

Errm...no. But I hardly know you

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