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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a couple we are looking to meet single guys, I know and understand what our motivations are but was wondering what motivates the single man in meeting with a couple, yes sex but there must be more reason than that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically I have no more reason, that is why I am happy to meet a single female, couple, group etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a couple we are looking to meet single guys, I know and understand what our motivations are but was wondering what motivates the single man in meeting with a couple, yes sex but there must be more reason than that ? "

many have diffrent reasons some meet couples because finding a single fem is harder.

some find watching as well as joining in a turn on.

or like me meeting couples is more enjoyble because i feel less preasured being 2 men strange to say but very true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a couple we are looking to meet single guys, I know and understand what our motivations are but was wondering what motivates the single man in meeting with a couple, yes sex but there must be more reason than that ? "

I had my first experience on one of these sites with a couple and loved it. Ever since then i have loved meeting up with couples as always have a great time before during and after the fun!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I like bi sex and meeting a bi couple gives me everything I am looking for and hopefully for them also.

All is good with straight couples as well as I have never crossed a boundary..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love swinging, lots of fun to play with couples or share someone ive got with me, great fun meeting up with new people and having a evening together getting to know each other over a few drinks and more, made some great friends too

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"As a couple we are looking to meet single guys, I know and understand what our motivations are but was wondering what motivates the single man in meeting with a couple, yes sex but there must be more reason than that ? "

probably the same motivation for everyone... that everyone has a good time and that we all get something out of it.... and thats probably not different regardless of its a couple.. and single girl or a single bloke..

the same that I have for anyone.... the way I look at swinging in general is friendships first and if anything comes from that then that is a bonus....

yes it is the sex that intially brings people here.. but is it definately the social side of swinging that keeps me coming back....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a couple we are looking to meet single guys, I know and understand what our motivations are but was wondering what motivates the single man in meeting with a couple, yes sex but there must be more reason than that ?

probably the same motivation for everyone... that everyone has a good time and that we all get something out of it.... and thats probably not different regardless of its a couple.. and single girl or a single bloke..

the same that I have for anyone.... the way I look at swinging in general is friendships first and if anything comes from that then that is a bonus....

yes it is the sex that intially brings people here.. but is it definately the social side of swinging that keeps me coming back...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting a couple is different from meeting a single fem, but both are enjoyable!

With a couple I get to natter with two people (and I can gob for England sometimes!) there's the unbridled joy sometimes of seeing a lady enjoying the attentions of two men, which tends to make her rather happy....fantasy wise, it opens up many other scenarios and I can usually have decent banter with the other chap too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually find meeting couples there is less pressure or at least what appears to be less pressure on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet the couple unless the guy stayed away.

My own juice is fine, others, not so much..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was with a couple and the excitement of getting sexual with another mans partner while he was watching really turned me on. I've been hooked since and prefer to meet couples.

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By *ust a TeaseMan
over a year ago

Earth

its a social thing for me, i like to talk to people and i find it more fun when there are 3 or more involved lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a couple we are looking to meet single guys, I know and understand what our motivations are but was wondering what motivates the single man in meeting with a couple, yes sex but there must be more reason than that ? "

Helps if it's a 'curious' couple as makes for more fun with all experimenting in different ways. That said i've played with many a couple where they have different wants - i.e the guy just watching, the girl being the sole focus of both guys, or the woman just getting constant attention if one guy needs a breather! (We all know you ladies have much more stamina than us guys!).

But for me - guess I just love seeing a woman get twice the attention! I've had MFF threesomes a lot and if it was with 2 straight girls the attention tended to be focussed on me - and I much prefer to be the one 'giving' rather than 'getting'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a people person, yes I love sex but I find it fascinating people others too. Nice to have a liberal meeting. Often once get to know a couple can chat, play games and flirt, tease and have great sex all rolled into one. I just think it is a fantastic world to be apart of where sex isn't seen in the same way as society sees it.

So basically i like meeting people and the sex is a much welcomes bonus but no you're right like couples,females or singles were all after the sex but it is more than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a couple we are looking to meet single guys, I know and understand what our motivations are but was wondering what motivates the single man in meeting with a couple, yes sex but there must be more reason than that ?

probably the same motivation for everyone... that everyone has a good time and that we all get something out of it.... and thats probably not different regardless of its a couple.. and single girl or a single bloke..

the same that I have for anyone.... the way I look at swinging in general is friendships first and if anything comes from that then that is a bonus....

yes it is the sex that intially brings people here.. but is it definately the social side of swinging that keeps me coming back...."

This is what i was trying to say, you've put it better than i could :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy it as it is to enhance their relationship, good meal , chat and fun what more could you want

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By *uckknowsMan
over a year ago

here

At the end of the day it's sex and if the mans bi even better there's nothing better than being a couples plaything

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

To be blunt, it's on my bucket list, gone almost as far as I can one on one.

Although every time I say that, something else comes along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its more than just the sex, its being invited into the inner sanctum of a couples bedroom. The thought of joining a couple in the most private of things is a powerful aprodisiac. specially if the buy is bi too so we can all enjoy each others bodies and minds.

To bring something that both enjoy and to hopefully bring each to climax is a huge turn on for me. Its also very intimidating as being out numbered so to speak edges more tension in it for that hopefully I pass back to the couple!

Its a very very erotic pleasure for me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intrepid nailed it I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intrepid nailed it I think."

If you pardon the pun....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intrepid nailed it I think."

Thanks even with my dyslexic punctuation and grammar (just reread it oops!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intrepid nailed it I think.

If you pardon the pun....

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:P

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By *ayb1970Man
over a year ago

Somerset

mmmm just like the thought of two men attending to the lady!Also maybe if its a couple there may b less chance of the women becoming to attached ?,To the single guy......

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meeting a couple is about being part of their sexual experience and if done right is so eroitc as you know you can explore and he's there to enjoy himself too. as long as all are upfront about the experience ... sex, erotic massage, voyeur etc then all is well.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like the three way dynamics of it all especially in public bars, I like to kiss necks etc smell hair hold ass lol , got carried away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love to see a lady handle more than one cock like to watch and take part you can do both if theres 3 of you

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By *obsrocketMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

I have to say when I meet couples for me the main aspect is double the pleasure for the lady. Although in a more mundane way if you are playing with a couple you do remove the risk of the lady cheating on her husband as you are arranging to meet both of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a couple we are looking to meet single guys, I know and understand what our motivations are but was wondering what motivates the single man in meeting with a couple, yes sex but there must be more reason than that ? "

The idea of everyone just being comfortable enough to be sexually expressive in each others company,even if it's just s sexually charged conversation, is a real turn on to me and also to be invited into your personal intimate world is just an amazing thought

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