FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swinging Support and Advice

Ideal dick size.

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Simple question, in inches, what is the perfect penis size for you?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

7.45”, +/- 0.2”

I bring a ruler to meets

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"7.45”, +/- 0.2”

I bring a ruler to meets "

Haha. Love it

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Between 6-8”, but preference is for thicker cocks over long ones!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

It’s not the size of the boat it’s the motion in the ocean They say ps but I never seen any 3” dildos lol

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine isn't one of these foot long monster special baseball bats, but always seemed to provide pleasure. That's all I care for, that she is pleasured. It's not just the cock that gives pleasure, it's the whole experience. Porn has alot to answer for.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *otsolittlesecretWoman
over a year ago

prestatyn

6-8 inch is just right for me

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer girth to length so 6” is plenty big enough for me.

Miss V

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *uadzillaMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I've got a 9" tongue and I breathe through my ears lol

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I bet hay fever season is terrible for you ??

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideal is between 6-7 inches. I have between 6-7 inches.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

Small to average for me.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 inches is the ideal cock size for a greedy girl like me

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

7 to 8 inches for me anally x

Mrs N x

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Mines the template right?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say mine is an ideal cock

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *trangeleftyMan
over a year ago

London

Looks like I'm not ideal for anyone

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not the size of the boat it’s the motion in the ocean They say ps but I never seen any 3” dildos lol"

Ha, you'd be surprised

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 16/11/20 07:14:51]

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of girth but 6.5 inch in length.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it depends on how tight/loose the women is?...can't be all about if the guy is required to have certain girth/length

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Variety is the spice of life so any size can be good fun. Smaller for my mouth bigger for my..

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for answering. After reading though the forum, its a question that has been asked a lot, sorry for asking again.

I have next to no confidence in my size. Im 6 ad a half inches but I grow upto 7 and a half.

Guess watching all that porn with monster dicks sort of lowered my confidence.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *hropsGuy69Man
over a year ago

telford


"Guess watching all that porn with monster dicks sort of lowered my confidence."

Ha ha yeah monster porn cocks are something else

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

6,8 inch fir fucking , love small cocks for sucking

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I think im the perfect size. But too big is too big.. Depends on what the woman wants,.. And who's attached to it.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

Mrs said depends where it's being put

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideal is between 6-7 inches. I have between 6-7 inches."

Whose ideal?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree porn can ruin it for you at times, but it's also good to be honest with yourself and also work and always try to improve your sexual technique. Try new things out in the bedroom etc. All the best bruv, I think in terms of dick size I'm the ideal size for most of these women, I might be a little too big for those who don't want more than 7 inches, but i always say, you can't please everyone, cheers OP

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all for answering. After reading though the forum, its a question that has been asked a lot, sorry for asking again.

I have next to no confidence in my size. Im 6 ad a half inches but I grow upto 7 and a half.

Guess watching all that porn with monster dicks sort of lowered my confidence."

Eh? You are 6.5 soft but 7.5 hard??

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *iptonblokeMan
over a year ago

tipton

My 5.5inch cock and fingers n tounge work well enough

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you all for answering. After reading though the forum, its a question that has been asked a lot, sorry for asking again.

I have next to no confidence in my size. Im 6 ad a half inches but I grow upto 7 and a half.

Guess watching all that porn with monster dicks sort of lowered my confidence.

Eh? You are 6.5 soft but 7.5 hard??"

Haha no. I should have worded that better. On hard I’m 6 and a half but sometimes I go upto 7 and a half.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Nothing to big 6 or 7 inches is good

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all for answering. After reading though the forum, its a question that has been asked a lot, sorry for asking again.

I have next to no confidence in my size. Im 6 ad a half inches but I grow upto 7 and a half.

Guess watching all that porn with monster dicks sort of lowered my confidence.

Eh? You are 6.5 soft but 7.5 hard??

Haha no. I should have worded that better. On hard I’m 6 and a half but sometimes I go upto 7 and a half. "

I know that Viagra trick too

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all for answering. After reading though the forum, its a question that has been asked a lot, sorry for asking again.

I have next to no confidence in my size. Im 6 ad a half inches but I grow upto 7 and a half.

Guess watching all that porn with monster dicks sort of lowered my confidence.

Eh? You are 6.5 soft but 7.5 hard??

Haha no. I should have worded that better. On hard I’m 6 and a half but sometimes I go upto 7 and a half.

I know that Viagra trick too "

Perhaps you're not measuring it from the same place each time?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

Not a fan of big ones, about 6/7 ins is fine especially if the guy knows how to please a woman

Jess

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport


"Not a fan of big ones, about 6/7 ins is fine especially if the guy knows how to please a woman

Jess"

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I'd like to know if my cock size is good?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm 60 next month, have been shagging for over 40 years and I can truthfully say I've never known the length or girth of any cock I've had the pleasure to meet and that's the way it will remain.

The size of a cock is insignificant in determining a cracking sexual experience for me unless so small it's barely there or so huge it stops a good pounding, I don't give it a nano seconds worth of consideration.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I'm 60 next month, have been shagging for over 40 years and I can truthfully say I've never known the length or girth of any cock I've had the pleasure to meet and that's the way it will remain.

The size of a cock is insignificant in determining a cracking sexual experience for me unless so small it's barely there or so huge it stops a good pounding, I don't give it a nano seconds worth of consideration."
you look stunning can't believe your nearly 60

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm 60 next month, have been shagging for over 40 years and I can truthfully say I've never known the length or girth of any cock I've had the pleasure to meet and that's the way it will remain.

The size of a cock is insignificant in determining a cracking sexual experience for me unless so small it's barely there or so huge it stops a good pounding, I don't give it a nano seconds worth of consideration. you look stunning can't believe your nearly 60"

Why? What are 60 year olds supposed to look like then?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideal is between 6-7 inches. I have between 6-7 inches.

Whose ideal?"

Read it the other way round. Then you're there

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly don’t care. As long as not extremely small or extremely large cock sizes don’t determine meets

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I honestly don’t care. As long as not extremely small or extremely large cock sizes don’t determine meets "
its how you use it not the size of it

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

No matter what you drive,it's how you drive. It's the journey that is the fun not just how fast you get there or what you drive. It's how you feel while on the journey.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"No matter what you drive,it's how you drive. It's the journey that is the fun not just how fast you get there or what you drive. It's how you feel while on the journey."
I would let you ride me anytime you wanted

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante

This question comes up so many times and always the varied answers. Boring.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly don’t care. As long as not extremely small or extremely large cock sizes don’t determine meets "

It's not the size off the nail that matters its the size of the hammer putting it in

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *nholy TrinityCouple (MM)
over a year ago

leeds/york

In our experience it can provoke interest when we post a cock pic - but good sex depends on mutual attraction, not cock size Huge can be problematic, as can tiny.

If you’re in the “Goldilocks” zone, all is good

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

6inches or thereabouts is ideal, no longer than 7. Girthy definitely a bonus.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"6inches or thereabouts is ideal, no longer than 7. Girthy definitely a bonus. "
is mine a good size lol

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

Looks perfect.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Looks perfect. "
thank you x I love your pics very sexy x

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"Surely it depends on how tight/loose the women is?...can't be all about if the guy is required to have certain girth/length "

This is a misconception - even the world's widest adult vagina would be much narrower than the smallest adult penis to put it illustratively. And why is "a guy required"? No one is required to have anything, we are how we are and some will match with us and others won't. This obsession with penis size is exasperating, it's like a plague.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Mine is not going to change, so why fret.

Hold my own, well unless they have

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

Based on my favourite vibrator, it would be between 5.5" and 6".

When I say to a man that "it's too big" this is not a compliment but a problem and a potential dealbreaker, so to speak.

Needless to say, "ideal" cock is just one component of the experience. As they say - for a bad dancer, even his balls are in the way so I would strongly encourage less focus on comparing penis sizes and more focus on how to be a good lover and play partner. Just my two cents.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely it depends on how tight/loose the women is?...can't be all about if the guy is required to have certain girth/length

This is a misconception - even the world's widest adult vagina would be much narrower than the smallest adult penis to put it illustratively. And why is "a guy required"? No one is required to have anything, we are how we are and some will match with us and others won't. This obsession with penis size is exasperating, it's like a plague. "

I agree that the obsession from women about cock size is exasperating...in many profiles a guy is required to have a certain length unfortunately

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely it depends on how tight/loose the women is?...can't be all about if the guy is required to have certain girth/length

This is a misconception - even the world's widest adult vagina would be much narrower than the smallest adult penis to put it illustratively. And why is "a guy required"? No one is required to have anything, we are how we are and some will match with us and others won't. This obsession with penis size is exasperating, it's like a plague.

I agree that the obsession from women about cock size is exasperating...in many profiles a guy is required to have a certain length unfortunately "

The forum and the rest of Fab are two different worlds unfortunately. What you hear or read in here is only a tiny cross section of what we will see on profiles of people who don’t enter the forum. Requirements of a minimum 7/8/9” are on every other profile, so it’s not surprising men get hung up about it.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"Surely it depends on how tight/loose the women is?...can't be all about if the guy is required to have certain girth/length

This is a misconception - even the world's widest adult vagina would be much narrower than the smallest adult penis to put it illustratively. And why is "a guy required"? No one is required to have anything, we are how we are and some will match with us and others won't. This obsession with penis size is exasperating, it's like a plague.

I agree that the obsession from women about cock size is exasperating...in many profiles a guy is required to have a certain length unfortunately "

We all have preferences although not all of us mention them but we all do - it's not personal.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is almost 6.5", but it's about that round as well. But on a good day it'll reach almost 7. But at no point I've never thought "I wish it were bigger"

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you can climb into the vagina and set up a base camp there then I wouldn't worry about it

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Surely it depends on how tight/loose the women is?...can't be all about if the guy is required to have certain girth/length

This is a misconception - even the world's widest adult vagina would be much narrower than the smallest adult penis to put it illustratively. And why is "a guy required"? No one is required to have anything, we are how we are and some will match with us and others won't. This obsession with penis size is exasperating, it's like a plague.

I agree that the obsession from women about cock size is exasperating...in many profiles a guy is required to have a certain length unfortunately

The forum and the rest of Fab are two different worlds unfortunately. What you hear or read in here is only a tiny cross section of what we will see on profiles of people who don’t enter the forum. Requirements of a minimum 7/8/9” are on every other profile, so it’s not surprising men get hung up about it.

"

Not hung... sorry up on it.

Just think if size matters, love a tight clenching lady every time.

Leave the sloppy caves to those who need a food processor with a rolling pin attached to fill it,

Give me the clinch, just don’t do it early!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if you can climb into the vagina and set up a base camp there then I wouldn't worry about it"

I'd be worried I went too far and encountered a Balrog

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many cocks and all so different! I prefer to see what I'm getting first, it's not only about size, also shape, any bends/curves, colour, hardness, the hair doo (or hair don't! I particularly dislike fully shaved) circumsized etc

Ideal size is between 6 and 8 inches for me, 6 and below preferabley on the thicker side. I've enjoyed a few 9inchers and some 5s too. Had amazing sex once with a guy who only had around 4inches.

So many factors go into it!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ecretmeetshotmanMan
over a year ago

NE

Interested to hear the thoughts towards curved dicks?

Tried them? Like them? Curved how much / which direction?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"Simple question, in inches, what is the perfect penis size for you? "
my size as I can't change it

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley


"A lot of girth but 6.5 inch in length."

Sounds about right

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"A lot of girth but 6.5 inch in length.

Sounds about right "
what do you think of the size of mine lol

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Am I still winning?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey


"Surely it depends on how tight/loose the women is?...can't be all about if the guy is required to have certain girth/length

This is a misconception - even the world's widest adult vagina would be much narrower than the smallest adult penis to put it illustratively. And why is "a guy required"? No one is required to have anything, we are how we are and some will match with us and others won't. This obsession with penis size is exasperating, it's like a plague. "

I disagree. Vaginal tissue is elastic and though all vaginas will close completely in their resting state there are differences in how far they will expand when something is inserted. The main cause of the difference will be genetic though there can be some other contributing factors such as age. Vaginas are very elastic and many ladies enjoy the feeling of being stretched and as such have a preference for a large girthed penis hence why thickness usually comes top of any poll when a lady is asked their preference of length or girth. Some ladies enjoy the sensation of being stretched so much they want to take it further and develop a liking for fisting and very large dildos.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rate my cock please

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

ideal is a fat 8.5 but I like 7 or 9

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Rate my cock please"

tbh It's ok

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Interested to hear the thoughts towards curved dicks?

Tried them? Like them? Curved how much / which direction? "

curved are great fun too

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rate my cock please

tbh It's ok "
thanks hun x

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ngels of Sin 69Couple
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"Between 6-8”, but preference is for thicker cocks over long ones! "

^^ this for me too, v

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ude boy 2017Man
over a year ago

Bolton

I wonder how ladies rate mine

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is Big Harold still on here?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely it depends on how tight/loose the women is?...can't be all about if the guy is required to have certain girth/length

This is a misconception - even the world's widest adult vagina would be much narrower than the smallest adult penis to put it illustratively. And why is "a guy required"? No one is required to have anything, we are how we are and some will match with us and others won't. This obsession with penis size is exasperating, it's like a plague.

I agree that the obsession from women about cock size is exasperating...in many profiles a guy is required to have a certain length unfortunately

We all have preferences although not all of us mention them but we all do - it's not personal.

"

Yep...we all have preferences, I have some as well but I stick to be realistic....imagine me saying you've got to look like Megan fox no exceptions, I would have no chance

A small percentage of womens expectations on here are laughable when they look like they crawled out of a swamp,

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Between 6-8”, but preference is for thicker cocks over long ones!

^^ this for me too, v"

This sounds about right

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *n With LifeCouple
over a year ago

Hadley Wood


"Simple question, in inches, what is the perfect penis size for you? "

There is no ideal size, only ideal men!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of girth but 6.5 inch in length."
Perfect! Girth as well.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

34 up to double d size

Chunky ass made in the gym

5ft4 or less

Nice teeth

Sext eyes

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that anything from 7 - 9 inches is perfect for me, but with a good girth. Perfect for all combinations lol.....above 9 is challenging and also quite fun but the main thing is that they be hard as rock xx

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that anything from 7 - 9 inches is perfect for me, but with a good girth. Perfect for all combinations lol.....above 9 is challenging and also quite fun but the main thing is that they be hard as rock xx"
Your good. I once had a ten incher and it nearly broke me in half. He took my screams as appreciation.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 7 inches and thick xx

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

34 up to double d size

Chunky ass made in the gym

5ft4 or less

Nice teeth

Sexy eyes

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 7 inches and thick xx"
You have the tongue for a seven incher!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Mine is 6inch, more than happy with it, no complaints yet lol

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a personal preference for 6 - 8” if a guy is just going to ram it in in a skilless attempt to fuck (at least that way there’s a little pleasurable feeling to it)

For guys who make the effort then size really doesn’t matter too much with exception of extremes (sub-4” plus-10”)

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 7 inches and thick xx You have the tongue for a seven incher! "

xx

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Is the size of my cock alright lol

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just below 6 take it or leave it

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks you look perfect yourself x

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *iptonblokeMan
over a year ago

tipton

Anyone want to rate mine lol

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had a group of all 10 inch plus in Florida several years ago..was hobbling like a 70 yr old cowboy for a few days

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *armupartistMan
over a year ago

York

I wouldn't know how to measure mine, perhaps along the top from the pubic bone? Underneath would be tricky. Is there a BS approved system?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Surely it depends on how tight/loose the women is?...can't be all about if the guy is required to have certain girth/length "

Preference isn't about how "tight" someone is. That's such a stupid view of it. Every woman inside is different. As in length and width of the inside. Some people I've seen take huge massive cocks but have been really tight. Then guys get uppity when a woman has a preference.

I'm plus size so therefore lose some length because of my massive ass. So for me 7-8 is ideal but I wouldn't knock a guy with a smaller one if they were thinner body wise. But 2 fat people fucking loses some length. Sorry to be blunt but that's true. I can also take bigger cocks but 9 is about my limit and it becomes uncomfortable. But anything below 6 is just meh.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Usual reminder that according to the best study available the average penis size is 5.2", and that a) people on internet lie a lot and b) people are fucking useless at measuring things by eye.

Only 1 in 10 men has 6".

Only 1 in 500 men has 7".

Only 1 in 100,000 has 8".

Unless they're measuring it properly in front of you, assume anyone claiming a number is lying or mistaken.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just have to ask if you want to see mine

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *edbath 5Man
over a year ago

london

As a man and only oral 4/5 is enough for me. My gag reflexes are awful.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"6-8 inch is just right for me"

There's quite a difference between the 2.... I'd say that would fall in the genrally any category

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usual reminder that according to the best study available the average penis size is 5.2", and that a) people on internet lie a lot and b) people are fucking useless at measuring things by eye.

Only 1 in 10 men has 6".

Only 1 in 500 men has 7".

Only 1 in 100,000 has 8".

Unless they're measuring it properly in front of you, assume anyone claiming a number is lying or mistaken."

Which study was that?

Cheers KJ

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Below is some info from the worldwide study "Am I Normal"

What makes this study of note is the fact it pulled together data from 20 projects worldwide with a total of over 15 thousand men taking part.

"What is the average penis size?

Penises are an area of endless fascination, an elephant in the room men often don’t talk about, and the dimensions thereof are an obsession for those who wield them and those who don’t.

Some facts for you:

The “Am I Normal?” was a study, conducted as a collaboration between King’s College London and the NHS, that collated professional measurements of the penis length and girth of 15,521 men in 20 worldwide projects.

According to the study, 5.16 inches is the average length of a penis when erect and 3.6 inches when flaccid.

The average girth is a circumference of 4.59 inches and 3.67 inches when flaccid.

So the reality is most men don’t have a six-incher... So where did that myth come from?

Well, we can thank Second World War sexologist Alfred Kinsey for that. He conducted a study which reported that the average length of an erect penis was 6.21 inches; however, the study included a number of limitations, the biggest of all being that participants were self-reporting (perhaps explaining where that extra inch came from)."

Some of the demands on women's profiles here on fab is crazy when you consider in terms of the size they want it really is the tiny top percent of men.

In fact many have a said on this thread that average just doesn't cut it.

Is it any wonder that guys get so hung up?

As a swinger you get to see so much for example I've seen my wife tell a guy with an 8 incher to stop / that's enough because they were shit with no skill, no rhythm etc. Then a guy with not much more than 4 inches and slim girth literally went next and was able to make her cum no problem.

KJ

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once had a group of all 10 inch plus in Florida several years ago..was hobbling like a 70 yr old cowboy for a few days "

Lol

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interested to hear the thoughts towards curved dicks?

Tried them? Like them? Curved how much / which direction?

curved are great fun too "

8 and 3/4 inches and curved. I tend to get a lot of compliments because of the curve, I'm not very thick but enough girth I believe xx

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 18/11/20 13:33:27]

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely it depends on how tight/loose the women is?...can't be all about if the guy is required to have certain girth/length

Preference isn't about how "tight" someone is. That's such a stupid view of it. Every woman inside is different. As in length and width of the inside. Some people I've seen take huge massive cocks but have been really tight. Then guys get uppity when a woman has a preference.

I'm plus size so therefore lose some length because of my massive ass. So for me 7-8 is ideal but I wouldn't knock a guy with a smaller one if they were thinner body wise. But 2 fat people fucking loses some length. Sorry to be blunt but that's true. I can also take bigger cocks but 9 is about my limit and it becomes uncomfortable. But anything below 6 is just meh. "

No need to apologise thats your opinion, as the above is my opinion.

No need to get uppity yourself, if you say guys get uppity about preferences then so do women...these forums are so hypocritical at times...you'd think men can't have preferences and women can

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Which study was that?"

The one you quote in your next post.

I used that data in the calcSD Penis Percentile Calculator to do the heavy lifting on the maths.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is between 7 and 8 inches and I believe it has decent enough girth

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

One size fits all !!!

You dont have to use the full length

Never measured, not like i can get a new one

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ohn1953Man
over a year ago

North Wales

Here we go again, a man asking about cock size, with most women it’s not about size it’s about how you use it, plus a lot of ladies orgasm though forplay enjoying a nice tongue or a nice fingering, it’s about enjoyment and making them feel sexy too

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Gotta agree with quite a few, 6-8 inches is a good size... Does have to have a bit of girth but not too much- if he's shaped like a can I am gonna struggle lol

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is the ideal size without doubt. Anyone care to check? It's free to try. 6" and very girthy

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *unglebook40Man
over a year ago

hull

Mines big enough to fill a pram.....

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Here we go again, a man asking about cock size, with most women it’s not about size it’s about how you use it, plus a lot of ladies orgasm though forplay enjoying a nice tongue or a nice fingering, it’s about enjoyment and making them feel sexy too "

Sorry for me, to really pleasure me, I definitely need both. I been really disappointed with smaller cocks and slightly disappointed with bigger cocks. Ideal size is around 8 inches and knows how to do it with great foreplay is the ideal fuck

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's does seem to be a disproportionate number of very well endowed fellas on here or there is at least whenever I look at the "new pictures" section!

Then again, I'm 6.5" and been complimented for my "big cock" so maybe some of us are just clever with a camera in getting the best photo where we look at out best! Lol

I was concerned over my size for abit, but apparently I'm slightly above average and as has been mentioned on this thread, it's not like it's going to change so accept it!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I would be very interested to know whether all the members of the "I need it to be eight inches and *thick*" crew have ever actually taken out a tape measure and measured their partners properly, or whether they're just relying on the hilariously inflated figures men come up with.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *hubbycheckerMan
over a year ago

Porstmouth

Small to average for me.

This is me haha

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ay_kiwiMan
over a year ago

Richmond

Its all about the girth so I am told /smile

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago

N Peterborough.

Bigger & girthier aren't always better.

I know Mrs has felt like she's been punched in the stomach after a good pounding from a schlong one.

Same for very girthy ones, its a pain with oral.

Had nearly all of our best fun with cocks that are of 'average' size. Its the personality and ability to actually turn up and get stuck in that is more important imo.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much thickness/girth do you ladies prefer?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton

Think i need to measure mine to see if i measure up

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go again, a man asking about cock size, with most women it’s not about size it’s about how you use it, plus a lot of ladies orgasm though forplay enjoying a nice tongue or a nice fingering, it’s about enjoyment and making them feel sexy too

Sorry for me, to really pleasure me, I definitely need both. I been really disappointed with smaller cocks and slightly disappointed with bigger cocks. Ideal size is around 8 inches and knows how to do it with great foreplay is the ideal fuck "

That fella rings a bell. Shame you’re so far away. I could even help with the bike dilemma

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends what you're going to do with it. I'm only 5 inches but that's good for anal, especially with partners who're inexperienced in that area. I've broken in several anal virgins and they seem to have had a good time.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once had a group of all 10 inch plus in Florida several years ago..was hobbling like a 70 yr old cowboy for a few days "
What a way to go! A new book beckons.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideal would be 8” x 6.5”+ .. Definitely prefer girth and I think 7.5-8” length is plenty

I’m a greedy girl

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

My FWB is 7.5” long, 6.5” girth and he’s absolutely perfect

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I once had a group of all 10 inch plus in Florida several years ago..was hobbling like a 70 yr old cowboy for a few days What a way to go! A new book beckons. "

Would be an interesting read I agree

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My FWB is 7.5” long, 6.5” girth and he’s absolutely perfect "

Am only 7" & 5"

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey


"My FWB is 7.5” long, 6.5” girth and he’s absolutely perfect "

My cock is very similar being 7.25" long and 7" in girth. It has has been described as a perfect size for regular sex by a few of the ladies that attended my parties and have lots of experience in this area. They've told me however for anal sex they prefer thinner and for oral the preference is less length so there won't be a perfect cock for all occasions.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 to 7 with some girth.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 8 with lot of girth so far.....but intrigued to try bigger just to see what it’s like x

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *hezzababeWoman
over a year ago

Ashton

I've had a few bf in my time or fb before dating sex sites, they have messed me about and someone told me of this site so I joined.

I've had various sizes, a massive man and the tiniest half a small finger, but this little guy wanted to put all the pleasure into me, he wasn't offended by his decisions or lack of confidence. He simply attached a strapon like device, after he had his pleasure. I didn't argue with that extra length, I was wowed

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *iptonblokeMan
over a year ago

tipton


"I've had a few bf in my time or fb before dating sex sites, they have messed me about and someone told me of this site so I joined.

I've had various sizes, a massive man and the tiniest half a small finger, but this little guy wanted to put all the pleasure into me, he wasn't offended by his decisions or lack of confidence. He simply attached a strapon like device, after he had his pleasure. I didn't argue with that extra length, I was wowed"
wow thank you for complimenting us smaller guys ??

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Simple question, in inches, what is the perfect penis size for you? "

Big enough to feel but small enough not to hurt

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not the size of the boat it’s the motion in the ocean They say ps but I never seen any 3” dildos lol"

Saw them in Japan

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

I feel like some people forget that one of the aspects of having a larger cock is that you don't have to use every inch. Just treat it like a 6 incher with room to spare

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I feel like some people forget that one of the aspects of having a larger cock is that you don't have to use every inch. Just treat it like a 6 incher with room to spare"

Sadly a lot of guys don't have that much self-control.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

I've never actually measured mine.... can you ladies guess my size by looking at my pics

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *omoxfordMan
over a year ago

leeds

Your 6.5 flacid ??

Mine doubles in size when hard it's no where near yours on slack

Guess we are all different

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few bf in my time or fb before dating sex sites, they have messed me about and someone told me of this site so I joined.

I've had various sizes, a massive man and the tiniest half a small finger, but this little guy wanted to put all the pleasure into me, he wasn't offended by his decisions or lack of confidence. He simply attached a strapon like device, after he had his pleasure. I didn't argue with that extra length, I was wowedwow thank you for complimenting us smaller guys ??"

It’s a compliment to one smaller guy

There does seem to be a generalisation that smaller guys make more effort or are, somehow, less selfish lovers.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple question, in inches, what is the perfect penis size for you? "

I think it very much depends on the person but in an ideal world 7+ for me. I struggle with girthy cocks but I can handle length (8/9 in my biggest so far).

My GP said I had a very high cervix once and I've always wondered if this is why I like long cocks but can't handle a fat one. Haha

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ensualpleasures69Man
over a year ago

leeds


"Thank you all for answering. After reading though the forum, its a question that has been asked a lot, sorry for asking again.

I have next to no confidence in my size. Im 6 ad a half inches but I grow upto 7 and a half.

Guess watching all that porn with monster dicks sort of lowered my confidence."

I’ve not got the biggest in the world or the smallest and I don’t believe it’s about size, it’s more about all the build up from making the woman feel special, giving her all your attention, knowing your way around her body and the rest comes naturally, if a woman’s got time for me intimately then I’ll give all I’ve got, and a cuddle afterwards !!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I love the size of mine lol

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere between 5 and 7 inches for me

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *en ukMan
over a year ago

harrow London

My cook it's 7.2 inch I am very happy with my size cook

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple question, in inches, what is the perfect penis size for you? "

Seems like a bit of a daft question when you only have one..... unless you’re planning to shorten it?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ixen 2020Couple
over a year ago

daventry

Size is sooooo not my god, it’s what you do, how well you lick and how good we gel, that’s far more important to me

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not the size of the boat it’s the motion in the ocean They say ps but I never seen any 3” dildos lol"

It is not the size of the boat or the motion of the ocean - it’s that the Captain makes sure every gets off when the ship docks.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *redzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

6-8 depending on girth and skill aha

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

My goldilock cock was my2 exs both 8 with just the right girth.

6 to 8 is fab.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

8 to 9 inches is perfect and I'm anal only x

Mrs N x

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had no complaints

Mines not big and not small and deffo not girthy

You ladies decide if it’s a fair size

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *hilledOutGuy1Man
over a year ago

Not far away

well after reading this thread I'm not sure many ladies will be banging on my door lol

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My suction dildo is 9"

Make of that what you will

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"8 to 9 inches is perfect and I'm anal only x

Mrs N x"

Rules me out lol

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Yours!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *uburtCouple
over a year ago

pontypridd

We are only here because my wife needs 8"+ to cum hard

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"We are only here because my wife needs 8"+ to cum hard"
wish I was 8+ now haha

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ete le MeatMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire/ Notts

I'm happy to help out.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

5 to 7 inches, but thick

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

leicestershire

I'm there or there abouts 7 n girthy

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *edtothecore.2.0Woman
over a year ago

Kings Lynn

There is no such thing... I can love a man with the smallest or biggest dick... it truly has no ideal for me.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

It's no good having a nice 8 inch dick if the guy on the end of it is an utter moron.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I'm different lol but I don't like big dicks

8" it's a maximum

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I'm different lol but I don't like big dicks

8" it's a maximum

"

I am so glad someone as said they dont like big dicks but I would class 8" as big still

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines 8 inch but it’s not very girthy. Most of the women I have been with prefer girth and tbf I would prefer a tighter pussy. So either they need a designer vagina or I need girth surgery. Or we could just be happy with what we have? I found a hack, squatting over them with their legs closed under me. Makes it more enjoyable for both

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Between a sky remote and a can of lynx..

It somewhere in the middle

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mines 8 inch but it’s not very girthy. Most of the women I have been with prefer girth and tbf I would prefer a tighter pussy. So either they need a designer vagina or I need girth surgery. Or we could just be happy with what we have? I found a hack, squatting over them with their legs closed under me. Makes it more enjoyable for both "

Just find an oriental women.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm there or there abouts 7 n girthy "

I would swap an inch in length for more girth

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mines 8 inch but it’s not very girthy. Most of the women I have been with prefer girth and tbf I would prefer a tighter pussy. So either they need a designer vagina or I need girth surgery. Or we could just be happy with what we have? I found a hack, squatting over them with their legs closed under me. Makes it more enjoyable for both

Just find an oriental women. "

I think the problems the same no matter the race. If the girthy dick has found her first, I’m squatting

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"My cook it's 7.2 inch I am very happy with my size cook "

That's a short cook you have - but needs must, it's so hard to find good help these days!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cook it's 7.2 inch I am very happy with my size cook

That's a short cook you have - but needs must, it's so hard to find good help these days! "

Also incredibly precise

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

5 to suck and 7 be fucked

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it vwe, 9 inches and very girthy

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
back to top