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By *rcadian110 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Hi guys. This is a idea that's been running round our heads for ages. Once or twice a week when we have fun together we can just play for 40 or 50 mins and that's enough to send us to bed with a smile on both our faces. Then usually on a Saturday we have a lie in and then spend 8 to 10 hours just pleasuring each other. Slow and sweet as well as hard and fast , we just let the monument take us

Now I've been seeing a lot of people on rdit and other sites saying anything over 10 mins can get boring or sore. Others saying what we do once a week should be the norm.

So in your opinion how long is long enough and how long is too long? We know it varies but what's your usual preference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends on the time and situation for the length of sex you can have.....

With everyone being lockdown in the house a marathon sex session can be challenging.....

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Actual 'pumpy pumpy' sex could get boring after so long, but I'm guessing you're going several hours including playing? I LOVE it when we have several hours to spare so we can focus on each other! The hours can easily fly by... So no time limit on that one xxher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would find 8-10 hours exhausting, but would be bored long before I got exhausted.

However it doesn't really matter what others think if it's working for you.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

Wales

Whatever works for you and your partner. There is no right or wrong way to do it, just what works for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do Sexy Sunday all day fun day and it never gets boring. Change things up. Take a few rest and rehydration breaks. Lots of time to focus on each other and explore new avenues to pleasure.

If it works for you who cares what other people think

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Blimey those were the days ... kids put a stop to all that.

Whatever works is all good

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By *arentsgonebadCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Id be bored out of my head 8/10 hours what the hell u doing lol


"I would find 8-10 hours exhausting, but would be bored long before I got exhausted.

However it doesn't really matter what others think if it's working for you."

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By *fclocketCouple
over a year ago

corby

8-10 hours! Ah hell no

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

15 minutes for a quickie, 45 minutes for a longy. 8-10 hours? We've got other stuff to do.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Depends how much water you put in the kettle.

8-10hrs? Is it a job or fun your doing? We can have a long lye in but more cuddling, stroking, talking than a constant playing thing.

S

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By *urtleJRCouple
over a year ago

Ystradgynlais

We have kids.

Lucky to get 10-15 mins in the mornings!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 to 10 hours.....call me an ambulance quick.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I don't think we've ever had a session that long, even before kids!

Most mornings or nights it's a 15 minute quickie if we're lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weekdays when we are together. An hour maybe.

The weekends. We dont bother sleeping at all.

J

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By *uperbabeCouple
over a year ago

ampthill

We are exactly the same, we can have some marathon sessions, take hydration breaks, have a heart to heart chat maybe watch some porn and the get cracking again until we run out of fluids and fall asleep. Each to their own x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slow and sweet as well as hard and fast , we just let the monument take us"

No matter how long it takes, I definitely think you should let the monument take you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have probably spent 3/4 hrs as about the longest, however long you get in a day hotel. But that would be foreplay, sex, recovering, using the loo, drinking tea, talking then repeat until we get thrown out. Very pleasant it all is too.

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