FabSwingers.com forum: Am i ugly?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am i ugly? If not how can I not get anywhere on here? Feel free to ask for a pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone out there for everyone apparently

Some will find you attractive and some won’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its hard for lots of people to meet on here so i wouldnt worry too much. Interesting masks by the way

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By *ollymollWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

Sometime people are put off by unkind status updates.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe many years in and out of here has led to the update. Tough it’s the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugly isn't aesthetic, it's attitude... Your status update is rather ugly tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you been told you are pretty, or is that just your opinion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ugly isn't aesthetic, it's attitude... Your status update is rather ugly tbh"

Lol just read that profile it is kinda harsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometime people are put off by unkind status updates. "

Agreed

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By *ollymollWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

"Ugly isn't aesthetic, it's attitude... Your status update is rather ugly tbh"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ugly isn't aesthetic, it's attitude... Your status update is rather ugly tbh"

Couldn't agree more xx

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

"Maybe many years in and out of here has led to the update. Tough it’s the truth "

You asked for feedback. Probably best to lose the toilet shot.

Re status update. If the first thing people see is your status update it puts a dark note in the mind, changing how they then see you - truth or not!

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

If your going to have an attitude on your profile, what attitude will you have on a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your status is very ugly, didnt look any further tbh, compleat turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugly status suggests an ugly person.

It's not about looks, it's attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant even see your face so how can we tell?

Plus that status is a massive turn off

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

"Am i ugly? If not how can I not get anywhere on here? Feel free to ask for a pic"

Yes.

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

"Am i ugly? If not how can I not get anywhere on here? Feel free to ask for a pic

Yes."

Harsh

Its hard on here for lots of people and easy to get jealous (op) but be yourself and try and be happy with that, and ignore things that make you feel down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re giving off the impression of an ugly person even though we can’t see your face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am i ugly? If not how can I not get anywhere on here? Feel free to ask for a pic

Yes.

Harsh

Its hard on here for lots of people and easy to get jealous (op) but be yourself and try and be happy with that, and ignore things that make you feel down"

not harsh, there are so meny idiots on here, and im not saying the op is one, but hes behaving like one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think your current status will do you any favours, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your pictures are quite good. But, You come across as a very aggressive person with the 'fuck off' quote. And a touch arrogant calling others out.

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

It is difficult to say ... given your face is covered, and it is not for us to judge.

As others have alluded to, your status really is off the mark here. Theoretically you would fall in to my bracket as someone I would potentially be interested in, but reading that, and some of the narrative on your profile would put me off!

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

"Am i ugly? If not how can I not get anywhere on here? Feel free to ask for a pic"

Define ugly, it's an emotive word.

Ugly regarding your physical looks, no idea, I can't see your face.

Ugly regarding your attitude as a human being, no idea, I've never met you or spoken to you.

Ugly aura, from your status and profile biog, I could come to that conclusion.

Your profile in general is very negative which isn't attractive, plus, the disclaimer which even Fab say is pointless is 3 times the length of your biog.

However, you're not in the demographic we're looking to meet, if it wasn't for your thread we'd never have looked at your profile, so our feedback is largely irrelevant, we're not the people you're looking to attract.

Good luck, Fab can be tough, it can be cruel at times. It cam also be fun. Hoping you can find the fun you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like has already been said, the status is cringe worthy.

Is hard to tell what you look like. Everyone has different tastes. What is beautiful to one may be not so much for someone else. Fab is a numbers game I'm afraid. With a totally disproportionate male to female ratio.

Hope you find what you're looking for.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

No matter what you look like there is always someone who will find you appealing. However you sound bitter and a mess inwardly so aal you will attract is negativity

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

It won't help that you're demanding a face pic, but refuse to share one of you're own.

This isn't blind date.

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By *pices69Couple
over a year ago

Gravesend

Status update is ugly

Profile doesn’t tell us anything... Also, quite rude...

Come here for fun, to meet people we would want to spend time with... Looks aren’t everything, but in this case, the profile is unattractive.

Hope you have better luck in future and take feedback as constructive.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Am i ugly? If not how can I not get anywhere on here? Feel free to ask for a pic"

What do you mean, 'not get anywhere'??

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Am i ugly? If not how can I not get anywhere on here? Feel free to ask for a pic

Yes."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the op is in for a shock when she logs back in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is only skin deep. It’s what’s on the inside that counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That status update says more about you as a person than any picture could possibly do. Would put me off instantly even if you were the most stunning looking person on here (which you are not).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crumbs! I stopped initially at the status update but have now read the rest of the profile. I am afraid every word comes across as ugly. I very much doubt you will get any interest as it currently stands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a great man said once, beauty is skin deep but ugliness goes right to the bone

Id rather someone who had a pretty personality rather than a shallow diva

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sent you a private message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am i ugly? If not how can I not get anywhere on here? Feel free to ask for a pic"

Nasty status and harsh profile. You may not be ugly we cant tell. But inside these portray an ugly person

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Judging by your status update, your attitude is putting people off not ya mug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stark reality on here and any other site is that very very few people, especially women, are actually looking to meet. Many years ago as an experiment i put an ad on Craigslist with pics as being a young guy in a central london hotel up for anything the following evening. Snowed under by replies but not one person actually contacted me the following day wanting details. Says it all.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Shite attitutde that's why you're not getting any interest from people. It's down to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am i ugly? If not how can I not get anywhere on here? Feel free to ask for a pic"

Right Chelz. I'm not usually one to hold back on what I say...( I should be gagged and hidden in a box under the stairs sometimes, if I'm being honest....!!) But you've asked a question and I will do my best to answer it as truthfully as I can!

Your pics are fairly cute, loving the mask, really love that!! Love the outfits, super cute!! And then it comes to your 'blurb' and status..... This is your downfall, right there!!

I think people have given the perfect example of why you may have been called 'ugly'. It's not an aesthetic thing, but an attitude thing!

Honestly... Would YOU date you?

Now, come on, take the advice given as trying to help you, there's some straight talkers on here, and maybe write something with a smile on your face at the time you write it! You will see a huuuuuuge change if you do! Once you've got it sorted, sit back and let your inbox be the judge!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"your status is very ugly, didnt look any further tbh, compleat turn off"

Agree 100%

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By *itsAndTangentsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I really need to start bulk buying my popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never put others down to bring your self up , looks are temporary good character is for life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negative statuses always put me off.

Its doesn't do you any favours.

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By *ickylouiseTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

No fair Where's mine he he. Lovely new shoes by the way. Lush x

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I agree with a previous commenter, your status is ugly and that's 10 times worse than an physically unattractive face!!

Maybe the slight issue of a global pandemic is also hindering your meet potential.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Your profile text is unpleasant and your status update is the same. Can’t see much of you in your pics so idea if you’re physically ugly, but you’re putting yourself across that way in your profile.

In general it’s warm, friendly profiles that do best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No wonder you are struggling with a status like that, I think more positive. There is someone out there for me it might take a little time to find each other that’s the way I look at it.

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast

Attent.

There's a bit of attention for you.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

The aggressive status, profile and the useless bandwidth wasting disclaimer would put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe many years in and out of here has led to the update. Tough it’s the truth

You asked for feedback. Probably best to lose the toilet shot.

Re status update. If the first thing people see is your status update it puts a dark note in the mind, changing how they then see you - truth or not!

This.

I'd also add that not everyone is looking to meet Tvs and we are in a pandemic so less people are both on the site and obviously meeting.

Lastly your profile doesn't really tell anyone why they should meet you. What makes you more worth their time and effort than other people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant say people will rush to meet you with your status and I mean why would you want to if we all look a mess?

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By *.W CPLCouple
over a year ago

PRESTON

We have had a look at your profile can't say you look ugly as you hide your face but as for personality yes you seem like a horrible person who is very shallow and you shouldn't put others down to make yourself feel better and asking for face pics and blatantly saying you won't give one out isn't doing you any favours ether

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have had a look at your profile can't say you look ugly as you hide your face but as for personality yes you seem like a horrible person who is very shallow and you shouldn't put others down to make yourself feel better and asking for face pics and blatantly saying you won't give one out isn't doing you any favours ether "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know am ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't read the profile before, only the status update.

Now I read it and it's revolting.

Ugly personality will never attract any positivity. On fab or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't read the profile before, only the status update.

Now I read it and it's revolting.

Ugly personality will never attract any positivity. On fab or not."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ugly status suggests an ugly person.

It's not about looks, it's attitude. "

Agree totally.

Ugliness comes from the inside.

The status tells everyone what they need to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your status would put most off each to their own but if your personality is ugly it can be a huge put off that's not for me to say why you are not getting any meets but need to work on the inside before working on the outside, can't please everyone we are all attracted to different things I hope you eventually find what you are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see the point of uploading several pics of a face in a scary face mask. I also think the text on the profile is a bit nasty - have some respect for the reader.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a no , your photos are pointless they don’t show you , this site is a selling site , you have to promote yourself, why the swear words ? It makes you look a dick , maybe a total makeover is needed ,

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