FabSwingers.com forum: bi / gay men..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

so kind of curious!

bi / gay men, have you had much success on here?

not moaning, just curious about other male members seeking same sex fun experiences on here !

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

when I was meeting.... yes.

great times.

good luck, hope you do well also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on here two months and I've had 10 meets. As I am writing this, I am getting ready to head out for the 11th meet tonight (yippee!!).

9 men, 2 women, not too bad so far.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I've been on here two months and I've had 10 meets. As I am writing this, I am getting ready to head out for the 11th meet tonight (yippee!!).

9 men, 2 women, not too bad so far.

Have a good one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If any Gay or Bi men are having trouble meeting on here there is allways Fab Guys

ive seen a lot of men moaning in chat rooms that no one meets Bi or Gay men,by the looks of the posts in here there is members out there who meet,they must be doing sumit wrong as there seems to be a lot of fun out there to be had

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've been on here two months and I've had 10 meets. As I am writing this, I am getting ready to head out for the 11th meet tonight (yippee!!).

9 men, 2 women, not too bad so far.

Now that's just plain showing off!

Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

interesting, tbh fabguys although a great idea is a bit of a non starter (too few members,most members are inactive for extended periods) so that's out of the question unfortunately!

should've added more detail to the initial question..

the type of meets you've had here @ bi / gay men.. were they mostly quickies (not interested in those!) or something more fun and satisfying?

not really clear on the caliber of sexual play most are seeking on here!

interesting responses so far tho!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

bump..

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Use this site mainly for the forums now but have had a fair few meets off here.

Get messaged by an average of 3 "straight" guys a month though.

Must just be the way I am...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had some good meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had some great meets when i first joined

then i discovered the forums

so now, i could still probably have some great meets, but i just think 'leave me alone, i'm happy talking nonsense and tormenting folk'

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

should've added more detail to the initial question..

the type of meets you've had here @ bi / gay men.. were they mostly quickies (not interested in those!) or something more fun and satisfying?

not really clear on the caliber of sexual play most are seeking on here!

interesting responses so far tho!"

I choose not to use this site to meet guys, not because I don't but I found that their motives were often questionable. More often than not, if they wanted to meet a question would be posed to whether a female could join us....you soon see through that.

I rarely do last minute meets with guys as on the main Gay sites your profile has no verification option, so it is even more wide spread pic chasers, horny chatters and tuggers..I would just go to a Gay sauna.

Fabguys just seemed to lack any fun when I used it.. and I like the banter.

good luck and hope that answered your question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

should've added more detail to the initial question..

the type of meets you've had here @ bi / gay men.. were they mostly quickies (not interested in those!) or something more fun and satisfying?

not really clear on the caliber of sexual play most are seeking on here!

interesting responses so far tho!

Fabguys just seemed to lack any fun when I used it.. and I like the banter.

good luck and hope that answered your question.

i have a fabguys profile too and concur that there aren't enough people to make it work and a lack of a forum is a sticking point.

as for the 'gay' sites, again i agree - far too many fantasists who find it easier to knock one off, rather than physically meet

i think profile content on here also puts a good deal of men off

when i had a profile that said very little, i did get more responses from guys than i do now.

i think they take one look and think 'crank'

if they have got enough energy to click down to the pics they then think 'crank AND minger'

either way, fab does me just fine - as a generalistaion, i just love the people here

a proper rich tapestry of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on here two months and I've had 10 meets. As I am writing this, I am getting ready to head out for the 11th meet tonight (yippee!!).

9 men, 2 women, not too bad so far.

Now that's just plain showing off!

Enjoy!

Thats what i thought! #jealous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabguys can be very quiet for actual action. I have had much more contact on there, but I find a lot of them just want to get a dirty pic or message to wank over! The guys on here seem to want to meeting real life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good ones will always be successful on FAB, whatever their sexual orientation or preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am bi

i have looked at fab guys not my thing

i do not mind playing with me but rather play with the ladies

i constantly get messages from men old enuff to be my son saying cum suck my cock now that dont apeal to me

if i want a bit of man fun i will choose who as you ladies keep saying there got to be a atraction there in the 1st place lol

and if i feel like a slut i will pop down the greenhouse in newport and full fill my needs

but every one to there own if we were all the same it would be effin boring heheheheheheh

thats my _iew so dont care lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish the Green House would let me in to watch the action, mmmmmmmmmmmm!

Perhaps I should ask the owner if he would let me sneak in next time I see him at Chams.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you would give all the voyers a heart attack they dont touch the men so you walk in wow would love to see it lol

also tv ts cd dont realy get a good welcome the one i met said she was not allowed in the bar area thought that was not rite weather its true or not but did not stop me playing with her heheheheheheh

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I recommended Fabguys to a friend of mine at work, and he's met 6 men in 4 weeks, so it can't be totally useless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabguys can be very quiet for actual action. I have had much more contact on there, but I find a lot of them just want to get a dirty pic or message to wank over! The guys on here seem to want to meeting real life! "

Yes we tried Fabguys in the hope of finding a 'real' bi guy but didn't find it very good. My (Spit's) theory is that it is mostly married men who want to try but bottle it. OK you get that on here too but we have found Fabswingers better in the long run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me personaly find fab better

but then i have lots of friends male and female all round the country wich i met but not through fab ie clubs, parties etc

but each to there own it suits some but not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Likewise I much prefer FAB than FabFlirts.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think Fabguys could do really well if it had a forum because it does have features that Gay*** or SQ*** don't. On one the cruising re_iews works like a forum/boards but it doesn't work as well.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

*** inserted as am not sure if I could mention names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*** inserted as am not sure if I could mention names

Do you think gay men would be interested in a forum then? I always assumed they wouldn't be, and that is why there isn't one.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"*** inserted as am not sure if I could mention names

Do you think gay men would be interested in a forum then? I always assumed they wouldn't be, and that is why there isn't one."

on some of the 'huge cock' sites I may and I say may have ventured into

one does and it is really well used and very diverse topics raised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did not like FabFlirts as it lacks a forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not realy sure as gay guys do tend to be more informed and gone thro all the emotions of coming out

im bi i know what i want pussy cock mmmm both together bring it on

but gays i have me would never touch a pussy

lets have some _iew on the gay man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did not like FabFlirts as it lacks a forum.

Do you think that a forum encourages meets? I always think it is more of a ladies 'thing'. We love the forums.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"im not realy sure as gay guys do tend to be more informed and gone thro all the emotions of coming out

im bi i know what i want pussy cock mmmm both together bring it on

but gays i have me would never touch a pussy

lets have some _iew on the gay man "

lol, great point... but the lounge type topics would be a hoot... it would a bitchfest

and then other forums for support, club re_iews, site feedback etc.... some very early adopters in the Gay world, that's why marketing to the Pink Pound is key for any techy company... high disposable income

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love them hehehehhehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did not like FabFlirts as it lacks a forum.

Do you think that a forum encourages meets? I always think it is more of a ladies 'thing'. We love the forums.

Nowadays, I am more likely to meet someone because I like his posts in the forums, than to meet a non-participant.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

I get more contracts on here than Fabguys but I am fussy so most don't go anywhere although I have had a few fun meets. I just wish I tickled the fancy of some nice couples occasionally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did not like FabFlirts as it lacks a forum.

Do you think that a forum encourages meets? I always think it is more of a ladies 'thing'. We love the forums.

Nowadays, I am more likely to meet someone because I like his posts in the forums, than to meet a non-participant.

Yes I am attracted to people's posts too. But unfortunately they usually live too far away (are you reading this Bussy?!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

interesting responses, still curious though.. what has the caliber of your meets been like @ GAY / BI men?

a succession of blow and go quickies (not interesting!) or long fun sessions..?

Get the impression the former is vogue on here over the later! ;p

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

not all...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"interesting responses, still curious though.. what has the caliber of your meets been like @ GAY / BI men?

I wouldn't rate their calibre to be honest, if they weren't what I was looking for, I wouldn't meet them... and they me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm kinda interested to find out if some guys decide to go bi to get more meets after realising not as easy to meet fems as it is to meet guys. Just curious. Although I won't meet a bi guy. Just my preference. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm kinda interested to find out if some guys decide to go bi to get more meets after realising not as easy to meet fems as it is to meet guys. Just curious. Although I won't meet a bi guy. Just my preference. X"

interesting question..

also within the gay community a large proportion also won't meet bi men because bi men are perceived to be feral,unfussy and gluttonous and more inclined to be unsafe.. those are the stereotypes tho.. probably some truth in them like most stereotypes but not representative of all i assume.

interested in why women won't meet bi men tho?

what puts women off them?

are they perceived to be inadequate in some way by women?

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By *uckknowsMan
over a year ago

here

You can't be trying hard enough I must get more cock pic messages than some of the fems on here and a lot of those are from men saying there straight on there profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

interesting question..

interested in why women won't meet bi men tho?

what puts women off them?

are they perceived to be inadequate in some way by women?

Basically the same reason as why some gay men won't meet bi guys. The whole more chance of them being unsafe if go with anything with a hole to be honest. Im just not attracted to guys who go with guys. Sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fluffy said ....

"Basically the same reason as why some gay men won't meet bi guys. The whole more chance of them being unsafe if go with anything with a hole to be honest. Im just not attracted to guys who go with guys. Sorry x"

You are so bloody wrong to assume Bisexual men are dirty old men full of STD's and they all fuck men - grow up and stop dissing us all and we can use same arguments with Bisexual females are they Dirty to grrrrrrrrrrrrr

grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

yorkie stamps feet in anoyance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't say you were dirty old men. Did I??? Calm down and get over it. I don't meet bi guys. My preference. Go pick yer dummy back up or find a cock to shove in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"fluffy said ....

grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

yorkie stamps feet in anoyance "

And how does Fluffy know she hasn't already slept with a bi guy? Most of the messages we get are from 'straights' wanting to fuck his arse lol.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"a lot of those are from men saying there straight on there profiles"

So many sexy men on here

such a pity one's profile states their straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think that bi men are more promiscuous than gay or straight guys.

They may have a similar number of partners, but those partners are of either sex as opposed to of one sex.

As for gay guys not liking bi guys ?

Come off it !

For many a gay guy, a bi / 'straight' is like the fkin Golden Egg

You even see profiles asking for just that. 'No gay guys, only want to meet bi / married guys' etc etc

Might not see it here so much but my experience on other sites tells me otherwise !

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I do think that bi/gay men are more promiscuous than straight guys. obviously not all, but a lot

because it is easier.. a gay/bi could go to a local cruising area/sauna for sex much quicker than a straight guy could go on line and get a meet/pick someone up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn't say you were dirty old men. Did I??? Calm down and get over it. I don't meet bi guys. My preference. Go pick yer dummy back up or find a cock to shove in it. "

Yorkie puts dummy back and apologies for ranting - having a bad day - sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do think that bi/gay men are more promiscuous than straight guys. obviously not all, but a lot

because it is easier.. a gay/bi could go to a local cruising area/sauna for sex much quicker than a straight guy could go on line and get a meet/pick someone up.

you must have been to better sauna's than me _iew

i usually spending hours palming round thinking there is no one in here i fancy, before giving it up as a bad job and goin home

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I do think that bi/gay men are more promiscuous than straight guys. obviously not all, but a lot

because it is easier.. a gay/bi could go to a local cruising area/sauna for sex much quicker than a straight guy could go on line and get a meet/pick someone up.

you must have been to better sauna's than me _iew

i usually spending hours palming round thinking there is no one in here i fancy, before giving it up as a bad job and goin home

or your fussier than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am bi and have not had any real issues, ok I play straight if requested, only had one out and out no. I think its all down to profile wording

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn't say you were dirty old men. Did I??? Calm down and get over it. I don't meet bi guys. My preference. Go pick yer dummy back up or find a cock to shove in it.

Yorkie puts dummy back and apologies for ranting - having a bad day - sorry "

Lol sorry that was meant to be a joke. But looking back wasn't very nice what I said. Looks like I need to be sticking something in my mouth more often. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't think that bi men are more promiscuous than gay or straight guys.

They may have a similar number of partners, but those partners are of either sex as opposed to of one sex.

As for gay guys not liking bi guys ?

Come off it !

For many a gay guy, a bi / 'straight' is like the fkin Golden Egg

You even see profiles asking for just that. 'No gay guys, only want to meet bi / married guys' etc etc

Might not see it here so much but my experience on other sites tells me otherwise !"

some seek the novelty of "bi".. perhaps because these bi seeking gay men perceive bi men to be more virile or masculine because they sleep with women also? not sure..

within circle of gay male friends most are not interested in bi, the general attitude is ..too risky..feral and unfussy..

as for married men going with other men without informing their partner.. maybe the unseemliness of that scenario is turn to some.. again not sure.

bi men and gay differ tho.. different attitudes and preferences so wouldn't associate the two beyond they both play with same sex partners.

interesting comment tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

within circle of gay male friends most are not interested in bi, the general attitude is ..too risky..feral and unfussy..

ooh i quite like the idea that some might see me as feral

certainly makes me sound far more interesting and unpredictable than i actually am

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

within circle of gay male friends most are not interested in bi, the general attitude is ..too risky..feral and unfussy..

well in Gay Clubs all over the world, I have yet to be asked if I was bi or gay before they gorged on my knob....

don't ya love the gays...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"within circle of gay male friends most are not interested in bi, the general attitude is ..too risky..feral and unfussy..

well in Gay Clubs all over the world, I have yet to be asked if I was bi or gay before they gorged on my knob....

don't ya love the gays...

feral and unfussy attracts feral and unfussy.. it could be argued. ;p

an element of truth in what is said in the quoted post. there is a dreg element within the gay community who will go with anything regardless of how pocky , obese or senior as a result of the bi novelty thing. although like most novelties they wear thin and become boring and unappealing eventually.

Wager though most roll their eyes and lose interest when they hear the word "bi" uttered ;p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" there is a dreg element within the gay community who will go with anything regardless of how pocky , obese or senior as a result of the bi novelty thing. "

are you suggesting i only get a shag cos i'm old, fat and ugly ?

i much prefer the feral and interesting idea

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over a year ago

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

To be fair, you can go to the most upmarket health clubs and you will see & admire 'the beautiful', fresh with their purchases from Vivienne, young and their whole lives ahead... and it is fab to see.

They will swish past, eyes fixed to the wall ahead incase eye contact happens with others less toned, pouting and huffing and puffing if an inferior model reads a wrong message...

But when the horn gets them, it does us all...

they suck, fuck, & felch the same as the obese, just less breathless.

usually based on

body

cock size

and then possibly sexuality.

but very happy to agree to disagree. It may be something I have completely missed on the Gay sites.

Something for me to consider... thank you

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