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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

but with a twist

please any advice to stop the straight single guys messaging us, have tried to make it as clear on our profile as poss, but we still get loads everyday.

we dont want to block all guys as there are some we want to meet, but are seriously thinking about it, any help would be great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block them. It is the easiest solution. Asking on your profile will make no difference to the idiot that thinks he can and will be the exception.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but with a twist

please any advice to stop the straight single guys messaging us, have tried to make it as clear on our profile as poss, but we still get loads everyday.

we dont want to block all guys as there are some we want to meet, but are seriously thinking about it, any help would be great "

Hi,

Unfortunately without resorting to the total block option I think that any wording you put in your profile won't stop guys 'trying their luck' and messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

but we really dont want to, as we do want to meet guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but we really dont want to, as we do want to meet guys"

Then you have three choices, accept the dross that you are currently receiving as a price worth paying. Block them and search out males yourself. Block them but take the block off as and when you are looking for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Block them but take the block off as and when you are looking for a meet.

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didnt think of that, good idea thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can block us (i mean them) and if you find a single guy who you want to meet you can still msg THEM! And since you have msged them, they are then able to msg you back!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

right done, all men blocked, seems such a shame tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"right done, all men blocked, seems such a shame tho "

i knew i shouldn't have opened my mouth!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"right done, all men blocked, seems such a shame tho

i knew i shouldn't have opened my mouth!!!! "

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

The simple answer is to block all men but if you do not want to do that may I suggest what I have seen in many profiles.

Make the first line loud and clear, 'NO SINGLE MEN'... Also in the text of your profile towards the end ask for a word or a phrase to be used as the header for any messages, that way you can ignore any that obviously have not read your profile.

I cant say it works 100% but should help...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1stly. I send ladies 'winks' to try and get a lady/ies attention, its only a bit of harmless fun.

2ndly. If they wink back at me, at least I know they accept me.

Most dont though, and I have put a mention on my profile bout winks etc.

I hope some ladies could change there limits / smoking etc.

I know there are so many more men to women ratio on here, but c'mon ladies. I think im getting overlooked by certain 'TICKS' in boxes and my age.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"1stly. I send ladies 'winks' to try and get a lady/ies attention, its only a bit of harmless fun.

2ndly. If they wink back at me, at least I know they accept me.

Most dont though, and I have put a mention on my profile bout winks etc.

I hope some ladies could change there limits / smoking etc.

I know there are so many more men to women ratio on here, but c'mon ladies. I think im getting overlooked by certain 'TICKS' in boxes and my age. "

why should they change their wants to suit you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"right done, all men blocked, seems such a shame tho

i knew i shouldn't have opened my mouth!!!! "

If you block all single men and then just wink or message the ones you like the look of, then they CAN contact you!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"right done, all men blocked, seems such a shame tho "

It's easy enough to still contact the ones you DO want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gd point Swingers delight.

I guess my luck, judgement and honesty just isnt paying off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our messages are open to everyone.we dont get too many messages from men.not enough to wory about.its easy to just delete men we wont play with.

we have put on before athletic/bodybuilders men only

if you put the type you are looking for and say you will block anyone else.that should do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"our messages are open to everyone.we dont get too many messages from men.not enough to wory about.its easy to just delete men we wont play with.

we have put on before athletic/bodybuilders men only

if you put the type you are looking for and say you will block anyone else.that should do it."

pleased that works for you, but we are only looking for bi men, its amazing how many straight men pretend to be bi to get a meet

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"but we really dont want to, as we do want to meet guys"

in which case.... block them from contacting you... and you contact the ones you fancy as opposed to the other way round......

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We're not looking for single guys so we just ignore any mail we receive from them. It doesn't cause us any inconvenience so we don't worry when we do receive something from them. It's no big deal.

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