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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey people! I know it’s not the best time for it but I’ve been very keen on trying out like swings clubs/party type things. Again I know there isn’t going to be much chance for this anytime soon but I just wanted to chat to some folk about it and get like some helpful tips and info about it all for when I can give it a bash!

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Clubs are great but unlikely to happen until next year happy to answer any question you have. House parties I couldn't advise you of

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Clubs are great but unlikely to happen until next year happy to answer any question you have. House parties I couldn't advise you of "

Yeah it’s going to be a wee while. But I’m just more curious on how it all works if I’m honest. I presume there are usually guidelines that are given beforehand or something?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Also, as a single guy I imagine it would be hard to stand out haha is there anything you can suggest to help me come across as a bloke he isn’t just being thirsty and looking to fuck everything hahaha

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

Lots of clubs have guides on their websites. The general approach is to not have any expectations, and go looking to socialize.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside


"Also, as a single guy I imagine it would be hard to stand out haha is there anything you can suggest to help me come across as a bloke he isn’t just being thirsty and looking to fuck everything hahaha"

When things are back to normal try a local social.

Chat to people like you would in a pub.

Don't ask questions of a too personal nature like address, jobs, kids etc.

Ask how long been in scene, clubs they have been to, holidays.

Never, ever presume to touch or expect play.

As a couple it took some time to get private party invites.

Just put yourself about, doesn't take too long for people to get to know your face.

Just be yourself, unless you're a complete knob, then try to be someone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Awesome! Thanks for the advice, I’ll try keep it in mind when they time comes around

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"Also, as a single guy I imagine it would be hard to stand out haha is there anything you can suggest to help me come across as a bloke he isn’t just being thirsty and looking to fuck everything hahaha"

Treat it as a social night out without expectations of play. Club's will give new guests a tour & explain their rules, although a lot is just basic common sense & a bit of respect for people.

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By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

For house parties you should turn up early, socialise and watch what everyone else does before joining in any play activities. Turning up early should allow you to have the chance to strike up a conversation with someone who is more experienced and ask for hints and tips. Most parties will last a minimum of around 4 hours so you should have plenty of time to get the information you need.

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By *asputin75Man
over a year ago

darlaston

As a virgin to swinger's clubs and took the plunge and joined my local club xtasia and went along I was a bit apprehensive but the owners and staff were great had a guided tour although no sexual contact were allowed met and chatted to some nice people some areas were a bit clicky but that's to be expected but overall was made to feel welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m looking to go to a club for the first time after lockdown too, thanks for posting this, been reading others’ tips. Fingers crossed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy for you to pm me op, I was a regular club goer for over 10 years.

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