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By *r.SJ OP   Man
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Sorry, i know we've posted this twice, just realised it was in the wrong forum! Very much still learning...

We're both pretty new to this, finding our feet, like dislike etc but one thing we've found good is when misses directs a cock to my mouth and although we've only done it the once, guided a cock to take my anal virginity ??

So far its all happened naturally, which we've found great with our inexperience but, lots of profiles say straight or curious and our meets have been fairly spontaneous and straight into some fun but in the heat of the moment and without prior discussion and without breaking the moment, i feel wary about going down that route in case it breaks the moment :/

Would be good to know how to broach the subject? I'm sure as confidence grows it will be less of an issue but in the meantime... :/

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish


"Sorry, i know we've posted this twice, just realised it was in the wrong forum! Very much still learning...

We're both pretty new to this, finding our feet, like dislike etc but one thing we've found good is when misses directs a cock to my mouth and although we've only done it the once, guided a cock to take my anal virginity ??

So far its all happened naturally, which we've found great with our inexperience but, lots of profiles say straight or curious and our meets have been fairly spontaneous and straight into some fun but in the heat of the moment and without prior discussion and without breaking the moment, i feel wary about going down that route in case it breaks the moment :/

Would be good to know how to broach the subject? I'm sure as confidence grows it will be less of an issue but in the meantime... :/"

In any situation where sex is likely to happen, it's always a good idea to find out any limits and interests ahead of time.

While chatting in the lead up to the time you meet, ask if there's anything in particular your new partner would like to try? Then go from there in a general way--What do you think of X? Y? We don't like Z, but this other thing is something we like or would like to try, what do you think?

Great sex and fun times are all about communication.

I always make it clear that I (as well as whoever I'm meeting) always has the option of saying no, at any point, and it will be respected.

Some people prefer to try, then stop if not for them; others have set limits up front of what they don't want.

In any case, it's always a good idea to have an idea of what you want before hand, and let the other party know.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I always make sure that 'boundaries' are set beforehand on both sides - it saves embarrassing or awkward moments that might interrupt the flow...

....for example, I'm 100% straight, so have no desire to be handled, sucked or 'cleaned' by a bi or cuck husband when I play with a couple - I make it clear that incidental contact is fine, but deliberate isn't...

....only on a couple of occasions have husbands over-stepped, and both were instantly rebuked by their wives - one was very forcefully reminded he could "look, but not touch"!

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

I would suspect that men describing themselves as bi curious rather than fully bi are mostly not going to be interested in full on anal sex with a guy.

If your meets are MMF then I wouldn’t have thought it that difficult to find a suitable bi guy.

If your meets are with couples, parties etc then it’s doing to be more difficult to find people you all click with,

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