FabSwingers.com forum: First time watching your partner with another woman/man

By *ootprints1629 OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

Ok please bear with me here, I know this has been a subject before but I'm sure it was "how did you feel"

So myself and my partner were very new to this scence when we joined, I am fully bi and partner is play bi if that's a category which would be a good idea in the fab world. He has only ventured into mutual oral so we started out with a mmf play and have had 3 since.

Obviously he was so so worried and scared if truth be told about seeing me with another man..It turned out he was so turned on by it..and now has no problem with it...I also find it a huge turn on seeing him suck a cock etc.

Now is the time we are both keen on ffm or Mfmf...but I'm still at that stage of being worried and scared about seeing him with another woman...although very keen, the thought of it is a huge turn on but I'm wondering will reality be different.

Before anyone says well your in the wrong game here, well no we are not as we both want to explore the swinging world.

Unfortunately where we live is a problem as genuine couples/women are very hard to find so when we eventually do we would like them to be understanding about this, is it something experienced swingers are? Understanding or do they just want to jump in with full swaps etc?

So how did you ladies find it, did you have these feelings to? Did it happen and has it scarred you or did it happen and you found it really hot even though you were shit scared before it.

So many questions I know but any advice, story's etc is appreciated.