FabSwingers.com forum: Hubby will be watching!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any other single ladies put off by this phrase when considering play with a couple or meeting the female of a couple.

Most couples say they wont play separately which is fine. Instances where you’d want to meet another lady, who can play alone, but suddenly hubby has to watch or the boyf wants to be involved ruin the vibe.

Im not keen on the idea of putting on a show for anyone, male or female. Others may love it and theres no shame in that.

How do others manage? Advice, experiences, opinions and tips. Please give with love, peace and kindness

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

no experience but our first rule is don't agree to anything you don't want to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I don't mind partners watching or joining in. I only meet couples where I'd be happy with either or both anyway xx

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Any other single ladies put off by this phrase when considering play with a couple or meeting the female of a couple.

Im not keen on the idea of putting on a show for anyone, male or female. Others may love it and theres no shame in that.

How do others manage? Advice, experiences, opinions and tips. Please give with love, peace and kindness

Not a single lady but yeah creeps us the F*** out. It's like some tax or something. We don't want guys just watching, we want everyone involved. It's like it puts this overt cost onto the whole experience. We can do whatever, but there's this one way part to it we have to also accept and be subjected to. Bleurgh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" ...Im not keen on the idea of putting on a show for anyone..."

I can understand why couples prefer to play together (even if that means one of them is watching).

Would I enjoy watching two women together? Definitely.

Do I enjoy being watched? Not at all, my interest is purely in the ‘active’ partner and their sensuality. I assume the husband/partner is watching her, rather than me and I soon forget about him.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Most of our experience has come from the club scene rather than private meets - it happens.

Some men, and indeed some women, prefer to watch rather than be physically involved. Either watching their partner or watching others.

And some men, and some women, prefer to be watched, rather than be physically involved with someone else.

We’re pretty ok with being watched, although not by someone invading our space.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Yeah not for us thanks, as annoying are the single fem profiles with couples in their wants & right at the last of their profile blurb it’ll say “I only meet couples with partner/hubby, our couples profile is......”

FFS Then YOU do not meet couples! How fekkin hard is it to get right?

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"Yeah not for us thanks, as annoying are the single fem profiles with couples in their wants & right at the last of their profile blurb it’ll say “I only meet couples with partner/hubby, our couples profile is......”

FFS Then YOU do not meet couples! How fekkin hard is it to get right?

Yeah this!

So many single female profiles are there with meeting couples in their preferences but then saying they only do that with their partner!

Just remove couples from preferences.

If a woman who is in a relationship has a profile as a single to meet other singles then fine! But if you only meet couples as part of a couple then save that for your couples profile!

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

To add...

As long as people are honest on their profile then anything goes that everyone is comfortable with right?

Plenty of people are voyeurs but don’t want to join in. If they are upfront about it then others can make a choice whether that is for them.

Adding it in as a “new rule” later is plain wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest I don't mind partners watching or joining in. I only meet couples where I'd be happy with either or both anyway xx"

I'm always amazed by the size of your tongue ... very impressive

Nothing else to add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest I don't mind partners watching or joining in. I only meet couples where I'd be happy with either or both anyway xx"

I think it depends on the situation and the dynamic too... x

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I don’t like it and won’t meet them because when I’m meeting a couple, it’s to play with both not put on a show for one of them. Whether that’s the husband watching or the wife.

I also hate it when I’m talking to a single woman and then suddenly she wants her partner to watch or join in or even says she wants me to meet her partner and let him send her photos. It’s like, I’m talking to you because I want to meet a single woman, which is what your profile says you are. If you’re introducing a man, you should have a couple profile.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Char is finding it impossible to find women to play with on her own, and we think that's because we're a couple and the assumption is that Bry will want to be there wanking in the corner.

She doesn't really want the agro of running a second single account though, so she doesn't really know how to proceed.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"Char is finding it impossible to find women to play with on her own, and we think that's because we're a couple and the assumption is that Bry will want to be there wanking in the corner.

She doesn't really want the agro of running a second single account though, so she doesn't really know how to proceed."

The impression we get is that she would need a single woman account to achieve this - for a start you’ll be filtered out of a lot of people’s searches anyway before they even look at your profile.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Thats a bit of a cunts trick saying you'll want to play with a single female woman on woman and then suddenly it 'oh and hubby will be watching too'. Surely everyone thinks that? People need to be upfront from the start as these things are bout honest consent not trickery and coercion. I mean has that tactic of changing the goal posts ever worked? Do single ladies go on to say 'yer, ok then'?

Anyways wouldn't be for us, we like everyone to be activity involved.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

We always play together and always same room

Whether that a 3sum , couples , or a moresum

And yes we both sit out and watch

We like to see each other having fun

But we only sit out for 5mins here and there

Maybe grab a drink

Maybe take some pics

But we never just idly sit there !

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

We only play as a couple and same room we love watching each other that's part of the frill for us no one should feel like a spare part we all play or no one plays # x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being watched have fin with a guys wife so horny

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