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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone had the partner (in this case wife of 10 years) contact you?

I hadn't met this guy and had only been talking a week or so, but wife had gone through his phone and found kik and fab. Messaged me to say he wasn't single as he'd led me to believe......

What would you do now? I'm obviously not going to continue talking with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone had the partner (in this case wife of 10 years) contact you?

I hadn't met this guy and had only been talking a week or so, but wife had gone through his phone and found kik and fab. Messaged me to say he wasn't single as he'd led me to believe......

What would you do now? I'm obviously not going to continue talking with him."

Just apologise to her and explain he had lied and you had only chatted and not met. Then block his number and if she contacts you again on another number block that too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She wasn't angry with me, more wanted to warn me. She could see from messages that I'd said I was not meeting. What a dick though.

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By *idnight_Express69Man
over a year ago

Rochdale


"Has anyone had the partner (in this case wife of 10 years) contact you?

I hadn't met this guy and had only been talking a week or so, but wife had gone through his phone and found kik and fab. Messaged me to say he wasn't single as he'd led me to believe......

What would you do now? I'm obviously not going to continue talking with him."

Or maybe it was him bottling a meet and pretending to be his wife, who very kindly spent time letting you know. As if she would lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone had the partner (in this case wife of 10 years) contact you?

I hadn't met this guy and had only been talking a week or so, but wife had gone through his phone and found kik and fab. Messaged me to say he wasn't single as he'd led me to believe......

What would you do now? I'm obviously not going to continue talking with him."

Ask her if she’s up for some fun!!!

T

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

block the number and move on

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By *reasyMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

It might just be me but I’m finding it hard to know what to believe anymore. There seems to be so many fake, wannabe and people who get pleasure from screwing with your brain on here at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this a few weeks ago the 'ex girlfriend' contacted me

I'd no intention meeting the guy n had only spoken once, she said he'd cheated on her blah blah but afterwards I thought what if she was the freak n not him. Dunno what to believe on here tbh.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Has anyone had the partner (in this case wife of 10 years) contact you?

I hadn't met this guy and had only been talking a week or so, but wife had gone through his phone and found kik and fab. Messaged me to say he wasn't single as he'd led me to believe......

What would you do now? I'm obviously not going to continue talking with him."

Just thank her and leave it there. You have nothing to apologise for. It's their drama

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It might just be me but I’m finding it hard to know what to believe anymore. There seems to be so many fake, wannabe and people who get pleasure from screwing with your brain on here at the moment. "

The trick is to accept things at face value. Understand that what you're being told is unlikely to be 100% true but work with what you have. Don't ignore very obvious warning signs and assume that people will present you with version of themselves which they might not present other people with.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"Has anyone had the partner (in this case wife of 10 years) contact you?

I hadn't met this guy and had only been talking a week or so, but wife had gone through his phone and found kik and fab. Messaged me to say he wasn't single as he'd led me to believe......

What would you do now? I'm obviously not going to continue talking with him.

Just thank her and leave it there. You have nothing to apologise for. It's their drama"

Yes, pretty much this. It’s their own problem to solve.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I take absolutely everything people tell me with a pinch of salt. Whatever truly happened.. was it her? Was it him? You’ll never know. Block the number and the profile and move on.

V x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes, that's pretty much what I said and have done. Thanks for replying.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Has anyone had the partner (in this case wife of 10 years) contact you?

I hadn't met this guy and had only been talking a week or so, but wife had gone through his phone and found kik and fab. Messaged me to say he wasn't single as he'd led me to believe......

What would you do now? I'm obviously not going to continue talking with him."

Stop talking to him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would ask if they are up for a threesome...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you sure it wasn't him pretending to be his wife

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Has anyone had the partner (in this case wife of 10 years) contact you?

I hadn't met this guy and had only been talking a week or so, but wife had gone through his phone and found kik and fab. Messaged me to say he wasn't single as he'd led me to believe......

What would you do now? I'm obviously not going to continue talking with him."

Ask her if she wanted to meet and play

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you sure it wasn't him pretending to be his wife "

What would be the point? I hadn't agreed to meet and had told him there was a guy I see regularly so wasn't looking for 1 on 1 meets. He'd given me his number but I never spoke with him outside fab or kik.

I'm not bothered by it as in upset or anything as I haven't done anything wrong. Just wondered if this was common place on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you sure it wasn't him pretending to be his wife

What would be the point? I hadn't agreed to meet and had told him there was a guy I see regularly so wasn't looking for 1 on 1 meets. He'd given me his number but I never spoke with him outside fab or kik.

I'm not bothered by it as in upset or anything as I haven't done anything wrong. Just wondered if this was common place on this site."

Stranger things have happened

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Are you sure it wasn't him pretending to be his wife

What would be the point? I hadn't agreed to meet and had told him there was a guy I see regularly so wasn't looking for 1 on 1 meets. He'd given me his number but I never spoke with him outside fab or kik.

I'm not bothered by it as in upset or anything as I haven't done anything wrong. Just wondered if this was common place on this site."

It does seem quite common.

I sometimes wonder if people deliberately allow their indiscretions to be discovered to force a since because they're incapable of initiating a conversation on a sensitive subject.

When you think about it it's pretty daft to not cover your tracks by simply deleting conversations

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Are you sure it wasn't him pretending to be his wife

What would be the point? I hadn't agreed to meet and had told him there was a guy I see regularly so wasn't looking for 1 on 1 meets. He'd given me his number but I never spoke with him outside fab or kik.

I'm not bothered by it as in upset or anything as I haven't done anything wrong. Just wondered if this was common place on this site.

It does seem quite common.

I sometimes wonder if people deliberately allow their indiscretions to be discovered to force a since because they're incapable of initiating a conversation on a sensitive subject.

When you think about it it's pretty daft to not cover your tracks by simply deleting conversations"

To force a confrontation that should say.

I wish I could force myself to proof read

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