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By *ndrew.ardvark2014 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Hi all!

As can be seen (from my profile), am a longtime and genuine Fabber. Love the lifestyle!

However....., increasingly frustrated by the inability to respond to welcoming winks or messages, due to being beyond the age limit in the other person/couple’s profile.

Now, I am the first to acknowledge that I am of a mature age/ not of the Instantly-IT Educated Era !

It’s not as if I can ask my ( student- age) daughters for help!????

So, any advice would be welcomed!

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

The age limit in the profile of anyone who messages you OP does not prevent you from replying to the message. I think the same is true of winks

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By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan

Nothing you can do I'm afraid, age is a tide that can't be turned

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"Nothing you can do I'm afraid, age is a tide that can't be turned "
age is but a number. If people want to limit their prospects of a meet, it's, their problem, not yours. I wouldn't worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The age limit in the profile of anyone who messages you OP does not prevent you from replying to the message. I think the same is true of winks "

True.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

If they have winked or messaged you, then even if they have an age filter set, you should be able to respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they have winked or messaged you, then even if they have an age filter set, you should be able to respond."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wink back

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"If they have winked or messaged you, then even if they have an age filter set, you should be able to respond."

Yes, as above - I occasionally get winks and messages where I'm outside the stated age range, but have always been able to respond...

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

If a person messages you first, they bypass their own rules and so you’ll be able to reply. If then wink you, you can certainly wink back

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Hi all!

As can be seen (from my profile), am a longtime and genuine Fabber. Love the lifestyle!

However....., increasingly frustrated by the inability to respond to welcoming winks or messages, due to being beyond the age limit in the other person/couple’s profile.

Now, I am the first to acknowledge that I am of a mature age/ not of the Instantly-IT Educated Era !

It’s not as if I can ask my ( student- age) daughters for help!????

So, any advice would be welcomed!"

I'm very confused, as above, you can respond if, as you indicate, they have made the first move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op will be busy responding to all he’s welcoming winks to even reply here now

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Op will be busy responding to all he’s welcoming winks to even reply here now "

Hahahahahaaha

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