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By *icktickboom OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

just seen our sons porfile how can we get rid of it on her hes 18

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Hes an adult so allowed to have a profile on here

Block him so he can't see yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only one comment to make...."like father, like son".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder did he find your profile first though!!!!!!!

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By *amnationsedgeMan
over a year ago

Ashborne

Really saying he can't have a profile is pretty hypocritical. I'd advise talking about him about it and teach him that sex with someone important to you is better than casual sex.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Take the log out of your own eye before you take the speck out of mine" was written in a well known book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really saying he can't have a profile is pretty hypocritical. I'd advise talking about him about it and teach him that sex with someone important to you is better than casual sex."
That's hypocritical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just seen our sons porfile how can we get rid of it on her hes 18"

If you get rid of it, it's likely that he'll only go and create a new one.

He's not doing anything illegal or wrong.

You have two choices: talk to him or block him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did you know it was him?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Can just imagine every 18 yr old guy from newcastle now wondering if you're his parents

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby


"Can just imagine every 18 yr old guy from newcastle now wondering if you're his parents "

I wonder how many of them have removed their profiles

Honestly OP why on earth should you be able to remove his profile? If it bothers you that much perhaps you should remove yours or... as he has the same interests as you talk to him about it! (No that does not mean anything shady)

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By *icktickboom OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

and i found out hes gay too what a way to find out...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really saying he can't have a profile is pretty hypocritical. I'd advise talking about him about it and teach him that sex with someone important to you is better than casual sex."

If that's how you feel then why are you on here? If it's not how you feel why do you think it's appropriate advice?

Because as I read your response all I think is how hypocritical and judgemental it sounds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and i found out hes gay too what a way to find out...lol"

Really think you all need to sit down and talk things over together. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really saying he can't have a profile is pretty hypocritical. I'd advise talking about him about it and teach him that sex with someone important to you is better than casual sex.

If that's how you feel then why are you on here? If it's not how you feel why do you think it's appropriate advice?

Because as I read your response all I think is how hypocritical and judgemental it sounds."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found my son on here ages ago.. I blocked him... and told him that can we make sure that we never go to the same events..

I think many parents are shocked that their kids go on to do this.. but I am sure the children are much more shocked to find out their parents do it.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really saying he can't have a profile is pretty hypocritical. I'd advise talking about him about it and teach him that sex with someone important to you is better than casual sex."

Like everything with youngsters ... it's futile to tell them NOT to do something ... just teach them how to do it safely .... give him all the information they needs and be open and then hopefully when they're in trouble it's you they'll come to.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think values often run through families, and I've seen this within my own family, how many of us share some less common but wonderful sexual passions.

As for your son, I'm guessing he didn't know you were on Fab, unless he wanted to somehow let you know he was gay/bi/bicurious etc, as well as into swinging - often we communicate more with what we do, than with what we say.

I'd block him, unless/until you want him having fuller access to your sexual interests - some would be fine with this, many not. You could either ignore what you've learned, kind of like burying your heads in the sand, or approach things sensitively.

If you've always let him know that he's loved regardless of sexual/other interests, then he'll be more likely to be able to be open with you, and not feel scared of rejection, criticism etc. Think about what is the main problem/issue for now, and maybe approach things step by step. Is it that you all swing, that he's possibly got some gay sex interest, having swinging partners at your place, etc? There are probably a lot of things, and being open and accepting, and lots of communication between you all, is probably going to allow him to open up, as he sees fit.

Good luck!

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By *icktickboom OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

some great advice thanks . im not telling him what to do its up to him just chill and go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did you verify him ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and i found out hes gay too what a way to find out...lol"
He takes up the ass or sucks or both. Ok not sure where the lol is coming from but good luck best block him.

* FuCkS oF baCk tO HeLl * -l-

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Really saying he can't have a profile is pretty hypocritical. I'd advise talking about him about it and teach him that sex with someone important to you is better than casual sex."

Huh?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

thats funny.. does he have cock pics..

just block and ignore.. watch out when he tries to find out when you out for the night..

does he say he can accommodate hahha . chances are he knows you here already and is just checkin up on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He is young and experimenting in the big wide world. Time for a beer and a father and son chat me thinks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He is young and experimenting in the big wide world. Time for a beer and a father and son chat me thinks x"

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By *icktickboom OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

time for a talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

time to fill in that jeremy kyle application form, more like.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have only one comment to make...."like father, like son".

"

Hahahhaahaa. Love that one

He deserve a pay rise

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London


"He is young and experimenting in the big wide world. Time for a beer and a father and son chat me thinks x"

Sounds like its a bit late for that

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"time to fill in that jeremy kyle application form, more like....."

Well that tickled me!

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