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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ill be honest and say ivs been on site awhile undera couple of profiles over a few years but never had a meet.

Could do with advise on profile and how it might happen.

Please message me via my profile if you can help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the irony of this statement but put some clothes on and put up some normal photos.

Make you profile interesting and not just a list of things you want. Your profile has nothing that makes it unique.

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By *rimKardashianMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Some women on Fab absolutely live for a semblance of correct spelling and punctuation.

If you've taken the time to send a message out into the world, it somewhat behooves you to maybe double check it before sending as you might, just might, also turn out to be an attentive partner in the bedroom paying special attention to them in a similar fashion.

Obviously, I wouldn't know if this "rule" actually works out as it's a rather spurious claim on my part but I'm guessing it's also another way to filter out the many men that appear on Fab and would otherwise save them PRECIOUS time from the all consuming GLUT of messages they probably receive on the daily.

That and we are also living through a GLOBAL PANDEMIC so right now might not be the best time for anyone to get matches.

Going back on track, unfortunately your OP is a case in point. Pendantic I know but ho hum.

Good luck OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry op I’ve got nothing for you but if we read your profile then we wouldn’t reply to you.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Plenty of single men on this site and very few women.

Look at your profile and picture. Is this the best you can do ?

Did you do a bit of research as well. Look at other guys profiles and see how yours matches up to those guys that do get meets and show verifications ?

It’s good your asking for advice but nobody is going to write the profile for you.

My advice, do the research and use the camera timer and post better pictures

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

I wouldn’t even read your profile or look at your pics.. your status is off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More pics and loose the last couple of lines....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually rewrite it all

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I didn't even get past your current status...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself. Let you’re own personality shine.

Would you ask for help if you got a meet to please the lady

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Status would put me off even looking.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Your profile is the place to sell yourself. Think what would sell you. Don't labour the negatives - include if really essential.

Look at some other men. See how they cover things, what types of photos they include.

Ask what someone would need to see, in order to evaluate whether they find you attractive. If it's not there, they can't. Then they move on to the next profile until somebody does. Don't miss the boat.

Remember we cannot meet now, except for social only engagement

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