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By *oosegun OP   Man
over a year ago

MaverickTow

Hi hope everyone is well, Just wondering do many men get replys on here. I can't for the life of me get anyone to reply. Am I doing something wrong here or what's the story?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to permission for us to be able to comment or critique anything on your profile.

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By *lovebustyladiesMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Mate seriously don’t worry about it the reply will come from those who actually want to talk I love a chat and usually say some to get a reaction remember girls do get lots of messages so you might not be at the top the que, just enjoy chatting to those who do reply and those who don’t just move on

Good luck enjoy and fill ya boots up

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Huge number of men on here compared to couples and women. Just join in with forum chat, cam room chat and have a good time making friends. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi GG, I tried and tried, but no matter how the message was worded, picture based, profile wording even :I didn't get much back. Still don't to be honest, but now it doesn't bother me as much. I seem to get more messages through my Interaction in the forums. Although that can be a time vacuum. Good luck

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By *oosegun OP   Man
over a year ago

MaverickTow

Yeah cheers mate it's just very frustrating. I think I'm doing something wrong then. I send face pics and all still no good lol. Hopefully something comes along soon. First time being in the forum also

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By *oosegun OP   Man
over a year ago

MaverickTow


"You need to permission for us to be able to comment or critique anything on your profile. "

How do I do that then?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

You've probably made the best move by joining in the 'Forum fun'.

Sit back, relax and enjoy the laughs.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's normal for men anyway, more so during a pandemic when meeting for casual sex is irresponsible at best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile text is actually good.

Action shots on single male profiles tend to put most women off. They do for me anyway. If a guy has pictures of him with another bird on his profile I instantly delete them.

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By *oosegun OP   Man
over a year ago

MaverickTow


"It's normal for men anyway, more so during a pandemic when meeting for casual sex is irresponsible at best."

I'm just looking for chat ATM with someone. Obviously no meets due to covid. Hopefully someone will chat to me lol

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By *oosegun OP   Man
over a year ago

MaverickTow


"Your profile text is actually good.

Action shots on single male profiles tend to put most women off. They do for me anyway. If a guy has pictures of him with another bird on his profile I instantly delete them. "

Yeah never thought of that to be honest. Might have to change that then. Thanks for reply

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By *heGentleman2024Man
over a year ago

North West

Just be yourself mate, who ever your chatting to make an effort with their profile, intrests etc..dont let it get to you as much..some things

Put people off..photos..your profile is you its like a cv..

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi hope everyone is well, Just wondering do many men get replys on here. I can't for the life of me get anyone to reply. Am I doing something wrong here or what's the story?"

No replies - as yet. Been back for a week or so.

Only sent 3 unsolicited messages so far.

One sent to a friend of mine.

Two to females that caught my attention.

One out of the three replied - no prizes for guess who,

Had a couple of winks, 1x friend request and some friendly messages from ladies commenting on my forum posts.

I'm fine with this. I'm in no hurry and enjoy the forums.

I think you need to accept that women are bombarded with messages daily and it's unlikely you're going to get through quickly.

Relax have a cup of tea and enjoy the forum ..and the views!

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By *oosegun OP   Man
over a year ago

MaverickTow


"Hi hope everyone is well, Just wondering do many men get replys on here. I can't for the life of me get anyone to reply. Am I doing something wrong here or what's the story?

No replies - as yet. Been back for a week or so.

Only sent 3 unsolicited messages so far.

One sent to a friend of mine.

Two to females that caught my attention.

One out of the three replied - no prizes for guess who,

Had a couple of winks, 1x friend request and some friendly messages from ladies commenting on my forum posts.

I'm fine with this. I'm in no hurry and enjoy the forums.

I think you need to accept that women are bombarded with messages daily and it's unlikely you're going to get through quickly.

Relax have a cup of tea and enjoy the forum ..and the views!

"

Yeah i think thats what ill do mate. ive been on here well over a year and ive never even got a wink/friend request or even a msg first lol

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Errrrrrm.

Get rid of the cock pic avatar.

That's a big turn off for many women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile text is actually good.

Action shots on single male profiles tend to put most women off. They do for me anyway. If a guy has pictures of him with another bird on his profile I instantly delete them. "

Yes.

Women do this as well.

Why?

I find it more than a little bit odd. Perhaps in the private pictures, but even then I don't quite get it.

Exhibitionism?

Not a criticism, just a lack of understanding.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I think this place is like a typical bar.

You walk in feeling great, but they don’t all rush over to chat. That happens many times, and you start getting fed up with your sparkling banter falling on deaf ears.

One day though, someone’s hanging on your every word....

It hasn’t happened to me yet, but I thought it was a good analogy

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By *oosegun OP   Man
over a year ago

MaverickTow


"I think this place is like a typical bar.

You walk in feeling great, but they don’t all rush over to chat. That happens many times, and you start getting fed up with your sparkling banter falling on deaf ears.

One day though, someone’s hanging on your every word....

It hasn’t happened to me yet, but I thought it was a good analogy "

Yeah i dont quite get it. This site is supposed to be fun. Yeah mate its very hard to get a reply thats for sure. Still enjoying the views tho. Ill get a msg from a woman first one day lol

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