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 It may simply be that I don't meet an admittedly high bar for physical looks. Having said that, if anyone has any thoughts on how I could improve my profile, I'd love to hear your feedback. | |||
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"You sound great and I’m sure you’re brilliant company. I think maybe your profile is a bit intense for some. What are the messages like that you send? " Thank you both for the kind words! It's honestly a mixed bag. I try my best to pick something from a profile that I genuinely find interesting and ask questions about it. If it's an interest they've mentioned that I share, I might explain in anywhere from 50-150 words why I share that kink too, what intrigues me about it, etc. It's possible that's too vanilla. For argument's sake, I have tested the waters with some absolute filth keyboard warrior-esque messages and for whatever reason, those DO get 1-2 responses, but then the conversation just dies - presumably because I reset to just being....vanilla again. It's hard to judge myself. 
Of course, if there isn't much on their profile, which is often the case, I'll usually either just wink or drop them a few words at most to be direct about being up for meeting. | |||
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"You sound great and I’m sure you’re brilliant company. I think maybe your profile is a bit intense for some. What are the messages like that you send? Thank you both for the kind words! It's honestly a mixed bag. I try my best to pick something from a profile that I genuinely find interesting and ask questions about it. If it's an interest they've mentioned that I share, I might explain in anywhere from 50-150 words why I share that kink too, what intrigues me about it, etc. It's possible that's too vanilla. For argument's sake, I have tested the waters with some absolute filth keyboard warrior-esque messages and for whatever reason, those DO get 1-2 responses, but then the conversation just dies - presumably because I reset to just being....vanilla again. It's hard to judge myself.
Of course, if there isn't much on their profile, which is often the case, I'll usually either just wink or drop them a few words at most to be direct about being up for meeting. "All you can do is continue with the trial and error and see where it takes you. There will be people that think you’re perfect for what they’re looking for. | |||
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"You sound great and I’m sure you’re brilliant company. I think maybe your profile is a bit intense for some. What are the messages like that you send? Thank you both for the kind words! It's honestly a mixed bag. I try my best to pick something from a profile that I genuinely find interesting and ask questions about it. If it's an interest they've mentioned that I share, I might explain in anywhere from 50-150 words why I share that kink too, what intrigues me about it, etc. It's possible that's too vanilla. For argument's sake, I have tested the waters with some absolute filth keyboard warrior-esque messages and for whatever reason, those DO get 1-2 responses, but then the conversation just dies - presumably because I reset to just being....vanilla again. It's hard to judge myself.
Of course, if there isn't much on their profile, which is often the case, I'll usually either just wink or drop them a few words at most to be direct about being up for meeting.
All you can do is continue with the trial and error and see where it takes you. There will be people that think you’re perfect for what they’re looking for. "There is wisdom in this  Can only focus on being myself I guess and seeing who actually bites into that. | |||
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"Honestly, I really like it! *claps* My only critique which tbh is worth less than zero anyway, the pic with you smiling with teeth is not the best angle, especially as you look like you have a lovely smile! Other than that bang on! ( literally) " Thank you!!! That means a lot! Argh, you are right about the angle. I'll have to make sure I get more photos taken of me on my next vacation when err.....whenever that happens at this point  | |||
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