FabSwingers.com forum: Brutal honesty, why wouldn't you fuck me?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi fabbers

As the title says, being brutally honest, why wouldn't you meet with me? Or what's wrong with my profile?

I'm think skinned, I can't handle it!

Thanks

Steve

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

You're not my type

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

"You're not my type"

Same, plus saying you’re looking for a Domme usually means you have zero moves of your own and will force me to lead the whole meet, hard work isn’t why I’m here

(This is only my view and from personal experience, others will have different views)

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

" I can't handle it!

Do you mean you can handle it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I can't handle it!

Do you mean you can handle it ?"

And thick skinned, I think the phrase is.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“I’m think skinned, I can’t handle it”

Mainly that’s why.. but also, you’re much too small for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're not my type

Same, plus saying you’re looking for a Domme usually means you have zero moves of your own and will force me to lead the whole meet, hard work isn’t why I’m here

(This is only my view and from personal experience, others will have different views) "

Ah, OK thanks, I'd not thought of it from that perspective, I can see how you would make that connection though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" I can't handle it!

Do you mean you can handle it ?

And thick skinned, I think the phrase is.

Haha, stitched myself right up there haven't I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a couple of extremely good looking, hung, muscled guys in bbc on here and they have problems meeting, a lot of mf and fems on here simply don't meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know a couple of extremely good looking, hung, muscled guys in bbc on here and they have problems meeting, a lot of mf and fems on here simply don't meet"

Yeah I'm not really complaining about lack of meets, I think there is also a pandemic or something going on, think I heard about it on the news?

I was just kind of looking for profile advice in a more interesting way

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Is your profile a true reflection of you? If so, don't change a thing. However if your really not as boring as your profile suggests then do something about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a couple of extremely good looking, hung, muscled guys in bbc on here and they have problems meeting, a lot of mf and fems on here simply don't meet

Yeah I'm not really complaining about lack of meets, I think there is also a pandemic or something going on, think I heard about it on the news?

I was just kind of looking for profile advice in a more interesting way"

Profile looks OK to me, you can write pages on here and still have the same responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi fabbers

As the title says, being brutally honest, why wouldn't you meet with me? Or what's wrong with my profile?

I'm think skinned, I can't handle it!

Thanks

Steve"

It's a no from me purely because your not my type

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

You're a bloke...

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

As for your profile.

Maybe say what you can offer a potential meet and have a wider range of photos. Many women prefer teasing clothed photos.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As for your profile.

Maybe say what you can offer a potential meet and have a wider range of photos. Many women prefer teasing clothed photos. "

Thanks for the advice

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By *riendlyStarMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

This is a good idea helps try and build parts of the profile etc

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By *teviesmith73Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire / Cornwall

I would like some advice

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I would like some advice"

Then start your own thread.

It's rude to hijack someone else's.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Hi fabbers

As the title says, being brutally honest, why wouldn't you meet with me? Or what's wrong with my profile?

I'm think skinned, I can't handle it!

Thanks

Steve"

Because you are too far away

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

based on your photos alone no, you don't have the physique we are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi fabbers

As the title says, being brutally honest, why wouldn't you meet with me? Or what's wrong with my profile?

I'm think skinned, I can't handle it!

Thanks

Steve"

The fact that you're posting like this and asking why we would be interested puts us off straight away! It won't do that for everyone though.

No pics, no veris, no detail in your profile will put far more numbers off though, we'd think

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Going by your thread title and your profile, it seems you're only interested in a free fuck. Nothing wrong with that, and it might appeal to some (or many), but I believe just as many people are actually looking for someone that they find interesting, humorous and good company. Nothing on your profile suggests you'd be any of those.

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By *itsAndTangentsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

There's nothing inherently wrong with your profile but at the same time there's absolutely nothing there that makes you stand out. It's just remarkably average.

From reading a few of your comments in this thread you seem to have a decent sense of humour, let that shine through, tak a few classy pics, suit, shirt, throw in some black and whites for mystique, if you want a cock pic, take it from a decent angle that exaggerates it in a positive way.

Best of luck though!

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham

You're straight.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"There's nothing inherently wrong with your profile but at the same time there's absolutely nothing there that makes you stand out. It's just remarkably average.

Best of luck though! "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's nothing inherently wrong with your profile but at the same time there's absolutely nothing there that makes you stand out. It's just remarkably average.

Best of luck though!

This

Cos it’s not a fuck site .. it’s a swingers site ..

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By *untalicious CoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Butterfly bed covers don't really scream single guy.

Its a red flag that will just stick

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I do like posts like this! Haha

If we just look past the fact that there is a global pandemic at the moment and it is against fab rules, and most people's law of common sense to be meeting then here's my reasons....

*You smoke, and I just don't like the smell of stale smoke.

*You're unverified.

*Yhe fact that you would post something like this makes you look desperate, and I don't think that's a massive turn on for many woman.

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I will fuck anybody with a pulse but there are a lot of fussy people on fab, distance is a problem for all of us if someone is 300 miles away its unlikely they will meet

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Hi fabbers

As the title says, being brutally honest, why wouldn't you meet with me? Or what's wrong with my profile?

I'm think skinned, I can't handle it!

Thanks

Steve"

You are way too young, and you smoke. A double no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a couple of extremely good looking, hung, muscled guys in bbc on here and they have problems meeting, a lot of mf and fems on here simply don't meet"

You must've deleted "people they aren't attracted to or interested in." from the end of your last sentence

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands

"Hi fabbers

As the title says, being brutally honest, why wouldn't you meet with me? Or what's wrong with my profile?

I'm think skinned, I can't handle it!

Thanks

Steve"

Seems like your looking for a girlfriend. Try tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're not my type

Same, plus saying you’re looking for a Domme usually means you have zero moves of your own and will force me to lead the whole meet, hard work isn’t why I’m here

(This is only my view and from personal experience, others will have different views) "

Agree 100%

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Your abdomen has to be way more flat/toned for me to fuck you.

And that underwear would really put me off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow some brutal people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe avoid being too upfront and sexual, but the polite guy approach seems to never work that well.

You’ll spent weeks sending messages to never get any replies back..... and when you do it will be a no thank you.

I’m really confused as to how any single guy gets a meet on this site unless he is a massively hung black guy who is seeking to hook up with a large framed big “beautiful” woman than has very low standards!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Maybe avoid being too upfront and sexual, but the polite guy approach seems to never work that well.

You’ll spent weeks sending messages to never get any replies back..... and when you do it will be a no thank you.

I see loads of guys on this site with verifications and not complaining about getting meets. Admittedly these guys put in an effort, they have great photos and a decent profile text, regularly contribute to the forums and chat rooms. I’ve met them in clubs as well having a great time.

This site or the women don’t owe guys who put in limited effort on this site anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past I found it best to get out to the clubs and meet people that way.

The sending of messages that never get any replies is soul destroying and trying to put together classy yet respectfully attractive photos is hard to do on your own... I’m not that great with selfies and find that dick pics are not exactly how I want to sell myself.

I’m not sure how to advise the OP as I find this site equally frustrating as well as addictive.

I never have much success with vanilla dating sites either, writing profiles that stand out must be something that I struggle with.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"In the past I found it best to get out to the clubs and meet people that way.

I’m not sure how to advise the OP as I find this site equally frustrating as well as addictive.

I never have much success with vanilla dating sites either, writing profiles that stand out must be something that I struggle with.

Use the timer on your phone or even the video, then screen grab the best image. Wear a suit or variety of different types of clothing, then slowly strip off showing your best bits (in your opinion).

The write up, look at other guys profiles that are getting meets on this site, get ideas but don’t copy.

It’s all on the site, you just need to look for it. Then once you feel your profile is as good as it can be, ask for feedback or just keep contributing to the forums so put yourself out there for others to see you.

Good luck

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