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By *elleshells OP   Couple
over a year ago

North Manchester

I’ve become really turned on recently by the idea of me (Mrs) meeting a lady, but on my own, not with anyone watching. Do you think I’m best off setting up a new profile rather than trying to “advertise” via the couples one? Are there any ladies in couples who fancy doing this too? Single ladies who are looking for others - what do you look for? Any advice greatly appreciated. (Goes without saying, strictly social, phone calls, cam etc, for now)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From experience this can be harder than you’d ever expect.

My take on it is this;

If you approach a solo female profile from a couples profile they tend to think it’s both of you hitting on them or the male half.

Because of this I set up a solo profile and used my message settings so that only women could contact me.

I received plenty of mail, unfortunately mainly from males masquerading as females

I did make a couple of genuine contacts but found that us females seem to find it really difficult to flirt with each other and it quickly friend zoned.

I eventually deleted the profile.

I do most of the messaging on our profile and find it far easier to chat to the female half. Sadly though it seems mainly to be the male that runs the profile.

I remain the eternal optimist tho!

Good luck in whatever you decide to do

V x

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By *oldie_locks33Woman
over a year ago

Durham

I’m married and we have an account on here but I have this solo one too for when I meet alone. Defo recommend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saz here. I find it better on my own account if I get messaged from a couple's profile. I like to have a conversation with the female of a couple fairly quickly so that I can check she exists. My partner in crime likes me to do that through this profile too for any couples we talk to.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I set up this profile specifically to look for meets with other ladies.

If searching for someone myself, I wouldn't contact a couple profile, as to me they are looking to meet as a couple.

Those couples that have contacted me, have wanted him there too. That isn't what I'm looking for.

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth

I agree with others that it can be very hard to find! I think a solo profile is a great idea! I would see it as more genuine whereas if approched by a couple stating the woman wants to meet alone, I might.. be suspicious she might be doing for her partner, to turn him on, set up a threesome etc. But of course it all depends on the chemisty!

Its a shame the fakes make it so difficult for the genuine 'unicorns' on here (still cringe a little at this term ).

Aslong as you're up-front,open and honest I'm sure you'll attract some genuine women. Just don't mention the male partner too much Interested in this thread as looking for this myself, any advice for us unicorns?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for being wanted as a single lady, my own profile is the best. Lets me know you want me on my own and is fairer on my partner rather than him having to see messages saying that you aren't looking for a guy.

Saz x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C is always looking for a girl friend play partner

d

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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia

I’ve been looking for single women or women who will meet without the male partner but have. It had much luck!

I must admit I am cautious when someone from a couples profile contacts me as I wary it’s probably the bloke getting in touch. I do try and speak to the female partner but it’s never easy.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

Its easier to win the lottery than meet a lovely single fem.

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth


"Its easier to win the lottery than meet a lovely single fem. "

I wonder why that is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only meet females unless a social at club ( before covid)

In my experience it’s hard to find women from couples who meet alone but over my time on fab have met a few so don’t give up they do exist

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"Its easier to win the lottery than meet a lovely single fem.

I wonder why that is? "
The main reason is because there are very few lovely genuine single ladies on fab.And those that are always live so far away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two woman here, we are a lesbian couple :P x


"I’ve been looking for single women or women who will meet without the male partner but have. It had much luck!

I must admit I am cautious when someone from a couples profile contacts me as I wary it’s probably the bloke getting in touch. I do try and speak to the female partner but it’s never easy. "

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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia


"Two woman here, we are a lesbian couple :P x

I’ve been looking for single women or women who will meet without the male partner but have. It had much luck!

I must admit I am cautious when someone from a couples profile contacts me as I wary it’s probably the bloke getting in touch. I do try and speak to the female partner but it’s never easy. "

Well hello there!

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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia


"Its easier to win the lottery than meet a lovely single fem. "

Maybe we should form a syndicate?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From personal perspective - I'm looking for slightly different things when meeting on my own than when meeting as a couple. Just because it's all about me and what I want and I don't need to factor husband's desires into it. For that reason I have my own profile. I'm wary meeting women from couples profiles as often it feels like just a set-up to rope me into a threesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its easier to win the lottery than meet a lovely single fem.

Maybe we should form a syndicate?!"

I’m in!

V

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By *elleshells OP   Couple
over a year ago

North Manchester


"Its easier to win the lottery than meet a lovely single fem.

Maybe we should form a syndicate?!

I’m in!

V"

Well if you are then so am I!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its easier to win the lottery than meet a lovely single fem.

Maybe we should form a syndicate?!

I’m in!

V

Well if you are then so am I!!! "

Plan! x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Definitely get a singles profile and use your message filters. Block messages from everyone apart from FF and F.

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

This is something I would still like to have. Reckon its very difficult to set up however.

MsD x

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth


"Its easier to win the lottery than meet a lovely single fem.

I wonder why that is? The main reason is because there are very few lovely genuine single ladies on fab.And those that are always live so far away. "

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By *inkybabe1109Couple
over a year ago

Nowhere

I have had a single fem profile as well as this profile with my hubby. Its very hard to find a fem from a couple. My hubby has let me have a lesbian girlfriend in the past which let me scratch that lesbian/girl-girl itch which has made me want more.

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By *.Jayne66Woman
over a year ago

Neverland

I'm female and single lol

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By *drunkenpyrateWoman
over a year ago

Exeter.

I'm a single female from Devon and it's so hard to meet a genuine single female.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'm a single female from Devon and it's so hard to meet a genuine single female. "

Try being in Cornwall lol!

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By *drunkenpyrateWoman
over a year ago

Exeter.


"I'm a single female from Devon and it's so hard to meet a genuine single female.

Try being in Cornwall lol! "

Good point lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's tough ismt it.

I think I'd be into meeting girls alone x

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