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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm just interested to know if your first impressions of someone were wrong and have actually gone onto question it, especially with regards to swinging?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's not often my gut instinct has been off about someone, only once and he stood me up....

People have been mostly as I thought

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

My first impressions of people are frequently wrong. I try to keep a bit of an open mind if I can. When it comes to swinging I don't think there's usually enough time to do more than form a first impression though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people assume I’m happy because I smile a lot.

Dig a bit deeper and you’ll see it’s often a mask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of times, my first impressions have proven to be wrong. Most in a negative way, with people who revealed the ugly parts of their personality after a while. Some rare times, it was the opposite, where a bad first impression turned into lasting friendship.

I wonder how many times people had the same about me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First impressions do make a lasting impression I would say. Usually though I tend to go with my gut instinct, and usually it's right. Only one time I've gone against it, and the guy I met ended up being the best and longest FWB, I ever had. He was a gem. Sometimes you just have to rethink a first impression.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you say first impressions are you saying looks or when you've talked to them for a while?

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By *ecurekinkCouple
over a year ago

Ballycarry

I believe that taking time to really get to know someone goes a long way. But being a couple once established connection it comes to having fun for all, we have experienced some difficulty with that person letting go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you only get one chance to make a first impression

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you say first impressions are you saying looks or when you've talked to them for a while? "

Both really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to be slow to come to a conclusion preferring to keep an open mind, but sometimes.... you just know

V x

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