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"Is this a deal breaker for a woman after see a cock pic? " Depends if they like the cock or not. | |||
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"So... Ladies I'm wondering if yous have any interest in seeing photos of blokes cocks on there profile? Personally I assumed someone would just ask if they wanted to see ??" Nope any on pfp or public photos means I delete the message ..... | |||
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"I like to see an erect cock pic. I like to see what I’m potentially on the receiving end of. And I’m also a perve. At the end of the day it’s a sex site. Most women have plenty of pics of their boobs and muff on display, so moaning about men’s cock pics has always seemed a bit of a double standard to me. But at the end of the day, it’s your profile - run it how you want to." I agree and would do the same with gaping pussy pics - just a turn off for me. I prefer tease to sleaze .. | |||
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"I think I've seen a million cock pics on this site and tbh it's not really what I want. Maybe it's me, but I prefer a torso pic towards the crotch area stopping close, more tempting. I don't understand why men think they should be on show.. " Ooohh yes this torso... leading to unzipped ..... just a hint yes please | |||
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"It’s the closeup pic of a cock that turns me off. Seeing it in a nice picture of the man isn’t so much an issue for me. Having said that, some profiles aren’t filled with closeups but they’re still very cock focussed. I tend to see a nice cock as a bonus I discover. I’m drawn to his big arms and shoulders. Strong back. Powerful legs. Handsome face. Dreamy or piercing eyes. Sharp hair. " That describes me to a tee errrrrr no honest | |||
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"So... Ladies I'm wondering if yous have any interest in seeing photos of blokes cocks on there profile? Personally I assumed someone would just ask if they wanted to see ??" Keep them private and only sent if requested I would say based on past experiences | |||
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"Hi...as this is this is a swingers sex site, and not a dating site, I would want to see cock pics of anyone on here I would consider fucking. I'd rather they be in the profile than start messaging and then have to ask...cock and face are the first pics I would ask for. Tx" | |||
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"Well as a women who loves cock I do like to see a pic of it. But like one or two. Descret pics of it are so much better. N I need a face pic to reply to anyone. It ain't date a cock.... " For some it isn't a 'date' at all... I guess it will depend on many things including whether it's a single woman looking or a couple looking. As part of a couple, sometimes I/we are just looking for an additional cock so that makes the pics important, and sometimes we are looking for the right person, but for me the cock is a part of that. Personally I'm not looking at the guy/couple profiles thinking about being teased and wondering what's down below...I just want to know anyone we play with will be fun and has a cock I'm happy to work with! Tabitha xx | |||
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"If a profile is predominantly cock, it's probably a poor choice. You can have a cock pic in private, if it's desired. I do prefer to see a cock before meeting. " I think your right ,theres no need to bombard people with cock pics ,one or two tasteful cock pics ,in amongst some face and torso pics is probably the best all round profile to have,if there are too many,you do end up looking like a bit of a cock | |||
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"Well as a women who loves cock I do like to see a pic of it. But like one or two. Descret pics of it are so much better. N I need a face pic to reply to anyone. It ain't date a cock.... For some it isn't a 'date' at all... I guess it will depend on many things including whether it's a single woman looking or a couple looking. As part of a couple, sometimes I/we are just looking for an additional cock so that makes the pics important, and sometimes we are looking for the right person, but for me the cock is a part of that. Personally I'm not looking at the guy/couple profiles thinking about being teased and wondering what's down below...I just want to know anyone we play with will be fun and has a cock I'm happy to work with! Tabitha xx" | |||
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"There are some ladies who enjoy them, in my opinion most either would like to see just one or two or will ask if they want to see. Personally I find them off-putting and I'm a lot less likely to be interested if I've already seen a picture of their cock. Each to their own though we all have different tastes. " Doesn’t this swing both ways. 15 pictures of her tits only!!!! A mixture of body pics with all on offer is the way to go. | |||
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"There are some ladies who enjoy them, in my opinion most either would like to see just one or two or will ask if they want to see. Personally I find them off-putting and I'm a lot less likely to be interested if I've already seen a picture of their cock. Each to their own though we all have different tastes. Doesn’t this swing both ways. 15 pictures of her tits only!!!! A mixture of body pics with all on offer is the way to go. " Of course it can swing both ways. But this thread was about men with cock pictures on their profile... | |||
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"There are some ladies who enjoy them, in my opinion most either would like to see just one or two or will ask if they want to see. Personally I find them off-putting and I'm a lot less likely to be interested if I've already seen a picture of their cock. Each to their own though we all have different tastes. Doesn’t this swing both ways. 15 pictures of her tits only!!!! A mixture of body pics with all on offer is the way to go. Of course it can swing both ways. But this thread was about men with cock pictures on their profile... " Indeed it was and to ensure equality is upheld, as that is what women fought for, cock pics are just as acceptable as tits and pussy pics. No picture of your body is bad it is the intolerance of the viewer that is projected in a negative way back on the exhibitor that needs to look at themselves | |||
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"So... Ladies I'm wondering if yous have any interest in seeing photos of blokes cocks on there profile? Personally I assumed someone would just ask if they wanted to see ??" My opinion is that there is a fine line with cock photos - it can very easily become too much information and kill any interest. A cock for a profile photo tells me two things about a man: he might be obssessed with his own penis which makes for a terrible bedfellow, he also might think that his penis is the only (or the best) thing he has to offer in which case my favourite toy will do the job with less inconvenience. In a way, it is a good filter as I do not need to trouble myself to even read their profile, so I just block such messages right away. The cock photos that work best for me are the ones that are in context with other photos and also when there is a bit more of the body in the image, not just a penis like a standing pole. When men send me their photos in a message, I usually find it too much information if they just send a cock photo but do not mind if it is included as part of a more rounded selection of images combined with a message that shows they have read my profile and are interested to engage based on it. A bit of style also goes a long way. | |||
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"There are some ladies who enjoy them, in my opinion most either would like to see just one or two or will ask if they want to see. Personally I find them off-putting and I'm a lot less likely to be interested if I've already seen a picture of their cock. Each to their own though we all have different tastes. " I agree, it's like dick pic central. Personally I get fed up of seeing them. Do men have nothing else to offer or showing us what we should avoid... | |||
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"I usually block anyone who sends me a message with a cock as their profile pic. Might seem a bit harsh but a) there's a disclaimer about it on my profile and b) we probably wouldn't gel and I'm just saving us both time " Me too x | |||
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"I like to see an erect cock pic. I like to see what I’m potentially on the receiving end of. And I’m also a perve. At the end of the day it’s a sex site. Most women have plenty of pics of their boobs and muff on display, so moaning about men’s cock pics has always seemed a bit of a double standard to me. But at the end of the day, it’s your profile - run it how you want to." Spot on | |||
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"So... Ladies I'm wondering if yous have any interest in seeing photos of blokes cocks on there profile? Personally I assumed someone would just ask if they wanted to see ??" Yes, ladies don't want to see cock pictures. They are looking for a white knight in shining armour like you. | |||
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"So... Ladies I'm wondering if yous have any interest in seeing photos of blokes cocks on there profile? Personally I assumed someone would just ask if they wanted to see ??" I would ask if I was interested in seeing a guys cock. | |||
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"i like to see a cock pic before a meet and yes it can become a deal breaker but that pic can be sent via message with the face pic ... what guys do with there profile is down to them and them only after all they are here for themselves ive met guys who've had lots of cock pics and you know what they are normally no different to the guys with arty farty pics..." People say just ignore the rubbish ones and move on. But we KNOW there are some great guys hidden gmbehind/behind rubbish profiles and one line messages. It's just so frustrating that they don't do themselves justice! | |||
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"I like to see an erect cock pic. I like to see what I’m potentially on the receiving end of. And I’m also a perve. At the end of the day it’s a sex site. Most women have plenty of pics of their boobs and muff on display, so moaning about men’s cock pics has always seemed a bit of a double standard to me. But at the end of the day, it’s your profile - run it how you want to." | |||
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"So... Ladies I'm wondering if yous have any interest in seeing photos of blokes cocks on there profile? Personally I assumed someone would just ask if they wanted to see ??" I’d rather see cock pictures & lots of close ups!! Lol | |||
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"So... Ladies I'm wondering if yous have any interest in seeing photos of blokes cocks on there profile? Personally I assumed someone would just ask if they wanted to see ?? I’d rather see cock pictures & lots of close ups!! Lol" i send if asked | |||
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"I’d rather see cock pictures & lots of close ups!! Lol" Well said you! | |||
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"I'm sure most ladies know what a cock looks like, so I don't have any on my profile, not even in friends only. I'd rather people spoke to me not my cock. Especially as it's only an extension of me! " Being bisexual I can tell you cocks do not all look the same. I like girthy cocks... Not here for love I'm here for sexual fun and I need a girthy cock for that not a nice smile. | |||
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"Hmmm, Interesting debate for sure. My tuppence would be that put in a mix, i.e; showing what that cock can do? As always, there will be a mix of people that want,not bothered or hate. Each to their own me thinks. As long you're comfy showing & sharing; Why not eh " Ooh the only thing worse than lots of cock photos is action shots on a single male profile - why the fuck would I want to see the whole of a previous shag with at few inches cock. It’s seriously beyond me why men do that - not classy at all. | |||
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"So... Ladies I'm wondering if yous have any interest in seeing photos of blokes cocks on there profile? Personally I assumed someone would just ask if they wanted to see ??" We think they are just arseholes. A cock is a cock. All guys have them. | |||
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"A profile with multiple cock shots from every angle just makes me think....yip hes a cock " | |||
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"Got fed up with being asked for a cock pic so I put one on my profile.... Best thing I ever did get more messages now" This kinda sums it up? With all the competition from the high no of guys on here, they wouldn’t put the pics up if it didn’t produce results. Psychology suggests those not liking are most likely to speak out, but those who DO like probably just stay quiet and get on with making contact with their appendage of preference!! | |||
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"Just been winked at by a couple. Went to have a nosey at their profile.. 32 public pics, 29 of them close ups of cock. No idea what the female may look like. Wont bother winking back." Says the profile with only the female pictures showing No idea what the guy looks like.. But bet he is the one on line. | |||
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"Just been winked at by a couple. Went to have a nosey at their profile.. 32 public pics, 29 of them close ups of cock. No idea what the female may look like. Wont bother winking back. Says the profile with only the female pictures showing No idea what the guy looks like.. But bet he is the one on line. " If you look again, you'll note you are incorrect.. | |||
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"I like to see an erect cock pic. I like to see what I’m potentially on the receiving end of. And I’m also a perve. At the end of the day it’s a sex site. Most women have plenty of pics of their boobs and muff on display, so moaning about men’s cock pics has always seemed a bit of a double standard to me. But at the end of the day, it’s your profile - run it how you want to." Hooray Mine is littered with them, but I accept it’s not everyone’s cuppa tea... | |||
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"I like to see an erect cock pic. I like to see what I’m potentially on the receiving end of. And I’m also a perve. At the end of the day it’s a sex site. Most women have plenty of pics of their boobs and muff on display, so moaning about men’s cock pics has always seemed a bit of a double standard to me. But at the end of the day, it’s your profile - run it how you want to. Hooray Mine is littered with them, but I accept it’s not everyone’s cuppa tea..." I'm going to copy you but do batman, a far sexier superhero | |||
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"I think people should make more of an effort on there profile keep it classy not trashy # " See you have by having no pics of your man in your profile | |||
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