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By *annydevon OP Man
over a year ago

Exeter

I had a really awful experience last weekend.

I rarely meet anyone though fab.

She was texting me for a few days and we seemed to be getting on ok. He was encouraging it and texting me, as well.

We met at my house. She got really pissed, really quickly.

He was a typical narcissist - kept going on about how great he was, then desperately seeking attention and validation.

He started to put his whole fist into her. She was saying things like "ow" and "stop".

I had to tell him to stop then asked them to leave.

She kept texting me for the next couple of days asking to meet again. When I said that I didn't like people being very d*unk, or the lack of consent, he started replying from her number and blocked me.

It has left a really bad taste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds awful. I'm glad you stopped it and got them to leave. Please don't let it put you off other meet ups.

These would be my suggestions for future ones -

*Always have a safe word that's agreed on before you meet up.

*Insist on no play or stopping play if anyone is d*unk or otherwise incapable of protecting themselves.

*No hard play at a first meet up - no fisting, no bondage/restraint, nothing that you need trust for because trust can only be built up over time.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

So you're meeting at the moment then ?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP..why have you opened two threads on the same subject?

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

Caution my friend !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because he's attention seeking? Because he's looking for a pat on the back?

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

The wonderful world of fab

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

The weird the wonderful and the deluded.

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