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By *illywonka76 OP   Man
over a year ago

gloucester

ODP Clearance on another site which I won’t name a girl wants to hook up, however she’s asking me to get a safety id it’s something to do with them meeting someone safely but I’m not sure if it’s a scam, so before I commit anyone else experienced this

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Is she after bank details & photo ID?

Personally I would avoid anyone who thinks j should get anything to prove myself to them especially if it's just for a hook up.

Go with your gut OP

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By *illywonka76 OP   Man
over a year ago

gloucester

Thanks I think it’s a scam too

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By *illywonka76 OP   Man
over a year ago

gloucester

It’s a separate website she’s on snapchat and when you go to the link although the first 30 days are free you have to put in your card details

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Don't do it OP, probably a scam.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"ODP Clearance on another site which I won’t name a girl wants to hook up, however she’s asking me to get a safety id it’s something to do with them meeting someone safely but I’m not sure if it’s a scam, so before I commit anyone else experienced this "

How does this site propose that you prove you're not a risk?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Think about it. How does giving credit card details prove you're safe? Let's face it you could be using anybodys card.

Don't go near it

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Just googled it and its a scam thats been around for a long time apparently

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By *eeavWoman
over a year ago

belfast

It’s a scam they clear your bank account

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By *illywonka76 OP   Man
over a year ago

gloucester


"Don't do it OP, probably a scam. "

Thanks I’ve told her no went with my gut

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By *illywonka76 OP   Man
over a year ago

gloucester


"Just googled it and its a scam thats been around for a long time apparently "
again thanks the things we do for a date!!!

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"It’s a separate website she’s on snapchat and when you go to the link although the first 30 days are free you have to put in your card details "

Then I'd be avoiding it like the plague

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By *illywonka76 OP   Man
over a year ago

gloucester


"Think about it. How does giving credit card details prove you're safe? Let's face it you could be using anybodys card.

Don't go near it"

I know again I’ve gone back and told her I’m not comfortable with it

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By *illywonka76 OP   Man
over a year ago

gloucester


"It’s a separate website she’s on snapchat and when you go to the link although the first 30 days are free you have to put in your card details

Then I'd be avoiding it like the plague "

thank you

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I wouldn’t have got back to her about it as clearly she’s in on it. Block her and report her to the site admin (for whichever site it is).

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By *illywonka76 OP   Man
over a year ago

gloucester


"I wouldn’t have got back to her about it as clearly she’s in on it. Block her and report her to the site admin (for whichever site it is)."

All done now she got very shirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t have got back to her about it as clearly she’s in on it. Block her and report her to the site admin (for whichever site it is).

All done now she got very shirty "

More likely he got very shirty in Nigeria.

T

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think we should all be in the habit of questioning anything we're asked to do on the net or on the phone.

Why am I being asked to do this?

Is it reasonable be logical?

Will it achieve the purpose they're claiming it will?

Do I have doubts as to the validity of what they're asking me to do?

Does it sound too good to be true?

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By *illywonka76 OP   Man
over a year ago

gloucester


"I wouldn’t have got back to her about it as clearly she’s in on it. Block her and report her to the site admin (for whichever site it is).

All done now she got very shirty

More likely he got very shirty in Nigeria.

T"

too true

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By *illywonka76 OP   Man
over a year ago

gloucester


"I think we should all be in the habit of questioning anything we're asked to do on the net or on the phone.

Why am I being asked to do this?

Is it reasonable be logical?

Will it achieve the purpose they're claiming it will?

Do I have doubts as to the validity of what they're asking me to do?

Does it sound too good to be true? "

All this is exactly right, there are so many scams now and for lonely gits like me when a woman pays the slightest bit of attention it becomes a temptation, but I went with my gut on this

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton


"Think about it. How does giving credit card details prove you're safe? Let's face it you could be using anybodys card.

Don't go near it"

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

On another site, for short term dating, had a girl who wanted to video chat before meeting.

That's fine.

But WhatsApp, Skype etc wasn't good enough, it had to be some random site where you gave your card details.

I'm all for reasonable precautions but that screamed Scam. Googled the video site and it was.

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By *illywonka76 OP   Man
over a year ago

gloucester


"On another site, for short term dating, had a girl who wanted to video chat before meeting.

That's fine.

But WhatsApp, Skype etc wasn't good enough, it had to be some random site where you gave your card details.

I'm all for reasonable precautions but that screamed Scam. Googled the video site and it was."

these scams get more complex as they go

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