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By *orsetandheels OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

Hi guys,

I'm meeting a couple for the first time next weekend and was wondering if anyone had tips for breaking the ice. It's their first time too. I don't think we'll struggle for conversation but I am thinking about how to move things on from there.

Any advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how about strip poker, or something similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and lucky couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just come right out with it and say, fancy a shag. that should do the job

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I agree strip poker is a good idea or spin the bottle or even strip snap if you can't concentrate enough for poker.

It doesn't matter if you don't get any further than a bit of outrageous flirting and heavy touching first time though

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By *uttyMan
over a year ago

Local to you maybe

Nekkid twister

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

hide the thimble

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By *uttyMan
over a year ago

Local to you maybe

Throw the hoop over the hardon

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

We have got some sex dice for this situation, but haven't used them yet.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I agree lucky couple......

A fat polar bear would break the ice

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By *orsetandheels OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

Thanks for all the brilliant ideas folks. Obviously there will be plenty of wine but I'll get my twister and quoits out just in case we get stuck.

Cheers x

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By *now-bbw-bunnyCouple
over a year ago

southend-on-sea

A hand on his trousers and saying does the snake want to come out and play .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure I saw a pair of dice that could be suitable.

One had a body part the other what you did.

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By *urreypair1Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

we would suggest a few different idea's, twister is fun,pontoon with forfeits is fun too, along with strip poker.

However forfeits we think are nicer as you start to see a dynamic in who is willing to push which boundaries.

There are also various board games which can be fun, we have even changed the cards and come up with our own ,so we can judge the mood and the forfeits can be naughtier or easer depending on how things go .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've tried a 'well-known board game', but it took ages when we just wanted to get down to it, but the guy who brought it was so keen to play with his new toy that we had to finish it first!

We also have the sex dice which seem to be a much 'snappier' option and actually gets you to get to grips with who you are playing with, but just keep it simple and don't be afraid to just say 'Let's fuck' (or some such....... Lol!) Worked for our second meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find dropping to my knees and getting my mouth around a guy breaks the ice perfectly lol....

Cali

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

Hehehe Cali !!

Jane x

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By *hickencurryCouple
over a year ago

brisbane


"Hi guys,

I'm meeting a couple for the first time next weekend and was wondering if anyone had tips for breaking the ice. It's their first time too. I don't think we'll struggle for conversation but I am thinking about how to move things on from there.

Any advice?"
leave the room and get changed into something more comfortable. Find this works better with the ladies after the mankini incident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hehehe Cali !!

Jane x

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That is seriously what I do lol.. works every time lol

Cali

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Strip twister.

Every time someone falls over or cant make the move they take off an item. You get naked and close very quick, and laugh at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we meet single guys, we just have a drink to unwind and it's usually Andy who says that everyone seems relaxed and asks the guy if he's happy to play. Maybe a bit more awkward for you to do but sure it would do the trick.

First time is always daunting, I remember our first single guy just came over kissed me and plunged his hand down my top, glad he did or we could have sat there chatting all night, and what a waste that would have been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the woman is up for (or been told) to take the initiative, it is the best as per what was said. That failing, something simple like one guy touches her in an obvious way - hand on the top of the thigh, back of neck or similar is also an unmistakeable move from chat n' drink to more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The monkey just says...well we're going upstairs to do filthy things to each other...feel free to join us

To be honest, if someone got twister or a pack of cards out, I think I'd go home...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i play any sort of strip games i constantly have a raging hard on, never played naked twister but all i can think is my cock pocking some one in the ear or some thing. lol

who's got the twister board i want to play.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

take along a polar bear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its got to be a fat one tho.

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