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By *ugarplum71 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

What are some of the ice breakers you go with when meeting for the first time or just generally getting to know people? We are both a little shy which can sometimes make it hard to relax and get to know people especially with the intent for sexual adventure

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

Oh weird, I have just posted a similar subject lol x

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By *ull swap adult funCouple
over a year ago

Tolworth

We find it sexy if the other couple are up front about why we are meeting

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

It's probably a little different in the TV/CD meeting (usually other TV/CD) world, but I normally open with 'can I suck your cock?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's probably a little different in the TV/CD meeting (usually other TV/CD) world, but I normally open with 'can I suck your cock?'

"
Wow! that`s a hell of an opener, no messing about, straight to what you want....very cool,

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I find a good "ice breaker" when I host is the inventation to jump in my hottub which requires no swimming costumes at all. This is great way to get naked. After that everyone knows what we are all here for. So nature takes its course after we are all nude. mmmm Wishing Covid would get the hell out of here...

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

General chit chat stuff here, like how the traffic was, if we found the location ok, the reason we prefer a latte to a cappuccino, that sort of stuff until we are both relaxed.

I’m painfully shy so I don’t mention their cock and my desire to suck it until the second meet.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"General chit chat stuff here, like how the traffic was, if we found the location ok, the reason we prefer a latte to a cappuccino, that sort of stuff until we are both relaxed.

I’m painfully shy so I don’t mention their cock and my desire to suck it until the second meet.

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This is exactly what we do, I do love the sound of the hot tub, but we find that the small talk is or can be awkard lol xx

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

At my first ever meet with a couple, after just a couple of minutes chat about my journey to them and finding their place, they 'broke the ice' by switching on the TV to reveal a porn video which was already playing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At my first ever meet with a couple, after just a couple of minutes chat about my journey to them and finding their place, they 'broke the ice' by switching on the TV to reveal a porn video which was already playing... "

Ice shattered

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"Ice shattered"

Well and truly! After turning the TV on, the wife moved to sit next to me, and within a minute or so had my cock in her mouth emulating the on-screen action - while her hubby took a seat opposite to watch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ten ton polar bear.

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By *ugarplum71 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oxford


"I find a good "ice breaker" when I host is the inventation to jump in my hottub which requires no swimming costumes at all. This is great way to get naked. After that everyone knows what we are all here for. So nature takes its course after we are all nude. mmmm Wishing Covid would get the hell out of here..."

If only we had a hot tub for such things, sounds ideal. We did try arrange meets when we had the temporary swimming pool up but unfortunately no successful meets. Getting the clothes off does seem like a good idea

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By *ugarplum71 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oxford


"General chit chat stuff here, like how the traffic was, if we found the location ok, the reason we prefer a latte to a cappuccino, that sort of stuff until we are both relaxed.

I’m painfully shy so I don’t mention their cock and my desire to suck it until the second meet.

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I think our problem comes from when the general chit chat starts to stagnate. Not sure where to go from there. I guess it depends how talkative the other person/s feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we were once already fucking when the guy turned up, had already told him to come in strip naked in the hall way and come into the living room and join in, only done it once but it was very horny and he was rock hard when he walked in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ann summers sell a 'never have i ever' game that is fun to play and you can make your own rules up

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By *ugarplum71 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

Tried a similar thing once, then gentleman appeared and we chatted a little. He then went outside to smoke and came back to us having some oral fun. Not sure he was ready for that as he struggled to get hard

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By *ugarplum71 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

Might have to look at that cheers

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By *ucksguy2000Man
over a year ago

aylesbury

A lot depends on the parties concerned, I’ve had a few meets at peoples homes where the lady was dressed in just lingerie, that really broke the ice, no doubting why we were all there

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"A lot depends on the parties concerned, I’ve had a few meets at peoples homes where the lady was dressed in just lingerie, that really broke the ice, no doubting why we were all there "

A guaranteed ice breaker is when she answers the door wearing nothing but lingerie, heels and a smile!

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

For clubs we tend to bring a can of squirty cream or we had some “Miss Wet T” shirts printed, both work

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"General chit chat stuff here, like how the traffic was, if we found the location ok, the reason we prefer a latte to a cappuccino, that sort of stuff until we are both relaxed.

I’m painfully shy so I don’t mention their cock and my desire to suck it until the second meet.

I think our problem comes from when the general chit chat starts to stagnate. Not sure where to go from there. I guess it depends how talkative the other person/s feel"

This is it some people are easy to talk to than others, if they can't be asked and its starting to stagnate then I usually think to my self its probably time to move on

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"I find a good "ice breaker" when I host is the inventation to jump in my hottub which requires no swimming costumes at all. This is great way to get naked. After that everyone knows what we are all here for. So nature takes its course after we are all nude. mmmm Wishing Covid would get the hell out of here...

If only we had a hot tub for such things, sounds ideal. We did try arrange meets when we had the temporary swimming pool up but unfortunately no successful meets. Getting the clothes off does seem like a good idea "

It gets the akward bit out of the way in a 3sum or 4sum meet. If I meet a single one on one its easier as its more natural. Chatting an kissing and feeling etc. But the hottub is a game changer..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh weird, I have just posted a similar subject lol x"

No so weird we’re only human

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We tend to have the opposite problem in that we're both far too happy to talk bollocks to anyone for so long that they run out if time and have shoot off to work/school pickup/the wife/etc. I (Bry) now just grab the bull by the horn and tell Char to get her clothes off. Does the trick

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By *ugarplum71 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

I think the hot tub is a winner, may be a worthy investment

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

We love the social meet in a pub first off.

No play, just a chilled night talking about experiences.

If you get along it's so nice arranging and anticipating the next meet especially if during the night

it's obvious another play meet is on the cards.

Have met a few single ladies this way, great nights.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I once visited a couple. After a bit of banter they suggested a game of pontoon. Losers takes an item of clothing off. It was a great idea of getting slowly down to your underwear.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"... But the hottub is a game changer.. "

Sure is

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"... But the hottub is a game changer..

Sure is "

You should know General. Us 3 or 4 need another repeat...

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By *av-RickMan
over a year ago

Nearby

The first couple I ever met had experience of mfm, and after initial chats online it was arranged I'd meet at theirs. Drink, general chit chat, hubby went and put a pizza in the oven leaving us alone for 10mins where the lady steered the chat a little more suggestively and rested her feet across me. Nothing overly dramatic and more general chit chat while eating the pizza.

Another drink poured and they introduced home made party games. A couple of dice with a card of sexy forfeits depending on the score with the focus mainly on the lady.

That was followed by a varying number of store/loyalty cards glued together with holes drilled in, having to suck on them to hold them on your lips, and pass them to the next person, with a drop meaning you had to kiss. The last lot of cards were almost impossible to pass, meaning lots of kissing forfeits and the evenings fun went from there.

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By *ugarplum71 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

Games sound like a fun and interesting way to go about breaking the ice

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