FabSwingers.com forum: Getting ignored

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Every time I message anybody I get ignored. what I'm doing wrong I'm polite and civil. Am I just too young or ugly or is my profile just dull.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"Every time I message anybody I get ignored. what I'm doing wrong I'm polite and civil. Am I just too young or ugly or is my profile just dull. "

We’re in the middle of a pandemic, afraid that’s how things will be for a while.

And there’s no way round your being young - my overriding response is to shout at you to tidy up your bedroom - reminds me of my kids room when they were teens

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha I guess that's that.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Hello. You’re very young and your profile is very new, that will put a lot of people off. You also seem to be suggesting actual, real life meets which a lot of people are avoiding at the moment.

Even the best male profiles struggle to get replies at the best of times, which this isn’t unfortunately.

Maybe lower your expectations of what Fab is going to bring you and just go with the flow. Chat in the forums, reach out to some people if you think you meet their profile requirements, and see how it goes. If you’re looking for tick, easy meets you’re probably in the wrong place.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’d say it closer to your age being an issue than your profile.

It’s tough on here currently for the majority of guys but even worse when you add in the pandemic. Don’t lose hope and maybe be more active on the forums or chat rooms, when socials start up again try and attend, you’ll have much better luck face to face.

You’re cute, I’m sure I’m not the only one who thinks it as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every time I message anybody I get ignored. what I'm doing wrong I'm polite and civil. Am I just too young or ugly or is my profile just dull. "

Before they open your message most people will look at your profile. If your profile is shit your message is not getting opened.

If they like your profile, open your message and your message is shit you are not getting a reply.

Also, whwy are you looking to meet with the covid virus going around?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't know what my spirit animal is. How do I find out ?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Grey Goose ?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Grey Goose ?"

I’m Tranny tarantula

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I’m Tranny tarantula

Do you have hairy legs ?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’m Tranny tarantula

Do you have hairy legs ? "

Occasionally as we all do Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reality is you can't make people want you.

People have to be attracted.

There is no magic trick just make things as interesting as you can. I find individual tailored messages work best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to fab and online dating, where 99% of men are invisible

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

It seems like it was all to much for the OP ..now gone

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

I never get this, OP not on site anymore. Does this mean it's not for him or will he just rejoin under different name?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all ive got a question is there a site apart from this site that i can chat and flirt with reall members and not a fake profile tryed a few but its so non realistic and fake pussy offers are flying at me wich says its not real just wondering if anyone has any ideas x

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"I never get this, OP not on site anymore. Does this mean it's not for him or will he just rejoin under different name? "
He thought it was pussy on tap, he’ll learn!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Hello. You’re very young and your profile is very new, that will put a lot of people off. You also seem to be suggesting actual, real life meets which a lot of people are avoiding at the moment.

Even the best male profiles struggle to get replies at the best of times, which this isn’t unfortunately.

Great response

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

"Hi all ive got a question is there a site apart from this site that i can chat and flirt with reall members and not a fake profile tryed a few but its so non realistic and fake pussy offers are flying at me wich says its not real just wondering if anyone has any ideas x

In the 2 years we’ve been here I’d say 90% of people here are real!

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