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By *RST OP   Couple
over a year ago

S. Northants

We're a Cuckquean couple. The wife doesn't play for 95% of meets (when allowed). She will often be present though.

So which should we have, a single profile for Hubby, or a couples profile for us both?

Truth is, we've had both, and received abuse on both. The singles profile attracted abuse because we're actually a couple or just that I'm a cheating husband. The couples profile because she doesn't play, we must be fake blah blah blah.

We did delete both at one stage then came back with this one. We have always been photo verified and also meet verified, so what's the deal?

I'm not a single guy, my wife plays a huge part in our dynamic in this lifestyle. Yet just because we're a couples profile doesn't give every guy the right to the wife when she doesn't want that.

So, rant over. Which profile should we have? Couples or single?

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By *offee and KinksCouple
over a year ago

Notts/Derby

Either or both ... Just make it clear on your profile what you are looking for ... I'm part of a stag and vixen couple so it's mostly just me that plays whilst my stag watches ... We have a couples profile because I don't play without him being there

Vixen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your always going to get some random shit or abuse on here its over populated with men.

An even worse men that can hide behind there phone which always makes people a bit tougher

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By *RST OP   Couple
over a year ago

S. Northants


"Either or both ... Just make it clear on your profile what you are looking for ... I'm part of a stag and vixen couple so it's mostly just me that plays whilst my stag watches ... We have a couples profile because I don't play without him being there

Vixen "

We'd like to think that our profile is crystal clear. But still...

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By *RST OP   Couple
over a year ago

S. Northants


"Your always going to get some random shit or abuse on here its over populated with men.

An even worse men that can hide behind there phone which always makes people a bit tougher "

Got to love keyboard warriors... Said nobody.

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Just don't get the dynamics. We are a couple, so play and meet as one..

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

It inevitable that whatever account you use some people will complain however open you are in the profile description. I think using either is perfectly acceptable considering what your after on here and whatever account you use you may just have to take a few on the chin from those not happy. As to which account my first reaction was couples because its all part of sex life as a couple. But after some contemplation I would now actually say a single account (with the dynamic described in the profile). Because in terms of what your aiming to set up on here the action its self is kind of single play even though exterior to your play as a single its also part of your wider sex life with your partner.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"We're a Cuckquean couple. The wife doesn't play for 95% of meets (when allowed). She will often be present though.

So which should we have, a single profile for Hubby, or a couples profile for us both?

Truth is, we've had both, and received abuse on both. The singles profile attracted abuse because we're actually a couple or just that I'm a cheating husband. The couples profile because she doesn't play, we must be fake blah blah blah.

We did delete both at one stage then came back with this one. We have always been photo verified and also meet verified, so what's the deal?

I'm not a single guy, my wife plays a huge part in our dynamic in this lifestyle. Yet just because we're a couples profile doesn't give every guy the right to the wife when she doesn't want that.

So, rant over. Which profile should we have? Couples or single?"

Why not block men from messaging you?

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By *RST OP   Couple
over a year ago

S. Northants


"We're a Cuckquean couple. The wife doesn't play for 95% of meets (when allowed). She will often be present though.

So which should we have, a single profile for Hubby, or a couples profile for us both?

Truth is, we've had both, and received abuse on both. The singles profile attracted abuse because we're actually a couple or just that I'm a cheating husband. The couples profile because she doesn't play, we must be fake blah blah blah.

We did delete both at one stage then came back with this one. We have always been photo verified and also meet verified, so what's the deal?

I'm not a single guy, my wife plays a huge part in our dynamic in this lifestyle. Yet just because we're a couples profile doesn't give every guy the right to the wife when she doesn't want that.

So, rant over. Which profile should we have? Couples or single?

Why not block men from messaging you?"

That's not the question, and doesn't avoid the accusations etc. Just as many have come from couples and solo females as they have from solo men.

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By *lirtymr_mrsCouple
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

You are a couple playing as a couple. Most people have rules, yours just happen to be less common.

Stick to a couple's profile and ignore those people who can't read. The problem is their lack of understanding and empathy, not your ability to communicate what you want.

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By *woforfun 1000Couple
over a year ago

surrey

Shame your not closer this would be our ideal scenario!

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"We're a Cuckquean couple. The wife doesn't play for 95% of meets (when allowed). She will often be present though.

So which should we have, a single profile for Hubby, or a couples profile for us both?

Truth is, we've had both, and received abuse on both. The singles profile attracted abuse because we're actually a couple or just that I'm a cheating husband. The couples profile because she doesn't play, we must be fake blah blah blah.

We did delete both at one stage then came back with this one. We have always been photo verified and also meet verified, so what's the deal?

I'm not a single guy, my wife plays a huge part in our dynamic in this lifestyle. Yet just because we're a couples profile doesn't give every guy the right to the wife when she doesn't want that.

So, rant over. Which profile should we have? Couples or single?

Why not block men from messaging you?

That's not the question, and doesn't avoid the accusations etc. Just as many have come from couples and solo females as they have from solo men. "

Sure - but you do state on your profile that single men are not what you’re looking for, and you don’t like getting messages from them directed towards the wife of the couple, so if you block them it solves some of the issues you are having.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I don’t see anything wrong in the couples profile.

The single Male one would be more annoying if you said you were wanting to bring her along though. That’s what 90% of the single women I message end up doing. ‘Can my man come. I don’t meet alone’ and it’s grrrrrrr inducing xx

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We have a couples profile, we are looking for single straight men only, we play as a straight threesome or I sometimes play alone after building trust.

We get messages and winks from other couples who haven't read the profile, luckily no real abuse.

Everyone has their own dynamic who is to say what is right or wrong.

Take care

Do what feels right for you two

Jo x

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Since Mrs will be there id say stick with the couples profile.

Probably make your banner something about the female not playing and keep pics to mostly the male. Then when 80% don't actually bother reading the profile text it's still pretty obvious.

Truth is that you'll get abuse no matter what you do. There's a lot of people on here who feel like everyone owes them something.

This is your sex life, you do whatever you want. It's not your job to make others understand.

To be brutally honest, not understanding the dynamic is absolute BS. Everyone here knows what a cuck is so why are people so confused when it's a female cuck?

Unfortunately there's so many fake accounts of men pretending to be a couple, you will find it harder for people to believe you. Usually we'd recommend going to a club so you can have a lot of veris proving you are real but since they're not fully open, maybe cam rooms will help verify you.

Good luck either way

(P2)

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By *issyEMWoman
over a year ago

Nearly

Stick with couple profile and bloc single guys x is simplex don’t take any bullshit from others is your way to be and having fun x states your preference straight

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