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By *ales321 OP   Man
over a year ago

swansea

I’ve been on the site a few months now and I’ve had no luck I think this is becuase of my age any help ?

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston


"I’ve been on the site a few months now and I’ve had no luck I think this is becuase of my age any help ?"

1, its covid so interaction is down.

2, the number of men on this site is around 20-1

3, there is not the pool of people younger then you

4, it takes time

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

As above. But you will be too young for many people in fab.

The one advantage you have over the rest of us is time. While you're waiting for meeting to be possible again why not try and network. Make some connections, find out how fab might work for you, see if you can meet people socially if it's allowed in your area.

What do you hope to get from fab?

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By *ales321 OP   Man
over a year ago

swansea

I’d like to meet people when we can do so

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I’d like to meet people when we can do so"
,

Ok. Would you like some pointers for your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been on the site a few months now and I’ve had no luck I think this is becuase of my age any help ?"

No one is going to be able to help you with your age.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

For many you will be too young, but there are probably just as many who would be interested. If you are mature for your age in your mentality, really know what swinging is all about, ie not all free sex, the correct attitude, polite and not pushy then I'm sure you will do well. Have an informative profile that isn't just cock photos, have no expectations and be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, lower your expectations, sort your profile out, to be more appealing, don't attempt to appeal to everyone, you won't, don't sweat it... Check out the forums, there are lots of lovely, chatty people and popular guys whose profiles might give you some ideas. And only message once you have read a profile and may be what they are looking for... Good luck!

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Age maybe against you op but also your also really not helping yourself. Make a profile.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your age is a major factor for me and probably for a few other ladies too, unfortunately there is nothing you can do about that. Your profile also doesn't say much about you which again will not help, maybe have a think and a rewrite. Happy swinging x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d like to meet people when we can do so,

Ok. Would you like some pointers for your profile?

"

This ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been on the site a few months now and I’ve had no luck I think this is becuase of my age any help ?"

Change your age to 50 and change your name to Benjamin Button!!

You need advice on certain aspects of your Fab adventure but as a mod has pointed out you need to ask for it directly as to give advice with out being asked is like not inviting a vampire into your house :- a time out.

Best of luck youngling.

T

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Your profile is your shop window, it needs to attract, entice and inform.

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By *ales321 OP   Man
over a year ago

swansea

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By *ales321 OP   Man
over a year ago

swansea


"I’d like to meet people when we can do so,

Ok. Would you like some pointers for your profile?

"

Yes please

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I’d like to meet people when we can do so,

Ok. Would you like some pointers for your profile?

Yes please "

OK

Firstly I'll say that rewriting your profile and putting up new pictures is no guarantee of success.

I suggest that you write a bit about yourself, what you're looking for and what you can offer. Don't be negative or too demanding. Take a couple more pictures with your shirt off and post them. Have a look at some other mens profiles, see what you think might appeal to people you'd like to meet and take some tips from them without copying word for word

I'd say that for the foreseeable future you will need to just make friends on here. Chat with people, read the forum, join in if you want to but be prepared for what some people call "banter" and ignore it or report it if its abusive.

Good luck, hope you enjoy the ride

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

The good thing about being too young is all you have to do is wait

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By *ales321 OP   Man
over a year ago

swansea


"I’d like to meet people when we can do so,

Ok. Would you like some pointers for your profile?

Yes please

OK

Firstly I'll say that rewriting your profile and putting up new pictures is no guarantee of success.

I suggest that you write a bit about yourself, what you're looking for and what you can offer. Don't be negative or too demanding. Take a couple more pictures with your shirt off and post them. Have a look at some other mens profiles, see what you think might appeal to people you'd like to meet and take some tips from them without copying word for word

I'd say that for the foreseeable future you will need to just make friends on here. Chat with people, read the forum, join in if you want to but be prepared for what some people call "banter" and ignore it or report it if its abusive.

Good luck, hope you enjoy the ride "

Thanks you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its unfortunate but even Amy is sometimes subject to rejection because of her age.

Yet she is the most bubbliest down to earth girl I've ever met. When we are out, people never guess her age as her charisma and confidence makes her seem older than 18.

Just be yourself OP, someone out there will appreciate you for you and look past your age, which I've come to learn is definitely just a number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The average age range of fab members is 40-60 years old. Most are seeking people close to their age. Though a small handful do seek someone younger.

It's not just about maturity. Some like experience and an 18 year old is not going to be experienced or sexually mature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it will be in the main, but there’s many, many folks of all ages with similar situation as Eric Lassard would say.

They’ll be folks out there that will fancy a much younger guy to play with and also the swinger scene has changed in that it’s a far younger dominated entity now so stick with it.

Be polite, respectful and not pushy and you’ll get there in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been on the site a few months now and I’ve had no luck I think this is becuase of my age any help ?

No one is going to be able to help you with your age."

The ‘old theif’ time is helping as we speak so it’s only temporary as are all things real and imagined

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