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What to do with timewasters?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is everyone's opinions on timewasters. Have had a fair few in the short time i have been on making the site seem rubbish?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What do you mean by time wasters?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been chatting for a few weeks exchanged pics all good they arrange to then cold shoulder you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a lot you can do, maybe let it be known who they are so they don't waste anyone elses time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I could not do that unfortunately not my nature

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Not a lot you can do, maybe let it be known who they are so they don't waste anyone elses time"

Can’t do this, naming and shaming is against the rules. As it could easily be abused,

There’s time wasters on every app that purports to bring people together Op. So all you can do is just see any meet as a bonus on here.

Once clubs reopen get to socials, you’ll meet more genuine fab members in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a lady who was all up for meeting then went obviously cold on the idea. There was obviously something she was uncomfortable with, so was her perogative to do as she wished. Just because someone calls off doesn't mean will stay called off. Just be chill with them, say you understand if they've changed their mind, then leave at that.

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By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

Far far away


"I had a lady who was all up for meeting then went obviously cold on the idea. There was obviously something she was uncomfortable with, so was her perogative to do as she wished. Just because someone calls off doesn't mean will stay called off. Just be chill with them, say you understand if they've changed their mind, then leave at that. "

What he said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have done that with a few. But the main one was a couple with many veris

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

They are just fantaists who sit at home wanking over your piks, they would not know what to do with a real woman and that's why they never meet, the olny way to look at it is, all you mist out on was crap sex

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Been chatting for a few weeks exchanged pics all good they arrange to then cold shoulder you "

Personally I don't exchange pics or chat for weeks and have very little ratio of time wasters

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Make an effigy of them, stick pins in it take a photo and post it to then.

Or smile and increase you chances of a bit of fun and friendship by going to a club.

One paragraph is a joke, the other isn’t.

It up to you to decide which is which.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is everyone's opinions on timewasters. Have had a fair few in the short time i have been on making the site seem rubbish?"

Block and move on.

What else can you really do.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Could trial them for being Wicca put them on a duckling stool if they were not time wasters, drowned them.

If they were put them to trial by forum, so much harsher.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

What do you expect during lockdown, you have only been on the site for 5 weeks at a time when people are not allowed to be closer than 1 metre from 'strangers'.

Are you sure the people you were not pushing the ladies to meet when they were not allowed to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are just fantaists who sit at home wanking over your piks, they would not know what to do with a real woman and that's why they never meet, the olny way to look at it is, all you mist out on was crap sex "

That pic on 9th July reminds me of the lady in the film total recall sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for you input my.block list is getting longer as am slowly ing them out. Am just going with the flow now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you expect during lockdown, you have only been on the site for 5 weeks at a time when people are not allowed to be closer than 1 metre from 'strangers'.

Are you sure the people you were not pushing the ladies to meet when they were not allowed to?"

Have not been pushing at all. Like to chat and get to know people first. They suggested meeting so I not pushing at all

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