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"Is he using you or.... are you using him...." This did cross my mind!! But he was the one who asked to come back without us even mentioning anything I hadn’t spoken to him for 2yrs other than hi! So he clearly knew what he wanted as soon as we got home he asked me to suck his cock! So technically I wasn’t the one initiating it so can’t be the one using him if you know what I mean! | |||
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"Bit of a story but here goes! All through our swinging journey I’ve never felt slutty or used but.... Two years ago I fucked hubbys football mate (21yrs) (mmf) he came back for two more suck and goes (booty calls) and that was it as he got a gf, now Friday he came back to ours after a rare Friday night football Match that I was at he basically just wanted his cock sucked but as he’s fit and there’s history and I was horny I obliged and he cum within a few mins then headed to spare room! (Hubby watched) Another guy also came back who has been messaging me recently saying he wants to fuck me etc So it was on the cards anyway so I went in the front room and made out with him which was really nice as he made an effort with me and was really attentive and had a lot of focus on me he’s the same age! Now getting messages from the blow job one at 1am asking can he come so I can suck him off! This is what was happing two years ago! Slightly feeling slutty now and uncomfortable as feel like I’m being treated like his sex toy! Anyone else felt this way?? I love sucking cock as it turns my hubby on massively and me too and I enjoy it but to expect it seems a bit wrong no?? Esp as he’s good mates with my hubby?? Maybe It’s an age thing or because I used to do it but since our swinging journey only took off after being with him! Don’t get me wrong I love sucking him off but it is making me feel a bit used? " Just say no, it's not right to use you that way | |||
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"Just say ‘no. I’m not feeling horny so I don’t need you at the min. Will text you when I do’ Turn that shit around! "Haha love this!! | |||
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"Just say ‘no. I’m not feeling horny so I don’t need you at the min. Will text you when I do’ Turn that shit around! "Brilliant! X | |||
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"Bit of a story but here goes! All through our swinging journey I’ve never felt slutty or used but.... Two years ago I fucked hubbys football mate (21yrs) (mmf) he came back for two more suck and goes (booty calls) and that was it as he got a gf, now Friday he came back to ours after a rare Friday night football Match that I was at he basically just wanted his cock sucked but as he’s fit and there’s history and I was horny I obliged and he cum within a few mins then headed to spare room! (Hubby watched) Another guy also came back who has been messaging me recently saying he wants to fuck me etc So it was on the cards anyway so I went in the front room and made out with him which was really nice as he made an effort with me and was really attentive and had a lot of focus on me he’s the same age! Now getting messages from the blow job one at 1am asking can he come so I can suck him off! This is what was happing two years ago! Slightly feeling slutty now and uncomfortable as feel like I’m being treated like his sex toy! Anyone else felt this way?? I love sucking cock as it turns my hubby on massively and me too and I enjoy it but to expect it seems a bit wrong no?? Esp as he’s good mates with my hubby?? Maybe It’s an age thing or because I used to do it but since our swinging journey only took off after being with him! Don’t get me wrong I love sucking him off but it is making me feel a bit used? " Either think it through (or dont) - but being uncomfortable cannot continue. This can be an issue where one party is the sub but the rules are a bit too fluid. When you CHOOSE to offer to please him (and indirectly your partner) you enjoy it. The fact you get nothing is not an issue as it was part of the deal. Now he just wants it when it is not being offered, plus his attitude of entitlement plus little reciprocated pleasure (unlike other lad) makes you feel like your opinion/pleasure do not matter. Of course they do, but the previous Sub role (and power) has been taken away from you. He is a plank for not understanding it. The power always lies with the sub. He could have played to the role, spoken to partner, made it clear he wanted you if you and partner agreed, reestablished subtle understanding that you were giving, not him taking (even if roles acted out differently). But he didnt, so you felt used. Sounds as though the second chap is a better playmate anyway. Move on from first one and and take no crap. You gave permission, he pissed it away so now you don't. His loss. | |||
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"Just say ‘no. I’m not feeling horny so I don’t need you at the min. Will text you when I do’ Turn that shit around! "Like it | |||
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"Bit of a story but here goes! All through our swinging journey I’ve never felt slutty or used but.... Two years ago I fucked hubbys football mate (21yrs) (mmf) he came back for two more suck and goes (booty calls) and that was it as he got a gf, now Friday he came back to ours after a rare Friday night football Match that I was at he basically just wanted his cock sucked but as he’s fit and there’s history and I was horny I obliged and he cum within a few mins then headed to spare room! (Hubby watched) Another guy also came back who has been messaging me recently saying he wants to fuck me etc So it was on the cards anyway so I went in the front room and made out with him which was really nice as he made an effort with me and was really attentive and had a lot of focus on me he’s the same age! Now getting messages from the blow job one at 1am asking can he come so I can suck him off! This is what was happing two years ago! Slightly feeling slutty now and uncomfortable as feel like I’m being treated like his sex toy! Anyone else felt this way?? I love sucking cock as it turns my hubby on massively and me too and I enjoy it but to expect it seems a bit wrong no?? Esp as he’s good mates with my hubby?? Maybe It’s an age thing or because I used to do it but since our swinging journey only took off after being with him! Don’t get me wrong I love sucking him off but it is making me feel a bit used? Either think it through (or dont) - but being uncomfortable cannot continue. This can be an issue where one party is the sub but the rules are a bit too fluid. When you CHOOSE to offer to please him (and indirectly your partner) you enjoy it. The fact you get nothing is not an issue as it was part of the deal. Now he just wants it when it is not being offered, plus his attitude of entitlement plus little reciprocated pleasure (unlike other lad) makes you feel like your opinion/pleasure do not matter. Of course they do, but the previous Sub role (and power) has been taken away from you. He is a plank for not understanding it. The power always lies with the sub. He could have played to the role, spoken to partner, made it clear he wanted you if you and partner agreed, reestablished subtle understanding that you were giving, not him taking (even if roles acted out differently). But he didnt, so you felt used. Sounds as though the second chap is a better playmate anyway. Move on from first one and and take no crap. You gave permission, he pissed it away so now you don't. His loss. "This is excellently put thank you, the other lad is lovely just struggles to stay hard infront of my hubby so think that’s going to be more a hotwife scenario which turns hubby on at the thought just got to try it out and see if it works, Think il just ignore the early hour messages and see if he says anything when I next see him which I doubt he will but I guess he will soon get the hint when I never reply! Thank you x | |||
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" Either think it through (or dont) - but being uncomfortable cannot continue. This can be an issue where one party is the sub but the rules are a bit too fluid. When you CHOOSE to offer to please him (and indirectly your partner) you enjoy it. The fact you get nothing is not an issue as it was part of the deal. Now he just wants it when it is not being offered, plus his attitude of entitlement plus little reciprocated pleasure (unlike other lad) makes you feel like your opinion/pleasure do not matter. Of course they do, but the previous Sub role (and power) has been taken away from you. He is a plank for not understanding it. The power always lies with the sub. He could have played to the role, spoken to partner, made it clear he wanted you if you and partner agreed, reestablished subtle understanding that you were giving, not him taking (even if roles acted out differently). But he didnt, so you felt used. Sounds as though the second chap is a better playmate anyway. Move on from first one and and take no crap. You gave permission, he pissed it away so now you don't. His loss. " | |||
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"Bit of a story but here goes! All through our swinging journey I’ve never felt slutty or used but.... Two years ago I fucked hubbys football mate (21yrs) (mmf) he came back for two more suck and goes (booty calls) and that was it as he got a gf, now Friday he came back to ours after a rare Friday night football Match that I was at he basically just wanted his cock sucked but as he’s fit and there’s history and I was horny I obliged and he cum within a few mins then headed to spare room! (Hubby watched) Another guy also came back who has been messaging me recently saying he wants to fuck me etc So it was on the cards anyway so I went in the front room and made out with him which was really nice as he made an effort with me and was really attentive and had a lot of focus on me he’s the same age! Now getting messages from the blow job one at 1am asking can he come so I can suck him off! This is what was happing two years ago! Slightly feeling slutty now and uncomfortable as feel like I’m being treated like his sex toy! Anyone else felt this way?? I love sucking cock as it turns my hubby on massively and me too and I enjoy it but to expect it seems a bit wrong no?? Esp as he’s good mates with my hubby?? Maybe It’s an age thing or because I used to do it but since our swinging journey only took off after being with him! Don’t get me wrong I love sucking him off but it is making me feel a bit used? Either think it through (or dont) - but being uncomfortable cannot continue. This can be an issue where one party is the sub but the rules are a bit too fluid. When you CHOOSE to offer to please him (and indirectly your partner) you enjoy it. The fact you get nothing is not an issue as it was part of the deal. Now he just wants it when it is not being offered, plus his attitude of entitlement plus little reciprocated pleasure (unlike other lad) makes you feel like your opinion/pleasure do not matter. Of course they do, but the previous Sub role (and power) has been taken away from you. He is a plank for not understanding it. The power always lies with the sub. He could have played to the role, spoken to partner, made it clear he wanted you if you and partner agreed, reestablished subtle understanding that you were giving, not him taking (even if roles acted out differently). But he didnt, so you felt used. Sounds as though the second chap is a better playmate anyway. Move on from first one and and take no crap. You gave permission, he pissed it away so now you don't. His loss. "The power doesn't lie with the sub. The power is, well.. should be, equally split. The sub can stop it any time.. as can the dom. Either party can remove consent at any time. - As for this situation, if you feel uncomfortable stop. It's that simple. Don't do anything you don't want to. It's your sexual adventure. | |||
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"Bit of a story but here goes! All through our swinging journey I’ve never felt slutty or used but.... Two years ago I fucked hubbys football mate (21yrs) (mmf) he came back for two more suck and goes (booty calls) and that was it as he got a gf, now Friday he came back to ours after a rare Friday night football Match that I was at he basically just wanted his cock sucked but as he’s fit and there’s history and I was horny I obliged and he cum within a few mins then headed to spare room! (Hubby watched) Another guy also came back who has been messaging me recently saying he wants to fuck me etc So it was on the cards anyway so I went in the front room and made out with him which was really nice as he made an effort with me and was really attentive and had a lot of focus on me he’s the same age! Now getting messages from the blow job one at 1am asking can he come so I can suck him off! This is what was happing two years ago! Slightly feeling slutty now and uncomfortable as feel like I’m being treated like his sex toy! Anyone else felt this way?? I love sucking cock as it turns my hubby on massively and me too and I enjoy it but to expect it seems a bit wrong no?? Esp as he’s good mates with my hubby?? Maybe It’s an age thing or because I used to do it but since our swinging journey only took off after being with him! Don’t get me wrong I love sucking him off but it is making me feel a bit used? Either think it through (or dont) - but being uncomfortable cannot continue. This can be an issue where one party is the sub but the rules are a bit too fluid. When you CHOOSE to offer to please him (and indirectly your partner) you enjoy it. The fact you get nothing is not an issue as it was part of the deal. Now he just wants it when it is not being offered, plus his attitude of entitlement plus little reciprocated pleasure (unlike other lad) makes you feel like your opinion/pleasure do not matter. Of course they do, but the previous Sub role (and power) has been taken away from you. He is a plank for not understanding it. The power always lies with the sub. He could have played to the role, spoken to partner, made it clear he wanted you if you and partner agreed, reestablished subtle understanding that you were giving, not him taking (even if roles acted out differently). But he didnt, so you felt used. Sounds as though the second chap is a better playmate anyway. Move on from first one and and take no crap. You gave permission, he pissed it away so now you don't. His loss.
The power doesn't lie with the sub.
The power is, well.. should be, equally split.
The sub can stop it any time.. as can the dom. Either party can remove consent at any time.
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As for this situation, if you feel uncomfortable stop. It's that simple. Don't do anything you don't want to. It's your sexual adventure. "Not to derail Op thread, but the sub absolutely DOES hold the balance of power, even if only 51% (otherwise it must be coercion). The play may look all to be the dom in charge, but that only operates because the sub has given permission to the dom to act as they wish in the first place. The OP pleases her husband as she pleases another, she chooses her path and her husband adores her for it and he gets to (in part) control the other men through the power of 'his' sub. Put simply They want her, she gives him the power to say yay or nay (which is part of her payoff). Its why the "plank" failed. He didn't work with their dynamic and now he is out. Granted it is not clear cut. The subtle interplay of layered complex trusts in D/S, both real and in the play can mask who the sub actually is, is it the one who 'exercises' the power, or the one who chooses to give it up? One has to yield more than the other and THAT is the one with the power. | |||
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"Bit of a story but here goes! All through our swinging journey I’ve never felt slutty or used but.... Two years ago I fucked hubbys football mate (21yrs) (mmf) he came back for two more suck and goes (booty calls) and that was it as he got a gf, now Friday he came back to ours after a rare Friday night football Match that I was at he basically just wanted his cock sucked but as he’s fit and there’s history and I was horny I obliged and he cum within a few mins then headed to spare room! (Hubby watched) Another guy also came back who has been messaging me recently saying he wants to fuck me etc So it was on the cards anyway so I went in the front room and made out with him which was really nice as he made an effort with me and was really attentive and had a lot of focus on me he’s the same age! Now getting messages from the blow job one at 1am asking can he come so I can suck him off! This is what was happing two years ago! Slightly feeling slutty now and uncomfortable as feel like I’m being treated like his sex toy! Anyone else felt this way?? I love sucking cock as it turns my hubby on massively and me too and I enjoy it but to expect it seems a bit wrong no?? Esp as he’s good mates with my hubby?? Maybe It’s an age thing or because I used to do it but since our swinging journey only took off after being with him! Don’t get me wrong I love sucking him off but it is making me feel a bit used? Either think it through (or dont) - but being uncomfortable cannot continue. This can be an issue where one party is the sub but the rules are a bit too fluid. When you CHOOSE to offer to please him (and indirectly your partner) you enjoy it. The fact you get nothing is not an issue as it was part of the deal. Now he just wants it when it is not being offered, plus his attitude of entitlement plus little reciprocated pleasure (unlike other lad) makes you feel like your opinion/pleasure do not matter. Of course they do, but the previous Sub role (and power) has been taken away from you. He is a plank for not understanding it. The power always lies with the sub. He could have played to the role, spoken to partner, made it clear he wanted you if you and partner agreed, reestablished subtle understanding that you were giving, not him taking (even if roles acted out differently). But he didnt, so you felt used. Sounds as though the second chap is a better playmate anyway. Move on from first one and and take no crap. You gave permission, he pissed it away so now you don't. His loss.
The power doesn't lie with the sub.
The power is, well.. should be, equally split.
The sub can stop it any time.. as can the dom. Either party can remove consent at any time.
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As for this situation, if you feel uncomfortable stop. It's that simple. Don't do anything you don't want to. It's your sexual adventure.
Not to derail Op thread, but the sub absolutely DOES hold the balance of power, even if only 51% (otherwise it must be coercion). The play may look all to be the dom in charge, but that only operates because the sub has given permission to the dom to act as they wish in the first place. The OP pleases her husband as she pleases another, she chooses her path and her husband adores her for it and he gets to (in part) control the other men through the power of 'his' sub. Put simply They want her, she gives him the power to say yay or nay (which is part of her payoff). Its why the "plank" failed. He didn't work with their dynamic and now he is out.
Granted it is not clear cut. The subtle interplay of layered complex trusts in D/S, both real and in the play can mask who the sub actually is, is it the one who 'exercises' the power, or the one who chooses to give it up? One has to yield more than the other and THAT is the one with the power. "Love this thank you | |||
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"I'm sorry but I think I am the only one here who is totally bemused by the replies It was a mutually beneficial event in the first place and he later asked if he could come back to the house to which you said yes What was he supposed to think , tea? Or coffee? Or watch X factor on tv Maybe I'm wrong but I think there is a group hug going on here " Perhaps your reading was something different. OP felt used, reflected on why and posted. Others recognised situation and commented their opinions, also a broader healthy discussion about the nature of complex relationships. Didn't all agree on every aspect other than the key one - if it makes you unhappy don't do it. Your opinion is as valid as any, so you don't need to apologise, unless it was a disingenuous figure of speech, which may in part explain your position. Read back. OP did not complain about the act, but on the context of the contact, nothing 2 years, then random hookup and immediately getting texts. Assumption on male part without engaging in roles. It was not the sex, it was the behaviour. Why would the fact others identify with this totally bemuse you? To the extent you accuse every one bar yourself of simply agreeing and engaging in a 'group hug' without thought. Add something - share considered opinion that may influence rather than making asides. It's good you added "I may be wrong" because I think you may have rather missed the point. It could be you were thrown by a group of Fabbers sort of agreeing. It can be unusual but It's OK; having an Alt lifestyle does not mean you cannot agree with others. Just don't do it too often. | |||
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"Bit of a story but here goes! All through our swinging journey I’ve never felt slutty or used but.... Two years ago I fucked hubbys football mate (21yrs) (mmf) he came back for two more suck and goes (booty calls) and that was it as he got a gf, now Friday he came back to ours after a rare Friday night football Match that I was at he basically just wanted his cock sucked but as he’s fit and there’s history and I was horny I obliged and he cum within a few mins then headed to spare room! (Hubby watched) Another guy also came back who has been messaging me recently saying he wants to fuck me etc So it was on the cards anyway so I went in the front room and made out with him which was really nice as he made an effort with me and was really attentive and had a lot of focus on me he’s the same age! Now getting messages from the blow job one at 1am asking can he come so I can suck him off! This is what was happing two years ago! Slightly feeling slutty now and uncomfortable as feel like I’m being treated like his sex toy! Anyone else felt this way?? I love sucking cock as it turns my hubby on massively and me too and I enjoy it but to expect it seems a bit wrong no?? Esp as he’s good mates with my hubby?? Maybe It’s an age thing or because I used to do it but since our swinging journey only took off after being with him! Don’t get me wrong I love sucking him off but it is making me feel a bit used? Either think it through (or dont) - but being uncomfortable cannot continue. This can be an issue where one party is the sub but the rules are a bit too fluid. When you CHOOSE to offer to please him (and indirectly your partner) you enjoy it. The fact you get nothing is not an issue as it was part of the deal. Now he just wants it when it is not being offered, plus his attitude of entitlement plus little reciprocated pleasure (unlike other lad) makes you feel like your opinion/pleasure do not matter. Of course they do, but the previous Sub role (and power) has been taken away from you. He is a plank for not understanding it. The power always lies with the sub. He could have played to the role, spoken to partner, made it clear he wanted you if you and partner agreed, reestablished subtle understanding that you were giving, not him taking (even if roles acted out differently). But he didnt, so you felt used. Sounds as though the second chap is a better playmate anyway. Move on from first one and and take no crap. You gave permission, he pissed it away so now you don't. His loss.
The power doesn't lie with the sub.
The power is, well.. should be, equally split.
The sub can stop it any time.. as can the dom. Either party can remove consent at any time.
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As for this situation, if you feel uncomfortable stop. It's that simple. Don't do anything you don't want to. It's your sexual adventure.
Not to derail Op thread, but the sub absolutely DOES hold the balance of power, even if only 51% (otherwise it must be coercion). The play may look all to be the dom in charge, but that only operates because the sub has given permission to the dom to act as they wish in the first place. The OP pleases her husband as she pleases another, she chooses her path and her husband adores her for it and he gets to (in part) control the other men through the power of 'his' sub. Put simply They want her, she gives him the power to say yay or nay (which is part of her payoff). Its why the "plank" failed. He didn't work with their dynamic and now he is out.
Granted it is not clear cut. The subtle interplay of layered complex trusts in D/S, both real and in the play can mask who the sub actually is, is it the one who 'exercises' the power, or the one who chooses to give it up? One has to yield more than the other and THAT is the one with the power. "The Dom has also given permission. Both people consent to a scene or dynamic. Both can end it in an instant. You're talking like I said the Dom has all the power which is completely incorrect. You're correct, outsiders think the Dom has all the power. That's wrong. It's also not what I said at all. We're in a 24/7 lifestyle d/s relationship. We both gave consent to that, both agreed to the dynamic and can both stop it in an instant. It's 50/50. 51/49 implies the doms consent to the dynamic can be overruled. | |||
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"I'm sorry but I think I am the only one here who is totally bemused by the replies It was a mutually beneficial event in the first place and he later asked if he could come back to the house to which you said yes What was he supposed to think , tea? Or coffee? Or watch X factor on tv Maybe I'm wrong but I think there is a group hug going on here " I think U have misread what I have put along with some others, I didn’t feel used that night I was happy to give him a blow job would have been nice if he could have made more of an effort but that was that! I feel used when he messages in the middle of the night to expect To come round and for me to suck him off no consideration for me or if I even want to just a message saying “can I come round and u suck me off” I understand if we are together and he asks to come back for one but not just when he’s fucked at 1am! Maybe I did give him the wrong impression and gave in too much but I was asking if anyone else had felt that way That was the main point of my post. | |||
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"I'm sorry but I think I am the only one here who is totally bemused by the replies It was a mutually beneficial event in the first place and he later asked if he could come back to the house to which you said yes What was he supposed to think , tea? Or coffee? Or watch X factor on tv Maybe I'm wrong but I think there is a group hug going on here Perhaps your reading was something different. OP felt used, reflected on why and posted. Others recognised situation and commented their opinions, also a broader healthy discussion about the nature of complex relationships. Didn't all agree on every aspect other than the key one - if it makes you unhappy don't do it. Your opinion is as valid as any, so you don't need to apologise, unless it was a disingenuous figure of speech, which may in part explain your position. Read back. OP did not complain about the act, but on the context of the contact, nothing 2 years, then random hookup and immediately getting texts. Assumption on male part without engaging in roles. It was not the sex, it was the behaviour. Why would the fact others identify with this totally bemuse you? To the extent you accuse every one bar yourself of simply agreeing and engaging in a 'group hug' without thought. Add something - share considered opinion that may influence rather than making asides. It's good you added "I may be wrong" because I think you may have rather missed the point. It could be you were thrown by a group of Fabbers sort of agreeing. It can be unusual but It's OK; having an Alt lifestyle does not mean you cannot agree with others. Just don't do it too often. "Thank you | |||
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"Bit of a story but here goes! All through our swinging journey I’ve never felt slutty or used but.... Two years ago I fucked hubbys football mate (21yrs) (mmf) he came back for two more suck and goes (booty calls) and that was it as he got a gf, now Friday he came back to ours after a rare Friday night football Match that I was at he basically just wanted his cock sucked but as he’s fit and there’s history and I was horny I obliged and he cum within a few mins then headed to spare room! (Hubby watched) Another guy also came back who has been messaging me recently saying he wants to fuck me etc So it was on the cards anyway so I went in the front room and made out with him which was really nice as he made an effort with me and was really attentive and had a lot of focus on me he’s the same age! Now getting messages from the blow job one at 1am asking can he come so I can suck him off! This is what was happing two years ago! Slightly feeling slutty now and uncomfortable as feel like I’m being treated like his sex toy! Anyone else felt this way?? I love sucking cock as it turns my hubby on massively and me too and I enjoy it but to expect it seems a bit wrong no?? Esp as he’s good mates with my hubby?? Maybe It’s an age thing or because I used to do it but since our swinging journey only took off after being with him! Don’t get me wrong I love sucking him off but it is making me feel a bit used? " I get that you love doing this but don’t do it if it makes you feel used. While you may enjoy the act, you clearly aren’t feeling great about yourself afterwards, at least not with this guy so my advice would be to stop. You need to retain your self respect no matter how much fun you have. x | |||
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