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By *restman OP   Man
over a year ago

North wales

Hi all been on site for about a year as got recommend to join whilst I visited a club, met a lovely couple who were helping me with the swing scene.

My ex partner was a swinger and introduce me to the scene, we since have broke up and I visited on my own.

I tend to be shy untill comfortable,I did not go on site that often but have now started to visit more as no chance of meet with covid.

Hoping make friends sending messages and video chat would be nice, I'm not trying to get as many notches on bed post as possible.

I realize the ladies get swamped with messages, is there anything wrong with my profile that messages don't get read, any help appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of guys have to accept that ladies are not always looking or in the mood, even if browsing . Id suggest reacting to a status that a lady is looking or a forum post that's particularly hot

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Well the fact that the pointless warning at the end is as long as your profile write up may be one issue.

There are quite a few helpful forum threads with profile advice on them that it might pay you to read.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

You’ve asked for profile advice in the headline - er ok it’s not good. You’ve put a lot more effort into your post than in your profile.

If you are 6’1 and fit then for goodness sake SELL yourself, no one else is going to do it for you. Take some pics outside where you look tall etc.

There’s no shortcut. You must put effort in.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

go into the chat rooms to make "friends"... your message will be lost. let the women find you. post more photos and chat on forums

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By *restman OP   Man
over a year ago

North wales


"I think a lot of guys have to accept that ladies are not always looking or in the mood, even if browsing . Id suggest reacting to a status that a lady is looking or a forum post that's particularly hot"

I have tried replying to status with no luck but will keep trying thank you ??

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By *restman OP   Man
over a year ago

North wales

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By *restman OP   Man
over a year ago

North wales


"[Removed by poster at 10/09/20 11:17:44]"

Thank you

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Sell yourself op, why should someone meet you?

Also get rid of the warning, that's longer than your profile

It's tough at the min, people are not looking to meet, well I'm not, but still get messages asking if I'm free etc.

Try a club or social when things start returning to normal.

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By *restman OP   Man
over a year ago

North wales


"You’ve asked for profile advice in the headline - er ok it’s not good. You’ve put a lot more effort into your post than in your profile.

If you are 6’1 and fit then for goodness sake SELL yourself, no one else is going to do it for you. Take some pics outside where you look tall etc.

There’s no shortcut. You must put effort in. "

Thanks for advise I'll try make it better

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

I’d say you need to sell yourself, appear cheerful and approachable. Take a look at other guy’s profiles and see what elements appeal and what don’t.

Also decide what you want from the site. Do you want quick DTF meets or do you want friendships that develop into longer term arrangements. Do you want to meet single ladies or couples etc. Then tailor your profile to that!

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By *restman OP   Man
over a year ago

North wales


"Sell yourself op, why should someone meet you?

Also get rid of the warning, that's longer than your profile

It's tough at the min, people are not looking to meet, well I'm not, but still get messages asking if I'm free etc.

Try a club or social when things start returning to normal. "

Thank you will remove warning, hopefully clubs will open soon

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By *restman OP   Man
over a year ago

North wales

Sorry for ?? In replys was trying to put smilie

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By *restman OP   Man
over a year ago

North wales


"go into the chat rooms to make "friends"... your message will be lost. let the women find you. post more photos and chat on forums"

Thank you

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By *restman OP   Man
over a year ago

North wales


"I’d say you need to sell yourself, appear cheerful and approachable. Take a look at other guy’s profiles and see what elements appeal and what don’t.

Also decide what you want from the site. Do you want quick DTF meets or do you want friendships that develop into longer term arrangements. Do you want to meet single ladies or couples etc. Then tailor your profile to that! "

Thank you

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By *restman OP   Man
over a year ago

North wales

Thank you for all your advice have changed my profile, have a look and tell what you think

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