FabSwingers.com forum: Bi queries

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I've had myself down as bi for a long time now and due to some new found freedom decided to explore a gay saunahouse. I had a lot of fun, a lot of chatting, not getting too involved in any hooking up.

I did start to make out with a guy towards the end of my visit, but found that I wasn't physically aroused. Mentally I was loving it, but I couldn't seem to prove it was all working!

It might have just been performance anxiety, but I've never had it with women.

Any advice? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing guys doesn't do anything for me tbh, unless there's a real good bit of chemistry.

Stick a cock in my mouth however..

I wouldn't worry about it, relax and explore and find out what works for you x

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

"So I've had myself down as bi for a long time now and due to some new found freedom decided to explore a gay saunahouse. I had a lot of fun, a lot of chatting, not getting too involved in any hooking up.

I did start to make out with a guy towards the end of my visit, but found that I wasn't physically aroused. Mentally I was loving it, but I couldn't seem to prove it was all working!

It might have just been performance anxiety, but I've never had it with women.

Any advice? Xx"

Don’t find guys attractive and don’t like kissing unless it’s really passionate. Kissing woman is so different and passionate. Guy fun is cock cock cock. Stress free guys enjoying being horny

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

You may just enjoy the fantasy element rather than the actual reality. It’s not unusual to find the actual act is much less pleasurable than you originally thought. For example another guy can tend to grip your cock a lot harder than a woman (or yourself) taking some of the pleasure out of the meeting.

Don’t deny yourself a bit of experimentation again but if you’re not into, that’s fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will be back..The itch will return...Trust me lol.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

It's just performance anxiety. Every guy gets it at some point

Sometimes too much excitement can work against you in the form of nerves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely sounds like it was just nervous energy

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