FabSwingers.com forum: Disappearing profiles

By *rincess Phoenix OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Had an incident that has made me think I'm crazy!

I read a guy's update that he couldn't understand why he couldn't get any messages or replies when "fat, old, ugly men" do - that should have been a warning flag but I read his profile liked what I saw and we started messaging, arranged a social for this morning and now his messages and profile have disappeared from Fab completely, not a trace. In 2 years on here that has never happened I'm very confused. Obviously it's his loss but still makes me wonder what's going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He deleted his profile. End of story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or you’ve been blocked

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By *otsolittlesecretWoman
over a year ago

prestatyn

As above.. when you close your account all messages delete now.

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By *otsolittlesecretWoman
over a year ago

prestatyn

"Or you’ve been blocked

If your blocked you can still see messages. But if they leave the site everything vanishes

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Maybe he really was the fat old ugly man so left...

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

He left the site

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By *rincess Phoenix OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Thanks everyone I'm just annoyed as he messaged last night to confirm!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

His partner found out?

Time wasters/ghosters are anathema to me. No one is entitled to an explanation, but a bit of common decency goes a long way.

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

As a fella, I'd feel embarrassed, if I couldn't pull as well as fat ugly old boy's

And I'm a old boy

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

We had that quite a bit a couple of years ago. A lot of fantasists about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just experienced this myself... Mind boggling as to why they would do it but nowt stranger than folk...

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By *rincess Phoenix OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"As a fella, I'd feel embarrassed, if I couldn't pull as well as fat ugly old boy's

And I'm a old boy

You are definitely not old, I tend to go for 50 and over usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a fella, I'd feel embarrassed, if I couldn't pull as well as fat ugly old boy's

And I'm a old boy

You are definitely not old, I tend to go for 50 and over usually"

Well your liking for the over 50s is quite rare on Fab. As one myself I know!! And having been ghosted twice now I totally empathise with your feelings. Wish we could post their pictures somewhere as a warning to others.. not crimewatch but more like 'SwingWatch'

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I've had quite my share of contacts who want to have me round to do all sorts of things. And then evaporate...

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Ha yep or the men that profess to want to share you then when you get asked on a social with another man throw all their toys out of the pram. Oh to find a man that means what he says ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Similar thing, i was chatting with a lady who suddenly disappeared only to reappear with a different profile the day after, starting chatting and then disappeared again. This was within two weeks

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"As a fella, I'd feel embarrassed, if I couldn't pull as well as fat ugly old boy's

And I'm a old boy

You are definitely not old, I tend to go for 50 and over usually"

Aha!

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

I think, there are people who "can" and people who "can't ".

I just wish, those who "can't", would stop trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone I'm just annoyed as he messaged last night to confirm! "
. If i had a pound for every time that has happened to me i would be a rich man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had an incident that has made me think I'm crazy!

Probably a woman pretending to be a man and she had lost her fake cock so bottled the meet.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"Had an incident that has made me think I'm crazy!

Probably a woman pretending to be a man and she had lost her fake cock so bottled the meet. "

Now there’s a twist.

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