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"Do you send a face photo with your first message? Your OP is a lot longer and more thought out than your profile. More effort on your profile and better pictures required. " I see, I'll have a look at working on my profile, it still doesn't exactly get hundreds of views though. I always send a face picture as standard because I'm pretty sure people like to see who they're speaking to. Unfortunately I'm not the best at taking photos (it's just me and at the moment I've not got any mirrors for full body shots!) | |||
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"Do you send a face photo with your first message? Your OP is a lot longer and more thought out than your profile. More effort on your profile and better pictures required. I see, I'll have a look at working on my profile, it still doesn't exactly get hundreds of views though. I always send a face picture as standard because I'm pretty sure people like to see who they're speaking to. Unfortunately I'm not the best at taking photos (it's just me and at the moment I've not got any mirrors for full body shots!)" If you go to a gym or somewhere like that you could take more pictures there The fact is that most women get tons of messages I tend to only look at the first dozen profiles at the top of the list when I decide to read messages and may not reply to any of them. It just depends who is at the top when I feel like being chatty It goes the other way as well. I don’t always get replies to my messages. I just delete my sent box, block those who aren’t interested in me and move on. Having an inbox full doesn’t mean that there is anyone in there I actually want Good luck | |||
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"Do you send a face photo with your first message? Your OP is a lot longer and more thought out than your profile. More effort on your profile and better pictures required. I see, I'll have a look at working on my profile, it still doesn't exactly get hundreds of views though. I always send a face picture as standard because I'm pretty sure people like to see who they're speaking to. Unfortunately I'm not the best at taking photos (it's just me and at the moment I've not got any mirrors for full body shots!) If you go to a gym or somewhere like that you could take more pictures there The fact is that most women get tons of messages I tend to only look at the first dozen profiles at the top of the list when I decide to read messages and may not reply to any of them. It just depends who is at the top when I feel like being chatty It goes the other way as well. I don’t always get replies to my messages. I just delete my sent box, block those who aren’t interested in me and move on. Having an inbox full doesn’t mean that there is anyone in there I actually want Good luck " I'll definitely be going to the gym again once COVID calms down. For now I'm avoiding it. To be honest that's something else that was present in my mind, sometimes people come to window shop and don't want to read an inbox full of "fuck me now", or that I get buried under a load of messages like that. It's just a bit of a pain when it feels like it's that way every single time. The other thing is I don't want to be overly persistent if a woman just isn't interested so it makes it harder to tell. | |||
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"Do you send a face photo with your first message? Your OP is a lot longer and more thought out than your profile. More effort on your profile and better pictures required. I see, I'll have a look at working on my profile, it still doesn't exactly get hundreds of views though. I always send a face picture as standard because I'm pretty sure people like to see who they're speaking to. Unfortunately I'm not the best at taking photos (it's just me and at the moment I've not got any mirrors for full body shots!) If you go to a gym or somewhere like that you could take more pictures there The fact is that most women get tons of messages I tend to only look at the first dozen profiles at the top of the list when I decide to read messages and may not reply to any of them. It just depends who is at the top when I feel like being chatty It goes the other way as well. I don’t always get replies to my messages. I just delete my sent box, block those who aren’t interested in me and move on. Having an inbox full doesn’t mean that there is anyone in there I actually want Good luck I'll definitely be going to the gym again once COVID calms down. For now I'm avoiding it. To be honest that's something else that was present in my mind, sometimes people come to window shop and don't want to read an inbox full of "fuck me now", or that I get buried under a load of messages like that. It's just a bit of a pain when it feels like it's that way every single time. The other thing is I don't want to be overly persistent if a woman just isn't interested so it makes it harder to tell. " Your profile is a bit bland. It’s all very beige. Nothing wrong with it but nothing to stand out either. Even your pictures are beige. I like colourful stuff and sometimes jokes or things in pictures make me reply. Get some interesting pants at least and get rid of all the beige | |||
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"Do you send a face photo with your first message? Your OP is a lot longer and more thought out than your profile. More effort on your profile and better pictures required. I see, I'll have a look at working on my profile, it still doesn't exactly get hundreds of views though. I always send a face picture as standard because I'm pretty sure people like to see who they're speaking to. Unfortunately I'm not the best at taking photos (it's just me and at the moment I've not got any mirrors for full body shots!) If you go to a gym or somewhere like that you could take more pictures there The fact is that most women get tons of messages I tend to only look at the first dozen profiles at the top of the list when I decide to read messages and may not reply to any of them. It just depends who is at the top when I feel like being chatty It goes the other way as well. I don’t always get replies to my messages. I just delete my sent box, block those who aren’t interested in me and move on. Having an inbox full doesn’t mean that there is anyone in there I actually want Good luck I'll definitely be going to the gym again once COVID calms down. For now I'm avoiding it. To be honest that's something else that was present in my mind, sometimes people come to window shop and don't want to read an inbox full of "fuck me now", or that I get buried under a load of messages like that. It's just a bit of a pain when it feels like it's that way every single time. The other thing is I don't want to be overly persistent if a woman just isn't interested so it makes it harder to tell. Your profile is a bit bland. It’s all very beige. Nothing wrong with it but nothing to stand out either. Even your pictures are beige. I like colourful stuff and sometimes jokes or things in pictures make me reply. Get some interesting pants at least and get rid of all the beige " I'll work on the pants side of things! To be honest I'd like to take some better pictures but it's difficult when I'm not Stretch Armstrong and dont bother with selfie sticks! What recommendations would you make to mix them up aside from more colour? | |||
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"Do you send a face photo with your first message? Your OP is a lot longer and more thought out than your profile. More effort on your profile and better pictures required. I see, I'll have a look at working on my profile, it still doesn't exactly get hundreds of views though. I always send a face picture as standard because I'm pretty sure people like to see who they're speaking to. Unfortunately I'm not the best at taking photos (it's just me and at the moment I've not got any mirrors for full body shots!) If you go to a gym or somewhere like that you could take more pictures there The fact is that most women get tons of messages I tend to only look at the first dozen profiles at the top of the list when I decide to read messages and may not reply to any of them. It just depends who is at the top when I feel like being chatty It goes the other way as well. I don’t always get replies to my messages. I just delete my sent box, block those who aren’t interested in me and move on. Having an inbox full doesn’t mean that there is anyone in there I actually want Good luck I'll definitely be going to the gym again once COVID calms down. For now I'm avoiding it. To be honest that's something else that was present in my mind, sometimes people come to window shop and don't want to read an inbox full of "fuck me now", or that I get buried under a load of messages like that. It's just a bit of a pain when it feels like it's that way every single time. The other thing is I don't want to be overly persistent if a woman just isn't interested so it makes it harder to tell. Your profile is a bit bland. It’s all very beige. Nothing wrong with it but nothing to stand out either. Even your pictures are beige. I like colourful stuff and sometimes jokes or things in pictures make me reply. Get some interesting pants at least and get rid of all the beige I'll work on the pants side of things! To be honest I'd like to take some better pictures but it's difficult when I'm not Stretch Armstrong and dont bother with selfie sticks! What recommendations would you make to mix them up aside from more colour?" Just practice with angles and black and white ones are always nice | |||
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"Do you send a face photo with your first message? Your OP is a lot longer and more thought out than your profile. More effort on your profile and better pictures required. I see, I'll have a look at working on my profile, it still doesn't exactly get hundreds of views though. I always send a face picture as standard because I'm pretty sure people like to see who they're speaking to. Unfortunately I'm not the best at taking photos (it's just me and at the moment I've not got any mirrors for full body shots!) If you go to a gym or somewhere like that you could take more pictures there The fact is that most women get tons of messages I tend to only look at the first dozen profiles at the top of the list when I decide to read messages and may not reply to any of them. It just depends who is at the top when I feel like being chatty It goes the other way as well. I don’t always get replies to my messages. I just delete my sent box, block those who aren’t interested in me and move on. Having an inbox full doesn’t mean that there is anyone in there I actually want Good luck I'll definitely be going to the gym again once COVID calms down. For now I'm avoiding it. To be honest that's something else that was present in my mind, sometimes people come to window shop and don't want to read an inbox full of "fuck me now", or that I get buried under a load of messages like that. It's just a bit of a pain when it feels like it's that way every single time. The other thing is I don't want to be overly persistent if a woman just isn't interested so it makes it harder to tell. Your profile is a bit bland. It’s all very beige. Nothing wrong with it but nothing to stand out either. Even your pictures are beige. I like colourful stuff and sometimes jokes or things in pictures make me reply. Get some interesting pants at least and get rid of all the beige I'll work on the pants side of things! To be honest I'd like to take some better pictures but it's difficult when I'm not Stretch Armstrong and dont bother with selfie sticks! What recommendations would you make to mix them up aside from more colour?" At least use the timer on your phone, and outdoors pics are good, prop the phone against a tree. | |||
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"Do you send a face photo with your first message? Your OP is a lot longer and more thought out than your profile. More effort on your profile and better pictures required. I see, I'll have a look at working on my profile, it still doesn't exactly get hundreds of views though. I always send a face picture as standard because I'm pretty sure people like to see who they're speaking to. Unfortunately I'm not the best at taking photos (it's just me and at the moment I've not got any mirrors for full body shots!)" When you send a message most people look at your profile first. If your profile or profile pictures are not their liking you are not getting a reply no matter how good you think your message is. | |||
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