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Workmate fling conundrum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a workmate who i get on really well with and we have a laugh together. I fancy her but don't seem to be able to bring the conversation round to see if she would fancy have a fling with me. Any advice how to do this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she fancied, you'd know by now. Leave it be before it turns awkward. Who knows how long you'll have to work together.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, i think that is why i have never brought it up because i know how awkward it would be afterwards if she didn't fancy me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Difficult isn't it. So awkward if she doesn't feel the same way, very awkward if you're thinking "fling" and she's thinking "relationship", possibly extremely awkward if you go ahead and it all ends badly. But, it could be the best thing to happen to both of you.

Without being rude are you both free to pursue a relationship?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm in an open relationship and she lives with someone but they seem to live separate lives going by what she has said to me, so not sure what is going on and maybe we are best just staying great mates

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Phantom flan flinger ?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I have a workmate who i get on really well with and we have a laugh together. I fancy her but don't seem to be able to bring the conversation round to see if she would fancy have a fling with me. Any advice how to do this ? "

Don't do it, it will end in tears

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm in an open relationship and she lives with someone but they seem to live separate lives going by what she has said to me, so not sure what is going on and maybe we are best just staying great mates "

If only we had a crystal ball .

We had a fling at work, so far it's lasted 40 years.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

yeah some people just flirt for the sake of flirting but actually would never have anything romantic or physical with you. You know if she really wanted you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't play with anyone at work or in my normal network of friends. Just makes it so awkward.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"I have a workmate who i get on really well with and we have a laugh together. I fancy her but don't seem to be able to bring the conversation round to see if she would fancy have a fling with me. Any advice how to do this ? "

I have flirted with a married women I work with for a while now, last week things took an interesting turn and we ended up in bed together, the sex has great an no weired feeling after. Already planning when we will do it again

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