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By *iceguy1979 OP   Man
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

So even though my wife knows I’m on here and regularly sees messages and does some replying why is it still deemed that some married men can’t contact women, I mean I’m gonna try hard to impress you and I’m going to go out of my way to be nice, really don’t get it

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Me personally I had the "cool and encouraging wife" turn women scorned and, let's just say, that was enough to decide not to have anything to do with attached people..... I know obviously she was a total nut job, now! But heyho lol

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By *iceguy1979 OP   Man
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Me personally I had the "cool and encouraging wife" turn women scorned and, let's just say, that was enough to decide not to have anything to do with attached people..... I know obviously she was a total nut job, now! But heyho lol"

Last thing anyone needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So even though my wife knows I’m on here and regularly sees messages and does some replying why is it still deemed that some married men can’t contact women, I mean I’m gonna try hard to impress you and I’m going to go out of my way to be nice, really don’t get it"

I wouldn't be chuffed if your wife claimed to be replying to me via your profile

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By *iceguy1979 OP   Man
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"So even though my wife knows I’m on here and regularly sees messages and does some replying why is it still deemed that some married men can’t contact women, I mean I’m gonna try hard to impress you and I’m going to go out of my way to be nice, really don’t get it

I wouldn't be chuffed if your wife claimed to be replying to me via your profile "

If she said who it was, why not ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So even though my wife knows I’m on here and regularly sees messages and does some replying why is it still deemed that some married men can’t contact women, I mean I’m gonna try hard to impress you and I’m going to go out of my way to be nice, really don’t get it

I wouldn't be chuffed if your wife claimed to be replying to me via your profile

If she said who it was, why not ?"

I wouldn't believe a word of it

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"So even though my wife knows I’m on here and regularly sees messages and does some replying why is it still deemed that some married men can’t contact women, I mean I’m gonna try hard to impress you and I’m going to go out of my way to be nice, really don’t get it

I wouldn't be chuffed if your wife claimed to be replying to me via your profile

If she said who it was, why not ?

I wouldn't believe a word of it"

Tbh I would be dubious too. I've had messages off a guys profile claiming to be his Mrs looking to set up a meet for him before. Just made me think it was a desperate attempt by a guy to get laid.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So even though my wife knows I’m on here and regularly sees messages and does some replying why is it still deemed that some married men can’t contact women, I mean I’m gonna try hard to impress you and I’m going to go out of my way to be nice, really don’t get it"

don't concentrate on the people who don't want you to contact them and focus on the ones who do.

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By *iceguy1979 OP   Man
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"So even though my wife knows I’m on here and regularly sees messages and does some replying why is it still deemed that some married men can’t contact women, I mean I’m gonna try hard to impress you and I’m going to go out of my way to be nice, really don’t get it

don't concentrate on the people who don't want you to contact them and focus on the ones who do.

"

Lovely comment thank you

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

If I (Mr) like a woman I’ll message her from this profile and tell it how it is. It is what it is, I’d say roughly half are ok with it and half are unsure, or it’s not for them. Which is fine , but I wouldn’t have a single profile and be married, it’s asking for trouble

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By *rink Me xxWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire


"So even though my wife knows I’m on here and regularly sees messages and does some replying why is it still deemed that some married men can’t contact women, I mean I’m gonna try hard to impress you and I’m going to go out of my way to be nice, really don’t get it

I wouldn't be chuffed if your wife claimed to be replying to me via your profile

If she said who it was, why not ?

I wouldn't believe a word of it"
Same.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Yeah having her send or reply to messages via your single profile is a bit strange, and will give most pause for thought.

If she wants to interact on here or be involved in any way, why not just have a couple's profile which you can both use, or that she can run, or even why not just make her own profile with which to send and receive messages?

To me, it seems like a pretty simple issue with an equally simple solution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So even though my wife knows I’m on here and regularly sees messages and does some replying why is it still deemed that some married men can’t contact women, I mean I’m gonna try hard to impress you and I’m going to go out of my way to be nice, really don’t get it"

If your wife is aware of your playing then surly you’re not cheating but to be fair if we received a message from your wife we’d find it a tad strange!!!

Phone call or Skype not so much!!

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The issue is so many men claim she knows but only a small percentage do so most don't believe any saying she does.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

The truth is that in swinging. Trust is not a common commodity.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The truth is that in swinging. Trust is not a common commodity."

It isn’t, we trust nobody. Experience tells us this is wise

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"So even though my wife knows I’m on here and regularly sees messages and does some replying why is it still deemed that some married men can’t contact women, I mean I’m gonna try hard to impress you and I’m going to go out of my way to be nice, really don’t get it

don't concentrate on the people who don't want you to contact them and focus on the ones who do.

"

Exactly this

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I would suspect many people ideally would want someone not attached (cheating or with permission) when it come to a single guy. Since there is a huge selection of men on here there is no need to settle for an attached man if you'd rather prefer them not attached.

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