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What constitutes Vanilla?

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By *dmanet OP   Couple
over a year ago

london

Would appreciate any insight as to what constitutes "Vanilla" in the context of this community.

We are not into BDSM, so does that immediately put us into the Vanilla category?

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

I'd put you in the FAF category personally

Fit as fook!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think being in fab and being part of the lifestyle Def makes you not vanilla.

Not being into BDSM would suggest that your not into kink, though not all kink is BDSM mind!

Either way... Don't worry about the labels and just enjoy yourselves!

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By *dmanet OP   Couple
over a year ago

london


"I'd put you in the FAF category personally

Fit as fook!!!! "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called vanilla all because I won’t give or receive rimming

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By *dmanet OP   Couple
over a year ago

london


"I think being in fab and being part of the lifestyle Def makes you not vanilla.

Not being into BDSM would suggest that your not into kink, though not all kink is BDSM mind!

Either way... Don't worry about the labels and just enjoy yourselves!"

Appreciate the response!

I suppose it comes down to communication and knowing what each person/couple mean by kinky fun!

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By *dmanet OP   Couple
over a year ago

london


"I got called vanilla all because I won’t give or receive rimming

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Sounds a bit excessive! We are just trying to find our way through the grey area between lights off military missionary and being hung from the ceiling via electrified nipple clamps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

vanilla To me in ur normal sex ie one on one sex normal oral sex

None vanilla sex to me is dirty sex that you really wouldn’t want to tell anyone about you know take 2-3 guys in a day or spitroat watersports bdsm and uther kinks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha

Best laugh is I’m definitely not vanilla

Just no what I dislike n never want to try

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By *dmanet OP   Couple
over a year ago

london


"vanilla To me in ur normal sex ie one on one sex normal oral sex

None vanilla sex to me is dirty sex that you really wouldn’t want to tell anyone about you know take 2-3 guys in a day or spitroat watersports bdsm and uther kinks xx"

Fair de-lineation

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

I would think by being on this site and being involved in the scene would by definition make you non vanilla.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

My clothes when I'm shopping, vanila.

My clothes when I'm going to a club , in your face and as far from vanila as you can get.

Think of your on fab your not vanila x

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

For us, vanilla is one on one 'normal sex' with very few kinks etc.

Non vanilla is being on here but levels of non vanilla are scalable because everyone has different kinks and desires and comfort levels. Dont stress too much about what others say or think. The most important thing is to enjoy it and make sure you find a couple or person that is into what you are and respects your limits.

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster


"Would appreciate any insight as to what constitutes "Vanilla" in the context of this community.

We are not into BDSM, so does that immediately put us into the Vanilla category? "

If your into swinging then your not vanilla.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different people have different definitions of the term, as stated if you’re on here I wouldn’t class you as vanilla, there are many levels of kink, fetishism, find what your happy with.

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By *dmanet OP   Couple
over a year ago

london

Appreciate all the supportive responses, thank you!

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

Vanilla = lights off, missionary , blow job only on mans birthday.

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By *oson-BlueCouple
over a year ago

North Kent


"Haha

Best laugh is I’m definitely not vanilla

Just no what I dislike n never want to try "

Amen to that if people can't understand and respect your do's and dont's they are not worth your time

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I'm totally vanilla and not a true fabber as i won't have sex with just anyone or everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got called vanilla all because I won’t give or receive rimming

Sounds a bit excessive! We are just trying to find our way through the grey area between lights off military missionary and being hung from the ceiling via electrified nipple clamps "

I’m still laughing out loud for reading this last bit

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By *aughty Little SecretsCouple
over a year ago

Wetherby

We are talking flavours

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