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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well after at least a year here and with no luck at all I really have to ask is there any point continuing especially as there are no "socials" that would get me the ever so required verification ?

Yes I understand that the fit body hung like a horse "black bulls" ( as they're described) normally get looked at first I'm not daft but surely guys who are average have some thing to offer .

Oh well rant over now to wallow in self pity.

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Pity u have fair size cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the compliment

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

nottingham

No problem

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Can't see priv picks ladies most love your cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've changed the photos

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Im hung like a chicken and i prance around in a dress ,(before lock down) I had no problems getting meets with men women and couples, you have a lot going for you OP so don't give up, x

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Given that you were planning on giving up over a year ago, yet are still here I'll hold on the advice I was going to give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have just checked your photos and they are not very flattering.

You need to smile and not look so grumpy and surprised.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

The key to meeting is socialising at clubs or events for most part, like that you get to meet in person rather than sending mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do these look at me threads ever work, sounds harsh, but thats how it comes acreoo, if we were going to leave we just would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you get out of swinging what you have put in, its not just about sending mail, get to a club or social, make some effort , the guys that do do get meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile pic looks ten years younger Atleast than the rest of your pics

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"you get out of swinging what you have put in, its not just about sending mail, get to a club or social, make some effort , the guys that do do get meets"

Which is nigh on impossible with the admin shutting down meet me now pages. Clubs are suffering too. Be patient, it might pay off.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Well after at least a year here and with no luck at all I really have to ask is there any point continuing especially as there are no "socials" that would get me the ever so required verification ?

Yes I understand that the fit body hung like a horse "black bulls" ( as they're described) normally get looked at first I'm not daft but surely guys who are average have some thing to offer .

Oh well rant over now to wallow in self pity.

"

Can you men please stop telling women what we like? You have no idea so just stop.

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By *orkshireBeef26Man
over a year ago

Kirkella

Snap same here...

Been on FAB over a year and nothing..

Chatted to a few and made a new Friend but nothing else...

Andy Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you get out of swinging what you have put in, its not just about sending mail, get to a club or social, make some effort , the guys that do do get meets

Which is nigh on impossible with the admin shutting down meet me now pages. Clubs are suffering too. Be patient, it might pay off."

some socials are still happening, weve been to one since covid, aslong as you social distance you can still get to meet people, its no more dangerous than walking down the pavement, infact probably safer, i dont know of many 2m wide pavements or shops with 2m wide isles, and its been proven that maskes dont do anything, and alot dont wear them anyway, im not dead yet, so if you are carefull then no peoblem

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By *ackieSteveCouple
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Have just checked your photos and they are not very flattering.

You need to smile and not look so grumpy and surprised."

Exactly what I was going to say.

In your pictures you don't look any fun at all. Smile!

Take a picture in a nice dress shirt or even a suit.

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"Well after at least a year here and with no luck at all I really have to ask is there any point continuing especially as there are no "socials" that would get me the ever so required verification ?

Yes I understand that the fit body hung like a horse "black bulls" ( as they're described) normally get looked at first I'm not daft but surely guys who are average have some thing to offer .

Oh well rant over now to wallow in self pity.

"

If you want that little green tick then feel free to PM me and we can arrange a video chat to confirm you are who you say you are.

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"Well after at least a year here and with no luck at all I really have to ask is there any point continuing especially as there are no "socials" that would get me the ever so required verification ?

Yes I understand that the fit body hung like a horse "black bulls" ( as they're described) normally get looked at first I'm not daft but surely guys who are average have some thing to offer .

Oh well rant over now to wallow in self pity.

Can you men please stop telling women what we like? You have no idea so just stop. "

I know exactly what you like before you do....

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

No point in staying if it's getting to you,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for popping in, OP

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Well after at least a year here and with no luck at all I really have to ask is there any point continuing especially as there are no "socials" that would get me the ever so required verification ?

Yes I understand that the fit body hung like a horse "black bulls" ( as they're described) normally get looked at first I'm not daft but surely guys who are average have some thing to offer .

Oh well rant over now to wallow in self pity.

Can you men please stop telling women what we like? You have no idea so just stop.

I know exactly what you like before you do.... "

OK cocky!

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"Well after at least a year here and with no luck at all I really have to ask is there any point continuing especially as there are no "socials" that would get me the ever so required verification ?

Yes I understand that the fit body hung like a horse "black bulls" ( as they're described) normally get looked at first I'm not daft but surely guys who are average have some thing to offer .

Oh well rant over now to wallow in self pity.

Can you men please stop telling women what we like? You have no idea so just stop.

I know exactly what you like before you do....

OK cocky! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for popping in, OP "

???? Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yes I understand that the fit body hung like a horse "black bulls" ( as they're described) normally get looked at first

"

This is simply not true and indicates a poor understanding of why you have not had any success

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

Maybe not having your profile hidden would help.

If you send a message how can people see your profile

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

General rule of thumb OP, if you do ok socialising and meeting in the real world then you'll do ok on here.

If you struggle in real life then why do you think it will be any different on here?

Sorry to hear FAB isn't working for you and good luck elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are still clubs to play in, if you know where to look...

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Well after at least a year here and with no luck at all I really have to ask is there any point continuing especially as there are no "socials" that would get me the ever so required verification ?

Yes I understand that the fit body hung like a horse "black bulls" ( as they're described) normally get looked at first I'm not daft but surely guys who are average have some thing to offer .

Oh well rant over now to wallow in self pity.

Can you men please stop telling women what we like? You have no idea so just stop.

I know exactly what you like before you do....

OK cocky!

"

I'm waiting.....

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Well after at least a year here and with no luck at all I really have to ask is there any point continuing especially as there are no "socials" that would get me the ever so required verification ?

Yes I understand that the fit body hung like a horse "black bulls" ( as they're described) normally get looked at first I'm not daft but surely guys who are average have some thing to offer .

Oh well rant over now to wallow in self pity.

"
. Before Covid19 did you look to attend the organised socials we had in London or were they awkward to get to.Did you apply for membership to any of the London clubs or go to any of the non members clubs and spa in London or were they awkward to get to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't read all the thread but, without doubt, swinging as it was has died a death. Go back 10 years or so and there were lots of attractive couples meeting via here. All the ones I knew have long left. Since then it's just become a chat site and an "advertising site" for swingers clubs (hence the same boring old advice to everyone of "get yourself down to a club"). Personally I can't stand the cattle markets full of heffers which masquerade as swingers clubs. So, OP, you'll actually have more luck finding a sex partner shopping in Sainsburys than you will on here - FACT.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Well after at least a year here and with no luck at all I really have to ask is there any point continuing especially as there are no "socials" that would get me the ever so required verification ?

Yes I understand that the fit body hung like a horse "black bulls" ( as they're described) normally get looked at first I'm not daft but surely guys who are average have some thing to offer .

Oh well rant over now to wallow in self pity.

. Before Covid19 did you look to attend the organised socials we had in London or were they awkward to get to.Did you apply for membership to any of the London clubs or go to any of the non members clubs and spa in London or were they awkward to get to."
. Looking at your location I would advise you to google AbFabs & Kestrels as they may be not too far for you to attend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well after at least a year here and with no luck at all I really have to ask is there any point continuing especially as there are no "socials" that would get me the ever so required verification ?

Yes I understand that the fit body hung like a horse "black bulls" ( as they're described) normally get looked at first I'm not daft but surely guys who are average have some thing to offer .

Oh well rant over now to wallow in self pity.

"

Changed your mind??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was under the impression these places where not operating due to covid and other issues related to the council ( it's possible I'm mixing them with somewhere else but hey I will look into both places

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"I was under the impression these places where not operating due to covid and other issues related to the council ( it's possible I'm mixing them with somewhere else but hey I will look into both places

Thanks "
. AbFabs & Kestrels are currently closed due to Covid19 what I meant was did you not look into them pre Covid19 keep a eye on their website so when they do open you can attend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Admittedly no and that I have to hold my hands up to but I'll definitely look into them for the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven't read all the thread but, without doubt, swinging as it was has died a death. Go back 10 years or so and there were lots of attractive couples meeting via here. All the ones I knew have long left. Since then it's just become a chat site and an "advertising site" for swingers clubs (hence the same boring old advice to everyone of "get yourself down to a club"). Personally I can't stand the cattle markets full of heffers which masquerade as swingers clubs. So, OP, you'll actually have more luck finding a sex partner shopping in Sainsburys than you will on here - FACT. "

Hahahahaha, bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven't read all the thread but, without doubt, swinging as it was has died a death. Go back 10 years or so and there were lots of attractive couples meeting via here. All the ones I knew have long left. Since then it's just become a chat site and an "advertising site" for swingers clubs (hence the same boring old advice to everyone of "get yourself down to a club"). Personally I can't stand the cattle markets full of heffers which masquerade as swingers clubs. So, OP, you'll actually have more luck finding a sex partner shopping in Sainsburys than you will on here - FACT. "

what a charmer, heffers lol, wander why you havnt had a meet from here either, single men really dont help themselves, then blame everyone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't agree with the other person's opinions tho he is entitled to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't agree with the other person's opinions tho he is entitled to them "

in the same way we are intitled to not meet rude and ignorant people who make no effort on thier profiles, then moan that they dont get a shag within ten mins of joining, like i said before, you get out what you put in, make no effort and you wont get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had any problems on here. In fact I met my partner here a year ago! Socials are a good place to start, and there are some being arranged, albeit social distancing. Also try cam rooms and clubs when they open. And stop wallowing and trying too hard!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Has he gone yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has he gone yet? "

Apparently not.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

In my experience on here and in clubs it’s the average guys that do best. The idea that it’s only the sculpted guys with big dicks is only touted by guys who can’t get a meet. Your profile and pics are your shop window. Get better pics. Smile in them ffs! Write an interesting profile and use spell check.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thing to do is relax. People use the site for all manner of reasons. Having a fumble with someone they’ve barely met is one tiny part of it. The notion that women are just sitting in their houses wet & eager for all manner of cock so invites will be flying out is nonsensical.

It may be that one day you will be fucking that horny housewife from Macclesfield but then again you might just end up wanking alone into a sock to pictures on your phone.

PS If any woman is out there eager for my cock please PM me. For the love of God. Please, please, please...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've seen a few profiles and in all honesty many look like they've fallen onto a guillotine and been beheaded

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"I've seen a few profiles and in all honesty many look like they've fallen onto a guillotine and been beheaded "

Oh wow.... just wow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has he gone yet? "

no he keeps sending us messages argueing the advice weve given him, im just about to block him, some just will never learn

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But There are only so many socks in the world tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has he gone yet?

no he keeps sending us messages argueing the advice weve given him, im just about to block him, some just will never learn"

At least he has found a way to get himself some attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

didnt get a chance to block him, he obviously has a hissy fit about us telling the truth, and to be fair trying to help him, and he blocked us before we could, some people just dont listen to what they dont want to hear, abit sad really

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Another one bites the dust...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go then

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Haven't read all the thread but, without doubt, swinging as it was has died a death. Go back 10 years or so and there were lots of attractive couples meeting via here. All the ones I knew have long left. Since then it's just become a chat site and an "advertising site" for swingers clubs (hence the same boring old advice to everyone of "get yourself down to a club"). Personally I can't stand the cattle markets full of heffers which masquerade as swingers clubs. So, OP, you'll actually have more luck finding a sex partner shopping in Sainsburys than you will on here - FACT. "

This heffer loves clubs and I get plenty of cock so it works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP left fab.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I dont think there is a single guy here who does not have that thought

I have been here years and can count the meets I have had on one hand.

The problem with this scene is that people especially the wine are extremely picky and specific of what they want. This is no bad thing but does mean that you will wait a long time before you get anywhere is what it is

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