FabSwingers.com forum: Couples - what and how bought you to swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, something I am curious about. What bought you to swinging, and how did you start,

Was it a case of you were watching a TV program, and it touched on the subject. Was it a night out and one of you got chatted up, what was your previous sex life, did you have an adventurous past, were you very vanilla. Just curious really. I love the fun of a threesum, but always wondered what makes a couple want to invite someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr here, for as long as I can remember I’ve always preferred threesome or Cuck/Hotwife/Cheating porn so I suppose I conditioned myself. After a few years with E I approached the subject and was denied, but over the years she’s warmed to my fantasies and kinks and here we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A chat about fantasies whilst d*unk and then Nickey kissing a female friend when d*unk led to some amazing sex and eventually we found our way here

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

A trip to the local sex club, was then introduced to Fab

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By *outhbucksCouple
over a year ago

Great Missenden

Very early on in our relationship we watch porn together - VHS back in those days! Pretty Peaches is the one film I remember - a bit quirky.

That introduced the whole concept of swapping, group sex etc to our fantasy talk.

Fast forward about 6 years and we had our 1st MFM 3some, then a couple of years after that our 1st MFMF 4some.

27ish years later and we are still going

more off than on over those years though

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Deb here I had few threesomes before Rob and told him and we decided to try swinging so went to pleasures club and loved it

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Found out hubby was bi 2 years ago ,long story short ,what nearly broke us has brought us together ,our first meet who we met on another site said to come here so we did ,havent looked back as its it satisfies both our needs ,a little "hobby" we share ...

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

When we were first together before we married and about 20 we went to London with a male and female friend we shared a room and on the first night they started to play we just listened to them and with out making a sound, the next night they soon started and a lot louder we then started it was plain we all were enjoying it this went on for 4 days, we regularly found excuses to to do this when ever we could we then went camping we were so close and legs over each other we were soon all touching each other

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We used to talk about our fantasies, and experiences we’d had before we met each other, and soon agreed we wanted to share a woman together, and share ourselves with her. We googled ‘swinging’ and Fab came up...the rest is history!

We had an amazing first meet, that probably helped steer us onwards. The story of that first meet is on here, there’s a link to it at the end of our profile...

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

Ours was a random drink with some people we kind of new. Girls started flirting and kissing so then we all had some soft swap fun at home. We discussed it but never chased it for a few years after. Then again it happened with a totally random couple at a gig and was unplanned and so sexy. We do love the idea of random meets but in reality we know it has to be a little more planned . Its was so hot that we realised it cant be chance so we signed up here. Now we are just exploring our boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I badgered my wife for awhile, until she finally agreed....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we met on fabs, I think my profile at the time said I wanted to be a hotwife so it was on the table from the off.

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

We started going to Last Tuesday Society evenings in London, which to us felt a bit like the movie "Eyes Wide Shut", without the sex. But they tended to be masked, sultry and with a bit of an "edge".

Then an impromptu visit to a nudist spa (BGHS) whilst on a weekend in Brighton ... Felt oh so naughty..

A little time later with some trepidation we tried *gulp* some clubs (Eurekas and Le Boudoir), which we both enjoyed and slowly progressed from there.

We've always taken our time, quite selective and enjoyed our journey.

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By *ivelaughlove16Couple
over a year ago

norfolk/Suffolk border

We met on fab as 2 singles then decided to set up couples profile ,enjoyed going to clubs and parties and still do but started meeting guys for 3some fun as well ,males fantasy but female enjoys it as well !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the very early days of us dating, we worked in the same place - I dared her to let me fuck her over my managers desk, or she had to come with me to a swingers club.

We did fuck over our managers desk, and we still went to a swingers club. Win win!

(That first visit was mostly spent in the corner of the club both looking like rabbits caught in headlights)

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By *rSpriteandMsClitBangCouple
over a year ago

hadleigh

We actually met on Fab. I'm a lot more experienced than Mr Sprite though, I'd had several threesomes before being married, and then more fun after joining Fab (once I left the husband). Mr Sprite and I then met on here so swinging was a given for us from the outset.

C (her)

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By *aige675Woman
over a year ago

North of London

My boyfriend was being an arse to me on a night and we were in a park and I was sobbing at being made to feel under average when oa guy dressed in drag told him to fuck off and leave me alone. He spent the rest of the evening with me rather than going to his event. We have been together ever since and so the subject was pretty easy to bring up.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"A trip to the local sex club, was then introduced to Fab"

Exactly the same for us although we did both pull in the club that first night, beginners luck, , tbh not sure we are even swingers, don't particularly like 3sums or bi-piles, just like beautiful souls, knowing, fucking and dating them, separate rooms, separate nights, separate countries even. Apply within

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Seed laid with a chance remark during one of our sessions and naughty curiosity pushed us over the edge.

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By *latterscottonCouple
over a year ago

Manchester/london

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, Nawty is very bi, so it gives us both a chance to invite someone else to join us and both have some fun as a bit of an escape from normal life.

Made some good friends through it as well as we see it as more of a social occasion with added benefits, so often dinner and drinks and then to the bedroom to have some fun.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We were on here before we met. We met on here. But I love to here the stories of how couples found this together, especially the ones who have been together for years and monogamous. Its a brave move when there is years of a relationship at risk.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"My boyfriend was being an arse to me on a night and we were in a park and I was sobbing at being made to feel under average when oa guy dressed in drag told him to fuck off and leave me alone. He spent the rest of the evening with me rather than going to his event. We have been together ever since and so the subject was pretty easy to bring up."

Love this

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By *J swingCouple
over a year ago

North

My self Jackie wanted to play with a woman so we joined a different swingers site meet a woman invited her here then started going to clubs,found we liked them and had my 1st m f m in a spa fast forward many years we still enjoy the clubs also don't mind the occasional house meet

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By *incent Vega87Man
over a year ago

Dundee

I'm not a swinger. Yet. But that is my aim.

My ex and I spoke endlessly about our fantasies - threesomes, foursomes, swapping. We ended up on here, with her mostly taking the lead in contacting people. We never actually met anybody off here (or anywhere else). Even though we got invited to a party, she talked us out of it.

So here I am, single guy trying to make my way in the jungle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started because Sarah talked in her sleep

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We started because Sarah talked in her sleep

Best reason yet. What did.she say

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We met on here as singles and fell for each other. Took a break to develop our relationship then set up a couples profile too. Been together nearly 5 years now. We dont swing that often but have been to some great socials and clubs. Hope to get back in to it more when things clear up. Jack

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By *uds1Couple
over a year ago

lanark

For us it was a d*unk night at a party,I ended going home to bed, Mrs ended back at a cpls house d*unk and ended up in bed with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and Jay been together over sixteen and half years. Totally monogamous to around this time last year. Married ten years this year with a lil one. We started trying kink and bdsm play 3 plus years ago. Loved it and now live a D/s life as life permits. We'd been on fab for a while but not met and just as we explored and talked we made the leap together with mff then mfm then recently mfmf. There's been wobbles and "discussions" but we are stronger than ever and love our lifestyle!! Jade x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are still in the early stages. Been a couple 6 years all reasonably vanilla (pegging is vanilla isn't it?) for most of that time. Fairly recently (last weekend) we decided to try a club on the basis that we would mainly just watch. Was so sexy, it didn't take much for us to join in and will definitely be continuing this journey. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea pegging is vanilla

maybe with a lil bit of sauce though

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By *heQueenOfSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We're a young couple with high sex drive, been together around 10yrs. I think there is only so much you can do alone and we always love to keep it exciting and try new stuff. Anyway Mr found the site and made a account, we both spoke about it but wasnt to sure from the start. Anyway Mrs slowly started talking to a local guy. After about a week of chatting we wanted to see how things would go. Spur of the moment Mrs got ready and there was a knock at the door. Mr stayed upstairs wile Mrs went to answer the door, a short time after this man left. Mrs came upstairs with a smile on her face, a slutty look in here eye and a face plastered in cum. Gained a Hotwife ever since...

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We met each other on here

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