FabSwingers.com forum: Next step - swinging with GF advice.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey,

Myself and my girlfriend have discussed swinging a few times and she has shown some receptiveness however when I try to discuss it further shes goes a little shy. She is definitely bi curious (we have got as far as her having some soft action in front of me and another guy when her and her friend were d*unk) and is also very attracted to black men. Any tips on how to further this without her feeling pressured?

By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Just keep talking. Tell her how these things make you feel, and see where the conversation goes.

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Hey,

Yep, speak to her, ask her if she wants to take it further *when she is sober* if she says yes then ask how she'd like to move forward. If she says no, don't mention it again.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We talked for years we knew exactly what we both wanted and expected before taking the plunge