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By *penmindedfun2019 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bolton

hi

Im interested in arranging a bi night. My fantasy is a relaxed night or day in a rented apartment with lots of people playing but enough people there so I can do some chilling and watching as well as playing.

I've never organised anything before tho. Are there things I need to be wary of? Noise? People damaging the place? Noone turning up or too many turning up?

What if people didn't get on and it kicked off? Does that ever happen?

I always think swingers are easy going people but guess it must occasionally happen.

(I'd be planning this as female on my own.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good to me

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By *igjim69Man
over a year ago

scunthorpe

Love to be there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count me in.

I don't think you'll have no worry about getting a fair few people willing for this to happen

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"hi

Im interested in arranging a bi night. My fantasy is a relaxed night or day in a rented apartment with lots of people playing but enough people there so I can do some chilling and watching as well as playing.

I've never organised anything before tho. Are there things I need to be wary of? Noise? People damaging the place? Noone turning up or too many turning up?

What if people didn't get on and it kicked off? Does that ever happen?

I always think swingers are easy going people but guess it must occasionally happen.

(I'd be planning this as female on my own.) "

Sounds delicious. I’ve organised a few small parties myself and have loved it. Intimate in every sense, starting in a nice hotel bar and proceeding to a big bedroom when the time is right. Happy to help in any way or maybe you’d like to join one of my gatherings to start with?

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"hi

Im interested in arranging a bi night. My fantasy is a relaxed night or day in a rented apartment with lots of people playing but enough people there so I can do some chilling and watching as well as playing.

I've never organised anything before tho. Are there things I need to be wary of? Noise? People damaging the place? Noone turning up or too many turning up?

What if people didn't get on and it kicked off? Does that ever happen?

I always think swingers are easy going people but guess it must occasionally happen.

(I'd be planning this as female on my own.)

Sounds delicious. I’ve organised a few small parties myself and have loved it. Intimate in every sense, starting in a nice hotel bar and proceeding to a big bedroom when the time is right. Happy to help in any way or maybe you’d like to join one of my gatherings to start with?"

We'd love to join one of your gatherings, when it's safe to do so of course

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"hi

Im interested in arranging a bi night. My fantasy is a relaxed night or day in a rented apartment with lots of people playing but enough people there so I can do some chilling and watching as well as playing.

I've never organised anything before tho. Are there things I need to be wary of? Noise? People damaging the place? Noone turning up or too many turning up?

What if people didn't get on and it kicked off? Does that ever happen?

I always think swingers are easy going people but guess it must occasionally happen.

(I'd be planning this as female on my own.)

Sounds delicious. I’ve organised a few small parties myself and have loved it. Intimate in every sense, starting in a nice hotel bar and proceeding to a big bedroom when the time is right. Happy to help in any way or maybe you’d like to join one of my gatherings to start with?

We'd love to join one of your gatherings, when it's safe to do so of course"

Oh good, I’ll drop you a line. Looks like I may have another party to plan when we can

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd start small and learn as you progress. A managed property leaves you with fewer things to worry about, so some room(s) in a hotel or self-catering facility, may be best. Staff will be nearby to help to support you, if needed. It also limits the scope to a smaller number of rooms, that are more easily supervised by you.

I'd not do it solo either - get at least 1 other to share it.

Fewer people turn up than say they will. Plan accordingly. Ir will help if you have net people beforehand. You'll have a better feel for reliability and interests, rather than what people may say to get an invite. Beware of the men who claim bi interest just to get to women.

It can be tough to get sufficient overlap of mutual interests amongst others. People can be unusually selective, with 1 or all genders. Likewise the specific types of sexual play that they engage in.

Having enough people who are exhibitionists can be helpful as well as those who prefer groups to 1 on 1 but are flexible.

If club bi nights were running, you could potentially meet others at them. As they're all social only at present, this limits you temporarily. Real experiences are better than conceptual.

Half a dozen or so people might be a reasonable first group to organise. It might need a good 10 as the starting figure as 50% may not turn up or stay long. You could have more turn up for pre-action socials, possibly letting some continue to the sex part, if they fit the bill and your numbers are low.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is very interesting indeed

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"hi

Im interested in arranging a bi night. My fantasy is a relaxed night or day in a rented apartment with lots of people playing but enough people there so I can do some chilling and watching as well as playing.

I've never organised anything before tho. Are there things I need to be wary of? Noise? People damaging the place? Noone turning up or too many turning up?

What if people didn't get on and it kicked off? Does that ever happen?

I always think swingers are easy going people but guess it must occasionally happen.

(I'd be planning this as female on my own.)

Sounds delicious. I’ve organised a few small parties myself and have loved it. Intimate in every sense, starting in a nice hotel bar and proceeding to a big bedroom when the time is right. Happy to help in any way or maybe you’d like to join one of my gatherings to start with?

We'd love to join one of your gatherings, when it's safe to do so of course"

Me too

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

I have organised bi house parties before; there is always a risk of people not turning up, I don't think there is as much the risk of too many people showing up...

I guess what you would have to bear in mind--in my humble viewpoint--is that a truly good swingers' house party is like going to a swingers' club. NOBODY is obliged to play with anybody; no matter how many people show up, if it's so intimate in terms of numbers that it turns out to be a mini social, then so be it!

I will be hosting, co-hosting and attending house parties when it's safe to do so, so please keep me in mind OP Xx

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By *unloving33-IndianMan
over a year ago

Hounslow

Good idea.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"Good idea."

Sounds like you might well be a kinky kindred soul

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"Good idea."

Have you actually been to the same vicarage that I've been or is it a different venue in Sutton? It's a bit of a small world xx

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By *andL-LiverpoolCouple
over a year ago

Huyton

We would definately be interested x

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By *aylorsFlameCouple
over a year ago

North West

Sounds like fun xx

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By *tormchasingCouple
over a year ago

Billericay

Oh my, can we come please?

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"We would definately be interested x"

It would be nice indeed to meet a nice Liverpool couple again, it’s been long enough x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good to us

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By *inamicMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

U can count me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count us in too please. X love a good mingle in every dimension.

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